a question...

wacky_baby
By wacky_baby

My friend is in a crazy situation. Believe me, i have given her all the advise i can give...but she's hard headed as she can be. To cut the story short, i post this question to help her out and get enlightenment.

QUESTION:
Are you gonna stay with the one who loves you and would do anything to make you happy? Or are you going back to the one you love and who makes you happy but doesn't love you equally the way you do?

thanks y'all...

By anonymous• 1 Sep 2009 12:52
Rating: 2/5
anonymous

definatly stay wid the one who loves you

becuz if you stay wid da one you love and he/she doesnt love you..one day ull have enuf, theirs so much a person can take

peace

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By Rex Bailey• 1 Sep 2009 12:19
Rating: 3/5
Rex Bailey

Theres always love after love. So love does not count. What counts is Money and Body..

By britexpat• 31 Aug 2009 10:45
britexpat

This is a no brainer... She'll definitely go back to her former lover.....

By silenced• 31 Aug 2009 10:44
silenced

i have tried also to avoid the one i love and it is really difficult and i kept coming back. so i just let it be and wish one day it will just go away.

By Gypsy• 31 Aug 2009 10:43
Rating: 2/5
Gypsy

It's going to happen eventually, so you might as well get it over with.

If he doesn't love you as much, then nothing you do will make him love you more vice versa if you don't love him. It'll just end it disaster.

By silenced• 31 Aug 2009 10:41
silenced

I like your advice Gypsy.

but im sure it must be hard. :(

By owen• 31 Aug 2009 10:38
Rating: 3/5
owen

well, if she had decided already (referring to your fist comment).. let her be.. she knows better.. she is just following her heart... best to advice her now is to work it harder so that the guy would love her back as much as she does.. :)

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By Gypsy• 31 Aug 2009 10:33
Gypsy

I would leave them both and look for someone I love as much as he loves me.

By 220v• 31 Aug 2009 10:29
220v

wacky.. maybe u can take over 1 of those guys to lighten ur friends burden...lol

seriuosly..its the quality of men that women digs..some like money others prefer looks..some wants luv and others use their hooks,

i know this friend of mine who recently told me...filipinos need food as a part of their relation...i am not buying it...its just wat i heard ... its funny and can be true ..but all humans are not same again and prevously i heard "it just takes 1 pepsi"lol

its a complicated situ. so does need some effort to solve...like face them both toghether and just be frank and leave it to the guys to decide...but if they start fighting there....then u can call the 3rd guy...and runaway with him..lol.

By Jaryz• 28 Aug 2009 12:54
Rating: 3/5
Jaryz

present dilemma is all about LOVE only and not even asking if he has money or not....young pipol only look ON SWEETLOVE don't care about money...

FOR NOW STAY with the one YOU LOVE and tell your friend don't expect anything in return.(expect heartaches and lot's of disappointments)

Her mind is already close in this subject and your just wasting your energy in advising my dear.(as her friend you did try your best and gave her sensible advise already)

Try to be on her shoe and you will understand ;)

LOVE STILL.... CONQUERS ALL....

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By LeisaF779• 28 Aug 2009 11:36
Rating: 3/5
LeisaF779

It's a hard one. You should stay with the one who loves you (thinking sensibly) but for personal happiness you're best to go back to the one who won't love you equally. However this will only work in the short term! In the long term you are likely to be hurt/heartbroken

By happygolucky• 27 Aug 2009 22:09
happygolucky

wacky_baby....thats what love is all about....cannot differentiate bad from good or right from wrong...

however, wish she can think right and choose right....

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One life to live, live it to the fullest.

By wacky_baby• 27 Aug 2009 22:01
wacky_baby

the situation is that she's running back over to the guy who doesn't deserve her love at all which makes me sad. i am her friend and i just want the best for her...i am not making decisions for her nor meddling with her life. i hope she knows what she really wants in the end... :(

By qatarisun• 27 Aug 2009 22:00
Rating: 4/5
qatarisun

MD, I do not believe anything...

but since they cannot decide who loves who (as usual), my advice is 'stay where money is'... you can never go wrong with that.. :):)

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"What lies behind us and what lies before us are small compared to what lies within us."

Oliver Wendell Holmes

By Dracula• 27 Aug 2009 21:58
Dracula

No money..no honey!

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By DaRuDe• 27 Aug 2009 21:54
DaRuDe

i dont think if she will be interested in that part but some other part :D

By nali10• 27 Aug 2009 21:31
Rating: 2/5
nali10

exactly qatarisun!!! before they used to say that love can move the mountain but now its the opposite! MONEY CAN MOVE THE MOUNTAIN!!!!! HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!

By panda• 27 Aug 2009 21:21
panda

MONEY IS FOREVER!! WOW! WHAT'S A THOUGHT!

By anonymous• 27 Aug 2009 21:18
anonymous

the one she wants to 'be' with. Has she thought about that?

Source:

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By anonymous• 27 Aug 2009 19:56
anonymous

"Money is forever", since when do you believe such stupid things, QS?

By heero_yuy2• 27 Aug 2009 19:52
Rating: 4/5
heero_yuy2

"if you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with"

Makes a whole new view to plenty of men worker 'bachelors' in Industrial Area. LOL

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By anonymous• 27 Aug 2009 16:54
anonymous

Both! =D

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By lei05• 27 Aug 2009 16:53
lei05

Reminds me of this song THE ONE YOU LOVE by Glenn Frey ;D...R u gonna stay with the one who loves you or r u going back to the one you love?..

By flanostu• 27 Aug 2009 16:52
flanostu

stay with the one that has a rockin arse.

By Apple• 27 Aug 2009 15:49
Rating: 3/5
Apple

Stay with the one you love and make him love you the most.

By qatarisun• 27 Aug 2009 15:32
Rating: 5/5
qatarisun

stay with the one who is wealthier

Love is coming and going… Money is forever

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"What lies behind us and what lies before us are small compared to what lies within us."

Oliver Wendell Holmes

By superman09• 27 Aug 2009 15:17
Rating: 5/5
superman09

all I can say....it's complicated....

Cogito...ergo, sum.....

By anonymous• 27 Aug 2009 15:07
Rating: 4/5
anonymous

I will stay Single!

By anonymous• 27 Aug 2009 14:55
Rating: 3/5
anonymous

"If you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with". One of my favorites (Stephen Stills).

By anonymous• 27 Aug 2009 14:54
Rating: 3/5
anonymous

Obviously it's not a very unique constellation. There are thousands of songs dealing with it.

By anonymous• 27 Aug 2009 14:53
anonymous

Or Garth Brooks: "Holding you and loving her".

By north_me• 27 Aug 2009 14:53
Rating: 2/5
north_me

Lei05 - I guest the best song to associate with her situation is "CANT BE WITH YOU TONIGHT"..

No questions asked, i will got to the one who loves me, for sure she will do everything for me rather than the one I love but i dont know what will be the outcome of our relationship.

MO RIN...YUN LANG!!!

By anonymous• 27 Aug 2009 14:45
Rating: 4/5
anonymous

Since she tried both, she should know best. Mind your own business.

By anonymous• 27 Aug 2009 14:41
Rating: 3/5
anonymous

Its a no-brainer for me, stay with the one who loves you.

" Dont take life too seriously, you will never get out alive!!!"

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