What will I do to my problem?
I am already 1 month and a half here in qatar. I am presently working in a certain office. my mom and my husband are in the philippines actually my whole family are there. my husband and I decided to go here in qatar to earn and save money for our daughter. I came in first and my husband will come after. my daughter will stay at my mom's house. last night, i received a call from my mom, telling me of her heartaches. she wants me to go home and stay together. and she hates my husband because she thought, my husband let me go here in qatar to work for them(my husband and my daughter). she pointed out, why not my husband stay here and work for us? i told her, it's our decision to work both here. but time will come, my husband will stay here and i will go home to the philippines to take care of my daughter. i can abide to that, but my problem right now is, money. money to buy my husband's visa and ticket. for him to come here in qatar, immediately. I have also decided to come home because I miss my baby so badly..am not happy here anymore. pls. help?
yes you are right FU bcoz if you want to get something i ll take some time ...so dont worry just talk with ur husband and trust on him ..every thin will be fine ...
I Agree with FU..... May be you start saving asap....
fried unciocrn is very right! i'm here working in dubai and have known a lot of people who would want their spouses to follow them. and it's not a good idea to go together. not unless if you have enough budget. it's very hard to riska nd fail. you need to save first for your husband's visa and fare then you need to make sure that you will be financially stable before he will follow. and if both of you will already be stable, you could always bring your daughter and your mama.
i'm not really familiar with qatar but here in uae, women have greater chances in having work. so i think it's just right that you went ahead. focus on the reason why you are there. it's because of money. so what will happen if you will go home? you must talk to your mom in a nice way. i'm sure she will understand. you will have to undergo a process to adjust.
You problem is serious and you need to talk to your husband about it. Not with your mom. This is a problem for you and your husband and you must try and slove it without involving others. If you are seriously interested in finding a solution,wait for a few months and save some money for the visa and ticket. Nothing happens immediately in life. Take one step at a time.