Sorry I cannot help you with schooling. I just wanted to say that I can see why you don't want to give the Jab MMR to your child. I feel just the same...

My daughter's MMR vaccine was due few weeks ago and I just couldn't take her. I read lots of research on the matter and some stuff is so scary! In a way I feel somehow gulty cos immunisation is important, we all want to protect our children from diseases. On the other hand, aren't the risks of MMR worse than the diseases themselves?
I think our countries should follow the example of Japan, who have withdrawn MMR because of the links with autism and other gastrointestinental problems.