I've been like a mushroom...kept in the dark and fed sh&&t.lol

but...you'll be alright with time. Just take your own time and get to know yourself again...we always end up changing as we grow older and experience life (no you're not old!). You've got one of those personalities that lends itself to people wanting to be around you. Just don't abuse it... I don't want to hear you saying..."so many women, so little time"

Seriously though...my thoughts are with you...sorry things didn't work out like they should have.