It looks like you need real help real soon. By real help I mean something outside the forum.. something one-on-one face-to-face… true honest consultation from someone with some age and wisdom on their side and trust on your side. My humble advice is meet with an older lady you trust and respect and vent out what’s on your mind. Make SURE it’s a LADY. Notice, the sort of situation you’re in WILL entice a million guys to suddenly turn into compassionate doves who have no ulterior motive on their minds other than listening to you and “helping” you with your problem. Please don’t fall for that kind of stuff; it will create bigger problems than you already are in, guaranteed!
Also, please stop trying to solve this problem through posting on the forum because notice that in order to resolve a problem of this magnitude and in order to get valuable realistic advice, you have to talk openly and intimately without holding back. This is definitely NOT safe to do on the forum. After all, Qatar is a real small country. The more information you give out about yourself, the more at risk you become because you don’t know just who reads this forum and you’re putting it out there in public that you’re vulnerable. That’s just not smart at all. In my opinion, you’ve already given away too much information, at least more than I would ever be willing to share about myself on a public forum. You’ve already put pieces of information about your life that can lead to finding out your true identity, and that’s not safe or wise. So, please stop trying to resolve this problem with continual posting on the forum.
At any rate, you REALLY should meet with an older wiser lady as soon as you can, be it through this forum or through some other venue. Internet chat and forum-posting is just not the kind of medium that will help you sort out a problem of this caliber. Trust me on that one. You REALLY need real-life an aunt-like figure to talk you out of your problem.
Regardless of who you decide to meet, make sure she meets the following criteria:
1- She is a lady
2- She is older (40 – 60 years of age)
3- She has a family or she’s a mother (not a 50-year-old single woman still “trying out new adventures”, you need someone who understands family life)
4- She is as close as possible to your racial, ethnic, and religious background, and it would be great if she’s from a similar socio-economic class. The closer this aunt-like lady is to your background, the better the advice will be.
5- Men are not a good option to meet with regardless of how wonderful/professional they may be.
I know I may be sounding like a prick with this constant insisting on not having a man help you sort out this problem, but the reason I insist is because this precisely the kind of situation where the odds and chances are highest for a classic take-advantage-of-a-weak-woman situation.
I am giving you a professional opinion here… this is the kind of field I worked in for years… so please take my advice quiet seriously.
Natasha,
It looks like you need real help real soon. By real help I mean something outside the forum.. something one-on-one face-to-face… true honest consultation from someone with some age and wisdom on their side and trust on your side. My humble advice is meet with an older lady you trust and respect and vent out what’s on your mind. Make SURE it’s a LADY. Notice, the sort of situation you’re in WILL entice a million guys to suddenly turn into compassionate doves who have no ulterior motive on their minds other than listening to you and “helping” you with your problem. Please don’t fall for that kind of stuff; it will create bigger problems than you already are in, guaranteed!
Also, please stop trying to solve this problem through posting on the forum because notice that in order to resolve a problem of this magnitude and in order to get valuable realistic advice, you have to talk openly and intimately without holding back. This is definitely NOT safe to do on the forum. After all, Qatar is a real small country. The more information you give out about yourself, the more at risk you become because you don’t know just who reads this forum and you’re putting it out there in public that you’re vulnerable. That’s just not smart at all. In my opinion, you’ve already given away too much information, at least more than I would ever be willing to share about myself on a public forum. You’ve already put pieces of information about your life that can lead to finding out your true identity, and that’s not safe or wise. So, please stop trying to resolve this problem with continual posting on the forum.
At any rate, you REALLY should meet with an older wiser lady as soon as you can, be it through this forum or through some other venue. Internet chat and forum-posting is just not the kind of medium that will help you sort out a problem of this caliber. Trust me on that one. You REALLY need real-life an aunt-like figure to talk you out of your problem.
Regardless of who you decide to meet, make sure she meets the following criteria:
1- She is a lady
2- She is older (40 – 60 years of age)
3- She has a family or she’s a mother (not a 50-year-old single woman still “trying out new adventures”, you need someone who understands family life)
4- She is as close as possible to your racial, ethnic, and religious background, and it would be great if she’s from a similar socio-economic class. The closer this aunt-like lady is to your background, the better the advice will be.
5- Men are not a good option to meet with regardless of how wonderful/professional they may be.
I know I may be sounding like a prick with this constant insisting on not having a man help you sort out this problem, but the reason I insist is because this precisely the kind of situation where the odds and chances are highest for a classic take-advantage-of-a-weak-woman situation.
I am giving you a professional opinion here… this is the kind of field I worked in for years… so please take my advice quiet seriously.
Good luck.