Well personally, i met my wife while i was at college in malaysia some 14 years ago. I lived in asia for around 14 years before coming here, and have seen my fair share of fat sad western blokes with young pretty asians women. Disgusting, yes, will it change in the near future, no.

As far as the career bit goes, the mrs is every bit as career oriented as me, and if i asked her to stay at home she'd rip me a new one.

thats my 2 pennies worth.. (and another QL point yay! heh)