men do women...my answer is probably not. We are not generally wired the same. Women tend to be more emotionally involved than men are. Men are distanced in their emotions, for the most part and react in a totally different way to the same situations than women do. Women think in a much more convoluted manner (not bad but are more into the "whys" things are/aren't working...men just look at the problem and act/react.)Men tend to take people at face value and women look deeper into the persona. But...this is just a personal viewpoint and observation.

I do think that its also a matter of how you are raised in your childhood. I hung out with my dad a lot, so tend to think more along the male mindset than most women...my sister is the exact opposite(one of the reasons I want to choke her at times...lol).

Now, that all being said..we each can act how we choose to. NEVER change your personality to fit whomever you are dating/married to...it will never work if you do..one or both of you will not be happy because you aren't being your true self.