I had the biggest problem because beauty to me comes in various shades ,colors, sizes. When I was younger and dated in the US. I never really got into the set type thing. I dated large women ( who were sexier than any super model), super models types, regular, skinny, long hair, short hair, white, black, latino, dark skinned, wheatish(Desi term), light skinned. The ladies I like the most are the ones who loved themselves no matter their physical makeup. It made it easier to be around them. I don't ever remember getting the dreaded question "how do I look". Its easier to love someone who loves themselve. You don't have to spend a lot of wasted time trying to boost their ego and self esteem.
Han,
I had the biggest problem because beauty to me comes in various shades ,colors, sizes. When I was younger and dated in the US. I never really got into the set type thing. I dated large women ( who were sexier than any super model), super models types, regular, skinny, long hair, short hair, white, black, latino, dark skinned, wheatish(Desi term), light skinned. The ladies I like the most are the ones who loved themselves no matter their physical makeup. It made it easier to be around them. I don't ever remember getting the dreaded question "how do I look". Its easier to love someone who loves themselve. You don't have to spend a lot of wasted time trying to boost their ego and self esteem.
Act your age not your shoe size