Why are people harshing on Gypsy? She's expressing a personal preference that regardless of how you feel about her rationale you would very unlikely be able to disavow her of. Not only are you pretending that decisions about who we date are made rationally, you're pretending it's any of your business. It seems very open of Gypsy to discuss this with you at all. Which makes your hostile insults all the more rude and crass.