gotta see for myself (it's how I am)

oh Oryx! Dear old 'party planner Cynthia Payne' - that's going back a bit. She held her 'parties' in Crystal Palace, just up the road from where I used to live. Just found this on BBC site:

"Mrs Payne first hit the headlines in 1978 when police raided her home to find a sex party in full swing, attended by middle-aged and elderly men exchanging luncheon vouchers for sexual entertainment.

Mrs Payne, 53, said: "This is a victory for common sense. But I have to admit all this has put me off having parties for a bit."

ROFL