Not much you can do, Steve. If you hadn't given him the finger I might say take his license plate number and complain to the police but believe me you don't want to go there. It's like travelling back in time and a complete waste of time.

I carry my 2 kids in the back seat and even when they're not there the safety seats in the back remind me to be as defensive a driver as possible. Although I do put pedal to the metal at times it's always when I'm alone and the road is relatively traffic free.

Sometimes I wag my index finger at people as if they've been naughty but it's no use.

I wish I had an on-board camera in my car to film the idiocy of some. Or just to film the tissues and rubbish they throw out of their cars.

Calm down, be especially wary of SUVs and let your wife do what she's best at; a calming influence on you. They're great at that.