I agree with ragnarok, just learn the basic... no fancy moves... go straight to the eyes...practice timing and master your range..

I once read from the reader's digest a man who was attacked by a black panther...he gouged the panther's eye when he had the chance, and it saved his life. The panther ran in pain, whatmore for man can endure.

BTW, thanks all fellows who had contributed "meaningfully". I hope ladies can stumble on this forum and learn a thing or two.