yes, same for me, I'd reported little movement in the week before, had check-ups right up until the day before, but as I was still getting at least ten kicks a day they considered all was well, that was the 'standard' back then ('93). During my next pregnancy I made sure I was admitted to hospital over the same week that I lost my first, and if I had any worries at all during the whole of the pregnancy, no matter what time of day or night, I went up to the hospital for a fetal heart trace - everyone understood my concern. It was all very stressful but in the end I had a big, beautiful, healthy baby girl.

You never forget the babies you lose and I wish your friend well for the future and I hope she is able to go forward with another pregnancy when she is ready.

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"There's this thing called being so open-minded your brains drop out". - Richard Dawkins