a question...
By wacky_baby •
My friend is in a crazy situation. Believe me, i have given her all the advise i can give...but she's hard headed as she can be. To cut the story short, i post this question to help her out and get enlightenment.
QUESTION:
Are you gonna stay with the one who loves you and would do anything to make you happy? Or are you going back to the one you love and who makes you happy but doesn't love you equally the way you do?
thanks y'all...
definatly stay wid the one who loves you
becuz if you stay wid da one you love and he/she doesnt love you..one day ull have enuf, theirs so much a person can take
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Theres always love after love. So love does not count. What counts is Money and Body..
This is a no brainer... She'll definitely go back to her former lover.....
i have tried also to avoid the one i love and it is really difficult and i kept coming back. so i just let it be and wish one day it will just go away.
It's going to happen eventually, so you might as well get it over with.
If he doesn't love you as much, then nothing you do will make him love you more vice versa if you don't love him. It'll just end it disaster.
I like your advice Gypsy.
but im sure it must be hard. :(
well, if she had decided already (referring to your fist comment).. let her be.. she knows better.. she is just following her heart... best to advice her now is to work it harder so that the guy would love her back as much as she does.. :)
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I would leave them both and look for someone I love as much as he loves me.
wacky.. maybe u can take over 1 of those guys to lighten ur friends burden...lol
seriuosly..its the quality of men that women digs..some like money others prefer looks..some wants luv and others use their hooks,
i know this friend of mine who recently told me...filipinos need food as a part of their relation...i am not buying it...its just wat i heard ... its funny and can be true ..but all humans are not same again and prevously i heard "it just takes 1 pepsi"lol
its a complicated situ. so does need some effort to solve...like face them both toghether and just be frank and leave it to the guys to decide...but if they start fighting there....then u can call the 3rd guy...and runaway with him..lol.
present dilemma is all about LOVE only and not even asking if he has money or not....young pipol only look ON SWEETLOVE don't care about money...
FOR NOW STAY with the one YOU LOVE and tell your friend don't expect anything in return.(expect heartaches and lot's of disappointments)
Her mind is already close in this subject and your just wasting your energy in advising my dear.(as her friend you did try your best and gave her sensible advise already)
Try to be on her shoe and you will understand ;)
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It's a hard one. You should stay with the one who loves you (thinking sensibly) but for personal happiness you're best to go back to the one who won't love you equally. However this will only work in the short term! In the long term you are likely to be hurt/heartbroken
wacky_baby....thats what love is all about....cannot differentiate bad from good or right from wrong...
however, wish she can think right and choose right....
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the situation is that she's running back over to the guy who doesn't deserve her love at all which makes me sad. i am her friend and i just want the best for her...i am not making decisions for her nor meddling with her life. i hope she knows what she really wants in the end... :(
MD, I do not believe anything...
but since they cannot decide who loves who (as usual), my advice is 'stay where money is'... you can never go wrong with that.. :):)
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No money..no honey!
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i dont think if she will be interested in that part but some other part :D
exactly qatarisun!!! before they used to say that love can move the mountain but now its the opposite! MONEY CAN MOVE THE MOUNTAIN!!!!! HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!
MONEY IS FOREVER!! WOW! WHAT'S A THOUGHT!
the one she wants to 'be' with. Has she thought about that?
Source:
- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)
"Money is forever", since when do you believe such stupid things, QS?
"if you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with"
Makes a whole new view to plenty of men worker 'bachelors' in Industrial Area. LOL
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Both! =D
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Reminds me of this song THE ONE YOU LOVE by Glenn Frey ;D...R u gonna stay with the one who loves you or r u going back to the one you love?..
stay with the one that has a rockin arse.
Stay with the one you love and make him love you the most.
stay with the one who is wealthier
Love is coming and going… Money is forever
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"What lies behind us and what lies before us are small compared to what lies within us."
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all I can say....it's complicated....
Cogito...ergo, sum.....
I will stay Single!
"If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with". One of my favorites (Stephen Stills).
Obviously it's not a very unique constellation. There are thousands of songs dealing with it.
Or Garth Brooks: "Holding you and loving her".
Lei05 - I guest the best song to associate with her situation is "CANT BE WITH YOU TONIGHT"..
No questions asked, i will got to the one who loves me, for sure she will do everything for me rather than the one I love but i dont know what will be the outcome of our relationship.
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Since she tried both, she should know best. Mind your own business.
Its a no-brainer for me, stay with the one who loves you.
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