a question for all QLers

fanonite
By fanonite

Under what circumstances do you feel most lonely? Least lonely?

By james_w• 11 Mar 2010 11:21
james_w

there is always someone who will bring up to god/religion thing!! cant we just chat with out him for once?

oh and loneless? its a horrible feeling, no one should be alone :-)

Everyone should have best friends, they are the ones who help you in life

By fanonite• 11 Mar 2010 10:54
fanonite

we are talking about human pecularities not practices..

"The more I see of the world the more am I dissatisfied with it." Jane Austen.

By Mehnis• 10 Mar 2010 21:46
Mehnis

Correct Yousef. That is why I said blessed are those who find solace and support in their own ways and means. The oneness of God and the creator is there always. Acceptance does not mean that denial of the wonders but exploration of those creations

By flanostu• 10 Mar 2010 21:34
flanostu

beer makes me happy.

By fanonite• 10 Mar 2010 21:33
fanonite

"The more I see of the world the more am I dissatisfied with it." Jane Austen.

By yousefmsh• 10 Mar 2010 21:33
yousefmsh

Mehnis , it does not need too mutch brains to think cuz it spose to be one and only one who creat this Univers and this one call God , it is very easy.

By edifis• 10 Mar 2010 21:30
edifis

I am lonely when I am alone.

By fanonite• 10 Mar 2010 21:28
fanonite

from having meaningless conversations with strangers..

"The more I see of the world the more am I dissatisfied with it." Jane Austen.

By Mehnis• 10 Mar 2010 21:26
Mehnis

Well not be able to fit in is normally construed as arrogant aloof snobbish. But the fact is that these people really have no clue as to what the fuss is all about and are afraid to even speak fearing that they may say something wrong

By Mehnis• 10 Mar 2010 21:23
Mehnis

Great to hear that Yousef. You are a blessed person who has so much faith. Lesser people like us have brains and thoughts that go beyond the known and exploration of the

the truths of the Universe. I guess maybe that is why we get lonely

By fanonite• 10 Mar 2010 21:22
fanonite

and sometimes introvert ppl are labeled as arrogant.

"The more I see of the world the more am I dissatisfied with it." Jane Austen.

By yousefmsh• 10 Mar 2010 21:19
yousefmsh

i do not feel lonley at all and i wish the day is 36 hrs to catch up the work takes too mutch time and i still need time to my family and time for my body and time for my soul reading Quran , Islamic sunna Books and others in my career and pray 5 times a day and since i am a Muslim God with me all the time then how u will feel lonley under any sercumstances after all!!!!

By Mehnis• 10 Mar 2010 21:14
Mehnis

getting together with like minded people is a delight that seldom happens. But when it does it is like sunshine bursting through. Heart really soars and you can talk laugh discuss exhange ideas and the time is nearly not enough. But sadly this is very rare, atleast for me

Not that I have any superiority attitude or I know all kind of demeanor but it is too much to suffer fools day in and day out with a fixed smile on my face just in order to be polite and not offend anyone

By anonymous• 10 Mar 2010 21:09
anonymous

i actually enjoy being an introvert sometimes. it's just sad that during those times, people think that im boring. oh well!

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"Maybe the happy ending is this, knowing after all the unreturned phonecalls, brokenhearts, through the blunders and misread signals, through the pain and embarrassment, you never gave up hope."

By fanonite• 10 Mar 2010 21:09
fanonite

crowd everyone is talking and no one is really listening.. and the bad jokes, the giggles.. i am so through with gatherings like that...but every once in a while getting together with like minded ppl is a real treat.

"The more I see of the world the more am I dissatisfied with it." Jane Austen.

By starfaith25• 10 Mar 2010 20:55
starfaith25

or is it not being able to find your purpose in life so u decided to keep yourself away from the norms? Could be a lot of reasons.

Life's a bitch and then you DIE! ;)

By Mehnis• 10 Mar 2010 20:53
Mehnis

Every reason is valid but it is all dependent on the person how to handle this. The ones that have the ability to laugh at themselves and cock a snook at fate seem to handle it better while most fall into frustration, anger and depression. I too laugh at myself most times and I am a complete loner. Very happy being with my self sometimes exploring the beyond sometimes enjoying the silence. Noise, inane stupidity and human behavior deficiency really turns me off

By Marsbar• 10 Mar 2010 20:51
Marsbar

When I think of my mum and dad who have both passed away I feel lonely and long to spend just one more day with them both but when my kids come home from school,with a big smile and kiss for their mum then I dont have time to feel lonely just love and joy.

By anonymous• 10 Mar 2010 20:41
anonymous

Or you are just disappointed with humanity so decided to stay alone.

"Live with passion, Die with style"

By starfaith25• 10 Mar 2010 20:40
starfaith25

or is it not being able to find your purpose in life so u decided to keep yourself away from the norms? Could be a lot of reasons.

Life's a bitch and then you DIE! ;)

By Mehnis• 10 Mar 2010 20:05
Mehnis

What is loneliness anyway?? Is it not being wanted or not being able to fit in?? or feeling of being abandoned? Unloved? unliked? Feeling of being in the wrong place at the wrong time? Or stems from just being unable to express? unworthy?

By starfaith25• 10 Mar 2010 19:59
starfaith25

loneliness, like happiness is all in the mind. It's a choice. If one wants to be lonely then he will be, if that's how he thinks he'd be happy...

Life's a bitch and then you DIE! ;)

By Mehnis• 10 Mar 2010 19:50
Mehnis

True Why --we cannot classify but every one needs their space and time for themselves. You may be loner because everything is superficial for you. Not many things really touch your heart. You just go along. Most likely a walk in a pine forest with the breeze singing in your ears and the whispers of leaves make you the happiest

By anonymous• 10 Mar 2010 19:44
anonymous

Mehnis I live with my heart on my sleeve and yet am a loner. Human beings aren't that easy to classify.

"Live with passion, Die with style"

By starfaith25• 10 Mar 2010 19:43
starfaith25

i have nothing against loners, i myself is one... But to answer the question that's how i get lonely most of the time... :)

Life's a bitch and then you DIE! ;)

By Mehnis• 10 Mar 2010 19:42
Mehnis

No one is an island. Humans are social creatures. The ones that live with their hearts on their sleeves love people noise attention et al. On the other hand those on a spiritual quest or someone introspecting needs a lot of space and time. They thrive on loneliness .

By fanonite• 10 Mar 2010 19:40
fanonite

as long as one is not a psychopath....

"The more I see of the world the more am I dissatisfied with it." Jane Austen.

By starfaith25• 10 Mar 2010 19:36
Rating: 3/5
starfaith25

how do loners feel lonely? Perhaps when in a big crowd.

Life's a bitch and then you DIE! ;)

By Omar Waheed.• 10 Mar 2010 19:33
Omar Waheed.

yeah i am here pajju darling

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By fanonite• 10 Mar 2010 19:32
fanonite

even if you are with someone who loves you....being by yourself gives you time for soul searching, its kind of like an excercise for your soul..

"The more I see of the world the more am I dissatisfied with it." Jane Austen.

By Pajju• 10 Mar 2010 19:21
Pajju

lol WK . u naughty boy :)

By Pajju• 10 Mar 2010 19:20
Pajju

johny_boiei after long time ? :P

By anonymous• 10 Mar 2010 19:16
anonymous

So Pajju you did only 69 all your life :P

That's the kind of virgin you are :))

"Live with passion, Die with style"

By anonymous• 10 Mar 2010 19:15
anonymous

ooh comon Pajju thats too much

By Pajju• 10 Mar 2010 19:13
Pajju

oh u here ? :P

By Omar Waheed.• 10 Mar 2010 19:10
Omar Waheed.

ohh its you pajju .. i was shocked when i read a 69 yr old virgin ... lol...

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By Pajju• 10 Mar 2010 19:04
Pajju

I'm a 69yr old virgin. I think that speaks for itself

By anonymous• 10 Mar 2010 18:42
Rating: 4/5
anonymous

Most lonely -- "Sometimes, no matter how much you love someone, they just can't love you back in the same way. And being with a person who doesn't love you back is way lonelier than beng alone." -- Grey's Anatomy

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By Formatted Soul• 10 Mar 2010 18:22
Rating: 4/5
Formatted Soul

hmmm..well I dunno what exactly...but sometimes I feel very lonely even when I am surrounded by friends and family...and at times I feel least lonely when I am alone and reading or listening to my fav. song..:) weird huh?

By fanonite• 10 Mar 2010 18:21
fanonite

i feel lonely when i am in a crowd

"The more I see of the world the more am I dissatisfied with it." Jane Austen.

By drmana• 10 Mar 2010 18:11
drmana

Most lonely when I don't find a single soul to talk to in a whole day and least when I am chatting with people around. I am very much a chatter box :-)

"It is better to be hated for what you are than being loved for what you are not."

By anonymous• 10 Mar 2010 18:06
anonymous

I am always alone but never feel lonely :)

"Live with passion, Die with style"

By anonymous• 10 Mar 2010 18:05
Rating: 2/5
anonymous

a word of what the other guy or the cop is trying to tell me I feel most lonely.

Least lonely while on QL :)

Source:

- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)

"Resident Attention Seeker"

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