I don't know what kind of psychiatrists you see Aisha but the ones I've met have always said be true to yourself and do what makes you happy as long as you don't hurt others.

People of Lut, give me a break. If you want Sodam and Gerromorah (can't remember how to spell that), than perhaps it had more to do with the villagers desire to rape the angels than it had with the actual homosexual urge. Of course that didn't stop Lot from sending his daughters out to be raped, or sleeping with them later. So if you're giving me the religious aspect, does that mean its better to rape women and commit incest than it is to be homosexual?