I agree with you Kamaran, girls who studied in Co-ed schools are smarter than the other girls when it comes to dealing with guys and vice versa.

But I don’t think it has got anything to do with these guys staring at girls or following them in the malls. Just admiring beautiful things is not a sin. But the question is with what intention you are looking at it. If you have any evil intention then it's wrong. These girls who show/expose a lot to attract people will feel bad if you guys dont look at them..lol they are doing it to seek attention. So if you are not interested please don’t look. at them. Be honest, if you see a good looking girl in the mall. won't you look at her again? (no offense meant).

With regards to the girls dancing at the DJ nights, they are enjoying themselves and of course they don’t mind guys looking (I said looking not touching) at them, otherwise they wouldn’t be dancing in public right?

Best thing is to avoid eye contact, which is some sort of approval signal for them to follow you or for whatever they are doing.

Its all because of the lack of values they got from home. Mothers got the responsibility to teach boys how to treat women with respect.