cut off some of those fingers...lol I can understand where fnurse is coming from...seems as you get more mature(nice way of saying older!)..the choices are more and more slim. The nice guys are more difficult to locate because they DON'T go out..its the others that do..Nice ones you might meet in church or religious based functions, etc. Its like hunting and fishing..you have to use the right bait and location, or you'll end up with trash...