what are the character of true friendship?

lynrendon
By lynrendon

i meet friend at my accomodation the first time i arrived here in doha she is from ethopia,weve been together for 2months of friendship,we shared our laughter,and crying moments...she is so nice and sweet with me...and to make my story short we are not good friend now its all bcz her attitude i dont like...she is very straight forward and very frankly she dont care about my feelings if i hurt or not about her words...the last time that i really angry with her when she was shouting with me inside KFC while we are eating....its all bcz of her ex bf keep calling me...she wants me to answer my phone and pretend that she is not around.i told her no i dont like to answer bcz i dont like to put myself into trouble for your relationship with your ex bf..and finally she accoused me that i have relation with her ex bf...i told her no bcz i dont like left over...and also i hate her bcz she is using my phone every time she wants to make call to anybody...but u know i missed our sweet day....

By keke• 9 Oct 2008 20:27
keke

hi!

you do not have to put up with such a pushover. keep ur distance from her.

By anonymous• 9 Oct 2008 11:42
Rating: 4/5
anonymous

Like all healthy relationships, true friendship should be a mutual give and take. Not only one party benefits from the relationship, but it should be both. It seems to me that you are being suffocated and need fresh air. Try to have a place away from your friend for the time being. Maybe your parting will make both of you realize how your friendship means to the two of you.

By anonymous• 9 Oct 2008 10:52
Rating: 2/5
anonymous

Go away from her...seems this is not good friendship...

By GODSGRACE• 9 Oct 2008 10:11
Rating: 2/5
GODSGRACE

this is goin to work out...

step into her shoes....see what shes goin through...imagine it was your bf calling her...would u not want to know why hes doin that.....

the guy is unintentionally or intenionally scrweing up here...i m a guy...i know...may b he likes u as a person...but offcource she will not like it....

u have to choose to b talkin to the guy or your friend..

call the guy and u r frind at one place n tell them that not to crush u in middle of thier probelms...

BE BOLD....

pm me n let me know if it worked...but dont get mind f*****...shit happens...she likes the guy n shes is just jelous...

if u r a frind plzz understand....

Raj

By sulmansaeed• 9 Oct 2008 10:08
Rating: 5/5
sulmansaeed

I think the most important quality is that you must have the same nature, its very important.

i mean to say, the one is thing about the same as other immediately speaks at that point same as one was thinking. By the Grace of God..

This is my experience in my life.

By cherukkan• 9 Oct 2008 10:06
Rating: 5/5
cherukkan

I think your personality and vision is much much different from your friend and it will be difficult for you to go through. There will be clashes always and there are possibilities of getting hurt in public. It will be better to look for someone who have similar vision and personality or at least who will be able to understand the feelings of others.

By sanjana74• 9 Oct 2008 10:00
Rating: 3/5
sanjana74

hi ,

know wht if u realy like that person, than accept both positive and negatives abt that person. coz that is the base of true friendship

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