I have now seen the post referred to - I hadn't looked back far enough. It's where ram says something about romance being the first way to keep a woman happy.

What a cute little creep he is HAHAHAHAHA! love him really :D

He's possibly got a point though, cos what better way to put us ladies off our guard than by sweet talking us, even though we suspect it's all lies *grin* Sheesh, the times I fell for that one ... *sigh*