mauvecraze...i posted since i am in desperate need of help from people who have kind heart and the right level understanding in teh situation we are in. As a mother, i am ready to do whatever it may take to save my kids and to keep them with me. The worst situation that could happen if this continues for long time (husband not able to find suitable job and me with staying with my current 7K p/m salary) is to send teh kids back home, since we can no longer afford to have them with us. Plus the fact that I am looking for a better paying work to be able to make ends meet. Anyway, I sincerely thank you for your suggestion. God Bless you!