Not sure what a full-time salary would be - with your qualifications, I would say definitely not less than QR 13,000 (if housing is included, more if it isn't)

Hourly rates for private counselors run from QR 300-500/hour.

Re: benefits, definitely get them to cover schooling AND bus fees for your children (study on on the local schools first and know what fees are likely to be; Indian schools are significantly cheaper than, say, a British or American school), at a school of YOUR choice.

Get PRIVATE medical insurance coverage included (that covers you both here and abroad/back home in your country)

HOUSING is a big issue here -- very costly, get an allowance of QR 16,000/mo minimum for a family (if they don't provide a large apartment/villa for you)