Been married 26 years...we very rarely argue..used to in the begining and boy those could be something..lol
As you get adjusted to each other, you'll find you tend to not mess with the small items..they aren't worth getting upset about.
Nowdays...if there is an issue, we just talk about it calmly...for the most part. I have gotten to where I won't back down if I think I am right, but I also have to state very clearly WHY I think the way I do, as does he. Sometimes its just a matter of what was said, in front of whom, and in what tone of voice, that was the misunderstanding.
Life's too short to argue...enjoy each other for the individual they are and learn to accept without losing your own personality in the long run tho...
interesting topic.
Been married 26 years...we very rarely argue..used to in the begining and boy those could be something..lol
As you get adjusted to each other, you'll find you tend to not mess with the small items..they aren't worth getting upset about.
Nowdays...if there is an issue, we just talk about it calmly...for the most part. I have gotten to where I won't back down if I think I am right, but I also have to state very clearly WHY I think the way I do, as does he. Sometimes its just a matter of what was said, in front of whom, and in what tone of voice, that was the misunderstanding.
Life's too short to argue...enjoy each other for the individual they are and learn to accept without losing your own personality in the long run tho...