how does one have negative thoughts even before arriving? once you get here then i feel it is fair to judge, then again not all will feel the same way, wat is negative to others may not be negative to the rest. have an open mind and if one thinks this is the pits then there are other places worse than here.......then again this is just my most humble opinion after being here for 3.5 yrs and still not ready to go home yet...:O)

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......