I don't know what the issue is Gypsy- if you have already made up your mind about marriage and you feel so strongly about your OP....who cares what others think? Live your own life and forget what others think. To say that marriage should be tossed out altogether is immature and selfish. Just because you don't believe in it, and rightly so that's your choice, you have to remember that many people do and that's their choice!!

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