I would like to think that the men aren't getting invloved because the traditional role of women is long dead and buried, at least in the West, although it is even happening here in the Middle East.

Most men that I have met that want a "traditional" women have set their sites to Eastern Asia. But even those women now are not as traditional as they were 10 years ago.

The world is changing and so are gender roles. It's a fact of life, and it's happened before.