I am married to an Asian woman,....and I have often asked her the same thing....much of it does tend to be about being treated badly by men of their own race....so who can blame them?

As for money, in the UK when/where we met,..I was piss poor......she and hers are the rich ones!...So money definetly didnt come into it.

As for commitment, going through both good and bad times together,..as we have....none of my western counterparts even thought of hanging around!...When the going got tough.....the weak got going!.....I know for a fact that because of her culture, and upbringing...she is always going to be loyal too....aside from which...the asian women actually look and act like ladies.....not falling about pissed up and swearing like a typical UK fem..............I am most certainly the cat who has got both the cream......and the cherry on top!