I think you might be right tmp112, i called her and she was with some other guy already! she was bragging about how he is taking her shopping and getting her a new phone! i dont have alot of money, but im not broke either. I wanted for us to save for our future. I did spend alot of money trying to keep her satisfied, but i guess it just wasnt enough. That fu**n hurt hearing another man in the background after she been with me for over a year! and we just broke up recently, so u might b right, she just wanted an excuse out! excuse me people, i gotta get off, im teary eyed.