I don't think we are talking about wolves and sharks here, who prey on women who are uneducated in the ways of men.

When I talked about 'sweet little lies' I meant, for instance, that I have met ram in person and I flirt with him outrageously (I'm old enough to be his mother but he's just so cute!). He, in turn, seems to enjoy the fun and flirts back with me and, even though I know it's make believe and 'sweet little lies', it really makes my day and I like to think he gets a buzz out of it too!

Call me a silly old whatsit if you like, but it's just harmless fun and I guess I'm the same with most chaps if the 'giggle' is reciprocated, always have been.

I learned a long time ago which ones I should and shouldn't mess with.