is it possible to divorce a muslim man

I don't like divorce but if it was an arab then do it, these people are crazy

If you dislike someone so much you cannot continue. Divorce him and dont listen to twaddle rearding golden chances. Some Things do not workout so aslong as you have tried your best and know in your heart that you have then Divorce him.

Yes you can get a divorce ...

COme on guys just a simple yes or no will do... we dont know whats going on in her their life so lets just stick to the question can she or can't she....

Respected Sister,

You can do this, as well as you will get your freedom but you will loss a golden chance of making a man as good husband and an excellent friend of yours.

If you give-up now then you will never get the chance to do big things in your life. After all you are a Muslim, well Qatari cultured and a responsible person.

And by divorcing your husband is not a good solution but only running far from your life, because after some time you will become to understand the real problem.

So please be seated together and do remember your sweet memories then make the lovely home of life in both of your minds.

Well, to be "treated bad" is a relevant term. Maybe he doesn`t think that this is bad or wrong not to listen to her opinion, not to care about her needs, not to discuss any matters with her, not to give a sh*t about her emotional state...

Maybe he is involved with some other woman, which is normal for him (and could be normal for judge as well), and unacceptable for her.. All these matters are subjective. And again, who is a Judge? to prove what and to WHOME?

Or she needs to wait to the point when he beats her badly in order to get divorce?

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I doubt how you couples started out in the first place.

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Again Im so grateful with you guys for the comments, there is no wrong answers here.insults and suggestions are welcome.. I simply ask your opinions and gain info.I carefully read it all and think about it...To QL im so sorry that this issue was post but really it helps us with regards to our concerns and decision making.More power to qatar living and to all members!!!!

Qatarisun..

If she can prove he treats her badly she can be divorced right away, but if it's just that she doesn't love him then she has to go for khula'.

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Dear, Islam allow you to give divorce to your Husband and its also HALAL but ALLAH dont like this. I dont know what situation you facing now but listen dear, please try to talk with your husband, see whats are the real problems, listen from him also, make some compromises and not just only you, he also do some compromises, give your love to him even you decide to give divorce him, just give full one week to each other like a last chance, try to solve the issues, make understand problems, may be he is in trouble and that is why he get angry or never listen to you, try to listen him, see, there is a child in every man so bring out that child from your husband. Dear, Divorce is your right but try to avoid, dont talk with his friends or relatives, talk personaly, take him out with a dinner, tell him this is just last time, listen from him, tell him your problems, share each and everything, please,, this is my advice to you.....i am sure that you will change your decision.

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and what if it is husband's fault? I don't think, if the husband treated her nicely, she would like to divorce him out of the blue.. what if he doesn’t treat her well, tough with her, leaving her alone all the time, shouting, or even worse, hit her?

does she still need to pay him back? how about HIM paying her for the emotional (and possily phyical) damage?

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what you think is a reality QL...

Yeah, PrinceofDoha, I find Brit's knowledge very impressive. I even think he's a Muslim sometimes lol

i feel really good that u have a good knowledge of islamic rules , really u make my day when i read ur ans .

It is possible and in this case you'll have to pay him back what he paid you as dowry.

He might be given the chance to 'demand' something else but it's unfair. Prophet Muhammed didn't do that yet some would say the husband can demand whatever he wants not only the dowry. Crooked practice!!

You know I believe in giving it your best effort! :-P

I didn't drink the kool-aid! -- PM

I try to divorce you 15 times and you keep telling hang in there you crazy mutant...

Graduated from Xavier Institute for Higher learning.

I guess humour, just like beauty is in the eye of the beholder...or understanding, in this case. By Alexa ( as I do not plagiarize)

keeping this issue aside , please tell me about the rooms on rent you are offering in the classified section?

i would like to know more about those flats.

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thank you for all the comments either negative or positive.it really shows what kind of character as person you are..your answers reflects your own personality...really much appreciated.

Salmamohd advice iz gud. u shud try to reconcile wid ur husband n go fr divorc only if all fail

Probably Drying wood seeking attention again...

As some of them have mentioned please try to speak with your husband & if u really feel that u should get separated & go to the court & you can apply for Khula.

God help u dear!

QL is counselling centre for Stupid ppl

so in this case she has to give it back

am not passing judgment dear i just dont like when ppl tell privacy in public

dear sister if ur not happy with ur marriage anymore our prophet Muhammad has given us rite to divorce and have a happy married life.u can get divorce from ur husband and its called khula but u will not get ur mahr.

the answer to her question, ok? :-)

I didn't drink the kool-aid! -- PM

you have to return back any assets given to YOU

Make sure you take two witnesses with YOU who are muslim

if you married him in sharia,you can get a divorce as well in sharia.....but that should be the last step....i mean try each and every corner to solve your issues....if the issues still remain, only then divorce is the last possible solution in sharia

samia08 maybe she doesn't have anyone to turn to right now...

PM @ she said :I dont love my husband anymore and we are fighting almost everyday to the point that im getting fed up with him.I married him in sharia year ago and i cannot bare to live with him anymore

and i said it is personal.

ramadan kareem :-)

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yes it is possible, as britxpat said its called 'kula'a'

and she is not bringing up details. She simply asked if it is possible because she isn't knowledgeable about the shariah policy regarding divorce and she is not from here.

And as others said, it is possible and she should talk to someone in the court or a lawyer.

I didn't drink the kool-aid! -- PM

sky_diver, I think you should address this matter with your husband. No one here will help you otherwise. As for your question, in Islam, the Woman can Divorce her husband.

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am shoched !!! why you are looking for advice here ?! it `s a personal affaire I guess.

yes its is possible and you should contact a lawyar.

Yes, it is possible!

Yes , its possible. i believe it is called "khula".

I suggest you approach a cleric or similar to find out the process in Qatar.