Thats my opinion as well butterfly. My quick shag days are over and I want to get to know a guy before I get intimate. The problem I am experiencing is that due to the lack of women in Qatar a lot of guys are...shall we say desperate for some lovin. They want sex the first night they meet you and when they don't get it they get angry and refuse to have anything to do with you, they aren't very interested in taking things slow and I think the concept of just friends has gone flying out the window. I think that this is probably something that wouldn't occur in a place where the gender percentages were more equal.

I don't like the idea of a guy chasing after me just so he can get me in bed and than ditch me when he has.