it's indeed fraustrating. Im so feed-up with these attempts of any sort each time i/we go out. So for me and for the rest of my close friends, if we don't go out in group we better stay home, thu' boring. On the otherhand, better be bored than be abused. I may have exaggerated in looking into this matter but with countless events that I've witnessed, heard, and even experience. No doubt it's best to stay in the room if no one will accompany me out (once in a bluemoon, i go out with my friends and be very, very careful).