I was in an identical situation to you last year. I lived in Riyadh with my family for 8 1/2 years after leaving the UK and finally found it was time to change. We were used to compound living so didn't want to look at stand-alone villas or apartments here in Doha. I think you can find a 3 bedroon villa on a small compound for QR14k and would strongly encourage the move, even at a small cost.

Although the cost of living is slightly higher here I think its worth dipping into your pocket a bit. The quality of life is far better here. Your wife and kids will thank you for it in the long run. I made the same move last year and have no regrets.

Please feel free to contact me if you have any other queries. Remember to factor in you will not have to pay out for trips to Bahrain any more! Your package looks decent overall.

Kaizer