"Long term relationship can be part of the commitment, but never be a commitment. Two persons can be there in a long relation because both of them are enjoying the company, but when it comes to commitment stage because we need to know what would be the end of this ... someone will turn his/her back then for sure ...."
When I was about 19 I guess I met my first 'love'. We went out together for over a year and holidayed with his parents etc. One evening at a party someone asked me "are you going to marry Andrew". I hardly drew a breath as I blurted out "marry him? don't be so ridiculous!".
Unfortunately he was just outside the door of the room and heard me. I felt dreadful but, as much as I was sincerely fond of him, the last thing I wanted to do at that age was to get married and commit myself for life.
"Long term relationship can be part of the commitment, but never be a commitment. Two persons can be there in a long relation because both of them are enjoying the company, but when it comes to commitment stage because we need to know what would be the end of this ... someone will turn his/her back then for sure ...."
When I was about 19 I guess I met my first 'love'. We went out together for over a year and holidayed with his parents etc. One evening at a party someone asked me "are you going to marry Andrew". I hardly drew a breath as I blurted out "marry him? don't be so ridiculous!".
Unfortunately he was just outside the door of the room and heard me. I felt dreadful but, as much as I was sincerely fond of him, the last thing I wanted to do at that age was to get married and commit myself for life.