Don't you have Internet Security? A friend of mine once had a computer hacking package and wanted to try it out on me. I trust him, so I turned all the security OFF on my computer and then, ONLY THEN, could he tell me what I was doing on my computer.

I'm no techie, but I don't understand how anyone can see what you are doing on your computer just by having the IP. Maybe one of our QL whizkids could enlighten me on this.