Cheaters
I was happily married and we were very happy for all these years...we both are from maldives..but now a filipina who is the coworker in my husbands company is always with my husband and he is also going with her... i can sense something is going on, but not sure whether they are having an affair..the worst part is this filipina behaves like a nice person and she has 5 kids already... i have so many filipina friends ... that i cant believe b**** like this spoiling other people name in their country...
I see so many chaanges in my husband, never comes home early and even if he comes it will be early morning and he comes takes bath and go back to work at 5.30 ...in the morning.. i am totally relied on him as i dont work... when i ask him anything he shouts at me and make defensive aproach all the time..
I dont know what to do because i have 3 year old son and i am pregnant now...
Guys 1 are there ladies who spoil other ladies life.. i am so depressed and stressed abt this... i am willing to go back to my place....
what should i do.....suggestions please..
Kick him
this might be the biggest trial in your marriage my dear...hope this will be solve so soon...in our life sometimes there are things happening that really almost ruined our life..just keep on praying and im sure god will help you..god bless...stay strong for your babies...
First try to settle down and say filipina to GO TO HELL with others or Kick him and ask for Property distribution.
Report to police and make them sentence in jail till death,thats the only solution for such personality.
Dear om maui, you are right.100% right and if it hurt you I have no problem to say you sorry. But matter of fact is that I never received these type of calls or sms from anybody else and never lisnted from any body about this from others and this type of people are every where.I have lot of filipino coleagues (male and female) with me and every body have almost same story. But even as I told in my first answer that it dosent means that everybody is same.I respect my filipina coleagues and they love me too.
but here, Well, we should concentrate on problem of this lady. Try if you can help her.
God bless you
This is very sad and bad to hear. But you try to convince your husband which way you can. Remember a woman can change the life of a man. But you have to find what is the differnce he feels from you and she. Realise and work out for the best.Don't take any bad decission. God sees the truth...Wait and see
Relax ,once the honymoon is over,sure he will came back to you,
really bad
You are not the first person. They are a very common story in Doha. I honestly feeling sorry for you.
If your husband want to cheat, he can cheat with anybody. Takes two to tango.
Be strong and fight for your right and your chldrens as well...GOD BLESS!
have a heart to heart talk with your husband...if you can talk to that lady do so...make her realize that shes the reason why ur so deppressed and tell in her face that she dont have the right to do that to your family!
same story, lot of cheaters here
For me, the best thing is to talk to your husband directly and straight forward. A move reporting this to CID or Police might ruin your marriage and if your husband and the Filipina caught, then all of you will be deported. Investigate first, asked friends to see where the Filipina is living and if your intuition is correct, lodge a complaint against the Filipina and seek a help from CID but make sure to spare your husband. I also against to these kind of acts by Filipinas....but what to do yani....they are too much here....
Honestly Ms. Pinkpanther it's a big shamed for us Filipinos what you are posted here. I've heard so many stories the same yours. So sad to hear that people who are involved of this kind of affairs are only after of material things. They don't think that they hurt someone, they only think of their happiness.
May God Bless You and may this problem of yours will be solve soon.
Ms Pinkpanther, I'm so sad about what happen to your family now. The best thing to do is talk to your husband about what happen in your family now. Tell him that he should be honest to you in every questions you ask to him.
Just Pray to God that this trials you face be solve.
May God Bless you...
I think first of all you need to sit down with your husband to have a one to one chat in a grown up manner....no screaming ...no shouting ...crying etc. Even if he has fascination or liking it may not be to the extent you are thinking of. Better to talk and clear the misunderstanding instead of keeping it inside you and affecting your health.
Ultimately it all up to you. Keep the dialogue going not bickering.
Wish you all the best.
Awkhan, cheating and homewrecking is written all over the history of mankind, in all parts of the world, and you pinpoint one nationality just because you got a few crappy sms from SOME of them?
It s very sad to note that a woman takes on another woman in most extra marital affairs...I pray to God to help them know the pain a woman will go through just because of a stupid action from another woman....
I think you need to talk to your husband and confront him.
It's hard to be a wife, especially you are expecting. You supposed to get all the attention from you husband instead of all the problems.
My suggestion is, try to find out what really is going on. Is this an affair or may be your husband just busy. If you have friends that you can depend on, why dont you ask their help to check out on your husband (eg. whether he really messing around with that lady).
As you already have a child, any decision must made carefully. I do understand how hopeless you are as staying home mom.
You have to be strong, think positive, dont show your weakness, try to win your husband's heart again. Otherwise, you might need help from your family back home.
All my prayers for you dear, may god help you.
A mother as well.
Well, Simply talk to your husband about that. Afterwards have a chat with that lady as well. Try going away (back home for example) from your husband for a while see if he calls u and is worried about u . If he calls u and is concerned about u it means he still loves u . He should atleast miss the kids as i understand that u are a mother of one and are expecting one . try to be independent . Dont depend on him alot. Find a job .
He might be taking u forgranted . Prove to him that you are an integral part of his life and not a showcase in his house. May GOD be with u . I hope the best for you.
Take care .
Each society have their values. This is very common among filipno ladies.I am sorry fillipina qls, every body is not same but this kind of problems are seen too much.I my self received so many phones and sms from them. actually they need friends who can spend time and money for these girls(?).This will not last long, but your husband and you have to suffer.When some body drinks alcohol, feels him/her self in heaven but hang over is following this and it is very painful. Dont hate your husband keep trying him back to normal and if you feel it is too much than go to central police station and put a complain. I am sure that filipina must have sponsor here in Qatar and police will take of her.
Well my sympathy is with you. Before taking any decision like going back to your country, pls talk to Filipina first what she is actually looking for (i.e. friendship or relationship or money). Also, in case their affair is proved, you cannot blame just the lady alone, as your husband is also equally involved. So, have patience and be brave and pray God. Through dialogue, counselling or mediation from third party (either her close friend or your husband's close friend) only you can achieve some solution or peace to this problem. Good luck
pink, so sorry for you. there are homewreckers everywhere, much to my shame as a woman. the fact that you're not working and totally relying on your husband makes it hard for you to quit. but you know what, get your family's support from back home, speak to your man, and just quit.
sorry for the pain but most women i know who had been there, done that, had emerged the happier ones in the end. let him be another woman's headache! you deserve to be treated better. good luck!
oh dear, I feel so sorry for you :(
did you try talking to that philipina?!