i have been in one long distance relationship n frankly speaking it is very tiresome n it need lot of patience n sometime it becomes very iritating n become very hard to handel n the only way to escape is not to talk with ur love for quite a sometime my story is quite long n there is no time for explanation all i can say on this topic is that it is jus not possible n if u realy hell bent on making it work then try meeting ur gf or bf as much as posible this way things will be more easy which in my case was not possible