man both the relation is realy hard to work out as they both need patience and especialy this online relation ship is realy realy very very hard to maintain. what i feel is u only stay with ur online girl till the time you dont have ne realy girl in your life as soon as you get a real girl in ur life u will slowly n steadly loose interst in ur online girl n will start making move toward the girl in ur life i mean in ur real life not virtual life and i think this reaction is very much natural