but contraception sometimes just doesn't work. I know..my cousin was using something and they STILL got pregnant..luckily they were in a financial position to raise a child and still do alright. Again...we still don't know the whole story but then again we don't NEED to know the whole story..its their lives, their decision..

I DO wonder where hubby comes into this though..if at all possible he should be there with her to support her in whatever happens..he was there in the beginning, obviously!