and if the question is asked from a woman's perspective, "she" would say this:

1. Love: if she's never been married, and she's in her low 20's.
2. Success: if she has degrees, and she's in her 30's.
3. Wealth: if she's in her mid 40's and looking, regardless of her background and education.

I am not that good in guessing what the husband would have said.