MJ, you are going to get me fired, because I'm spending more time arguing on this forum than I am at work :).

MJ, you seem like a very reasonable man, for one second, if you can, I would like you to put yourself in a womens shoes. Especially an Islamic womens shoes. And imagine what it would be like to be that controlled by the men in your life, and ask yourself WHY men should have that control over you.