juggling a baby and a career is the hardest thing i have ever done, especially with my line of work in t.v. which means hectic shifts and un bearable working hours. howver i always thought that when i have my baby i will be a full time mom.. but then when i had him, and saw how much his grandparents take care of him and how much they love him it made it all easier to me. i am very much attached to my baby but at the same time i can deal with my attachment to him as long as he is happy, and i made sure from he was very young that he is used to being with my inlaws alone it wouldnt be a shock to him when i left back to work... but this is all in uae...now that i am moving to doha and not having my inlaws around scares me alot..and at the same time i dont want to leave my career, so it is a very hard decision.... but i will not make the decision until i am 100% sure my baby is allright..as you said we brought those baby to the world and we are responsible for their well being.. so i will do whatever it takes to make sure he is happy and safe, even if it meant ip cameras , surprise visits, or having a neighbour keep an eye on them.
so as far as answering your question, it is hard leaving your baby behind because you are both attached to eachother, but it will only last couple of weeks and then both of you will get the hang of the new routine.. as long as you know your babys needs are met of course, and like i said my situation before was a bit different because i left him with his grandparents, so it took most of the worries off for me.
juggling a baby and a career is the hardest thing i have ever done, especially with my line of work in t.v. which means hectic shifts and un bearable working hours. howver i always thought that when i have my baby i will be a full time mom.. but then when i had him, and saw how much his grandparents take care of him and how much they love him it made it all easier to me. i am very much attached to my baby but at the same time i can deal with my attachment to him as long as he is happy, and i made sure from he was very young that he is used to being with my inlaws alone it wouldnt be a shock to him when i left back to work... but this is all in uae...now that i am moving to doha and not having my inlaws around scares me alot..and at the same time i dont want to leave my career, so it is a very hard decision.... but i will not make the decision until i am 100% sure my baby is allright..as you said we brought those baby to the world and we are responsible for their well being.. so i will do whatever it takes to make sure he is happy and safe, even if it meant ip cameras , surprise visits, or having a neighbour keep an eye on them.
so as far as answering your question, it is hard leaving your baby behind because you are both attached to eachother, but it will only last couple of weeks and then both of you will get the hang of the new routine.. as long as you know your babys needs are met of course, and like i said my situation before was a bit different because i left him with his grandparents, so it took most of the worries off for me.