What do u girls wear for work?
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Well call me pevert call me moron I don’t care……
I always thought girls should be a little more decent when it comes to dressing while at work. Our office secretary is arabic lady (not local)…………yes she is a muslim.
Every morning I see her with her trademark scarf which usually covers her hair but apart from that scarf everything else she wears is Britney spears stuff.
A white shirt which is so tight that it has a hard time holding her assests in not to mention the gap between the two buttons which I enjoy looking at……lol.
Coming down a bit…. her pants are so tight that I can make out a 50 dihram coin in her back pocket.
Does this help in anyway?….perhabs one good reason why she was promoted a couple of times over the last 1 year.
right ... for the 'Gang' ... i am here with the language all of you are familiar with ;)
let me please apologise the jury for my unacceptable and uninferable language and i hereby declare that anybody catching me with numbers for text, symbols for text, cut-shorts or abrivateds can judge me 50 lashes on my a$$ ;))) ROFL
If dere is 1 day in ma life i don wanna miss ... itz 2day !
Oh ho Prasanth, you know so many languages! Which one is that?
Prasanth, if you have a question or a request could you please put it into English? We might be able to help you more effectively.
Mandi
well, dis thread changed ma perspective for Doha ... i feel like i was living in d staone age n took a time machine to reach here ...
boy o boy ... am i glad 2 b d part of a society so vibrant wid culture, buffs n butts :))
ashwin, uv always been ma guiding light ... correcting ma way whenever i waz walking into dark evil ... tanx 4 being watever u r 2 me !
n d priest ... oops, MissX ... i pray 2 god almighty to give u d strength n health 2 go ahead ... preach the cleavage clan and flourish wid u being d popess ...
glory b 2 u n ur clan !
my wishes n prayers dat ur cleavage clan flourishes so much dat we poor sould get to see (not peep) your clan members in all offices, malls n stations ...
If dere is 1 day in ma life i don wanna miss ... itz 2day !
take prior appointments before your peep shows!
How is the Horny Secretary?
Give her my regards...
Jeez guyz ... all of u r busy tryin 2 help sum poor lady n sum poor guy u don kno at all but nun of u buggers r even thinking about helping a poor soul like me ...
... how many times shud i ask ?
WILL SOMEBODY GIMMI THE LIST OF THESE FREAKIN OFFICES ... PLSSSS !!!
Yooohhoooo ... anybody there ...
Prasanth
all office women should wear skirt and nylon stockings...be smart
if she is pretti, s6xi and young....you are very lucky bro.....
May almighty will help you.
OOOh god ...help that poor creature.
Well, you just cyber crushed the sense and sensibility out of the stems and bud of this "salam flower".
I didn't know I was privatized, so I'll wait for my "owner" to come and have a word with you.
Now, I will go check into rehab, maybe there is a frail hope I'd overcome your eloquent flattering response. I need God's help to pull it through.
Salam
Salam Happy Happy,
Gods gift is Flower.Flower never see us , we only have to see and exclaim how it is beautiful?!.The concept is you can see the flower and admire the beauty of it but should not want ti pick it.May be it belongs to the Owner of the garden.
All beauties in the world we can see and exclaim about its beauty.But should not think to have ownership for that.
Eyes to eyes straight looking ladies and speaking will not lead to any ugliness.
There are lot of man while speaking wd ladies by seeing eyes only,not the concern of lady anatomy.
In this world no lady will smile back to unknown man.Because all ladies are too cautious.
Beauty is not in the outer apperence of man/women.Really beauty is inner thing. ie , charactor /behaviour/understanding/non ego/treating all equal/none seeing of skin color/Respecting others feelings/allways happy/non tension/smooth speaking/ honest/faith with super power( God).( May be also missing)So this is the best dress for all human beings in this universe.
Happy - - wow wow wowwww...
when I compare things with flower in the garden.... I mean treat women like those flowers... you go and try to grab them and crush them coz you like it a lot..
tht wouldn make it more beautiful...
Jus appreciate the beauty and don fall greedy....
I really don know if this works the other way round....
chicks looking at guyz .... not very common... so no comments on tht...
And Ya.. women oriented topics are out of fashion now....
People are talking Blood Donations and naming QL members and Jimmadis love Bug...
Life is out there...
Women are out..
But hey NOT the Black Cumin.. it is forever.. :)
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Guyz, please think and behave more respectfully ...
isn't these ladies somebody's sister who you are talking about ? strange n absurd !
Geee ... the fact is that they are somebodys sister ... not ours, right ?
will somebody send me the list of such offices so that i can take a round trip ?
Prasanth ;)
No, there are "flowers" who won't smile back to a man, believe me. I too appreciate the beauty of a man, would that mean I stare the heck out of his wide eyes?!
As for my thinking "straight" note, It was clear it meant for anyone who fixates their eyes i.e thinks "zig zag". Don't worry about me, I can punch another girl not just a man, if I had too, only that it never happened to me!
Sorry, but I'm quitting this conversation and similar ones, at least I'll try to avoid them..:)
Salam
Majnoon - You sound to be the wisest ever..
Not being Stupid is being Wise.....
So if you know wht stupid is and want NOT to do it... you are wise...
Genius... it is better and easy way than to search for truth and follow it.... hmmmm...
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I have heard of Rustle Cattle but not this...wow
It's so simple to be wise. Just think of something stupid to say and say the opposite
Happy Happy - I doubt if straight is the solution....
It is the problem tht they are straight...
Had they been gay... a gal would be checking a open button of a blouse.... and it ll take ages before people start calling it haram... :)
Men should know tht the social boundaries we have drawn are essential....
they are here for a reason....
Look at a girl.. doesn mean stare at her...
Appreciating the beauty of a Rose in garden is not by pluggin it out ... Jus look at it and enjoy..
Smile and the flower too shall smile back at you....
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How about those particular men train themselves to turn it "off", and stop their manipulative imagination that is always "on", even if there was no obvious trigger?
And not only men should stare away, women also should. They're both human, and both need to think straight.
Salam
pants (always clean)
bra (sometimes clean)
Shirt
Trousers
jacket
shoes
Even if she was decently dressed you'll still find something to turn you on! That's why Allah told the prophet to tell the believers to steer their eyes away from women.
Do that next time plz :)
This story may be nice but is out of the context.
Hai Huys,
I hope you will love this story.
The Teacher
There was a story many years ago of an elementary teacher. Her name was Mrs. Thompson. And as she stood in front of her 5th grade class on the very first day of school, she told the children a lie. Like most teachers, she looked at her students and said that she loved them all the same.
But that was impossible, because there in the front row, slumped in his seat, was a little boy named Teddy Stoddard. Mrs. Thompson had watched Teddy the year before and noticed that he didn't play well with the other children, that his clothes were messy and that he constantly needed a bath. And Teddy could be unpleasant. It got to the point where Mrs. Thompson would actually take delight in marking his papers with a broad red pen, making bold X's and then putting a big "F" at the top of his papers.
At the school where Mrs. Thompson taught, she was required to review each child's past records and she put Teddy's off until last. However, when she reviewed his file, she was in for a surprise.
Teddy's first grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is a bright child with a ready laugh. He does his work neatly and has good manners, he is a joy to be around."
His second grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is an excellent student, well liked by his classmates, but he is troubled because his mother has a terminal illness and life at home must be a struggle."
His third grade teacher wrote, "His mother's death has been hard on him. He tries to do his best but his father doesn't show much interest and his home life will soon affect him if some steps aren't taken."
Teddy's fourth grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is withdrawn and doesn't show much interest in school. He doesn't have many friends and sometimes sleeps in class."
By now, Mrs. Thompson realized the problem and she was ashamed of herself. She felt even worse when her students brought her Christmas presents, wrapped in beautiful ribbons and bright paper, except for Teddy's. His present was clumsily wrapped in the heavy, brown paper that he got from a grocery bag. Mrs. Thompson took pains to open it in the middle of the other presents. Some of the children started to laugh when she found a rhinestone bracelet with some of the stones missing, and a bottle that was one quarter full of perfume. But she stifled the children's laughter when she exclaimed how pretty the bracelet was, putting it on, and dabbing some of the perfume on her wrist.
Teddy Stoddard stayed after school that day just long enough to say, "Mrs. Thompson, today you smelled just like my Mom used to."
After the children left she cried for at least an hour.
On that very day, she quit teaching reading, and writing, and arithmetic. Instead, she began to teach children.
Mrs. Thompson paid particular attention to Teddy. As she worked with him, his mind seemed to come alive. The more she encouraged him, the faster he responded. By the end of the year, Teddy had become one of the smartest children in the class and, despite her lie that she would love all the children the same, Teddy became one of her "teacher's pets."
A year later, she found a note under her door, from Teddy, telling her that she was still the best teacher he ever had in his whole life. Six years went by before she got another note from Teddy. He then wrote that he had finished high school, third in his class, and she was still the best teacher he ever had in his whole life.
Four years after that, she got another letter, saying that while things had been tough at times, he'd stayed in school, had stuck with it, and would soon graduate from college with the highest of honors. He assured Mrs. Thompson that she was still the best and favorite teacher he ever had in his whole life.
Then four more years passed and yet another letter came. This time he explained that after he got his bachelor's degree, he decided to go a little further. The letter explained that she was still the best and favorite teacher he ever had. But now his name was a little longer --the letter was signed, Theodore F. Stoddard, M.D.
The story doesn't end there. You see, there was yet another letter that spring. Teddy said he'd met this girl and was going to be married. He explained that his father had died a couple of years ago and he was wondering if Mrs. Thompson might agree to sit in the place at the wedding that was usually reserved for the mother of the groom. Of course, Mrs. Thompson did. And guess what?
She wore that bracelet, the one with several rhinestones missing. And she made sure she was wearing the perfume that Teddy remembered his mother wearing on their last Christmas together.
They hugged each, and Dr. Stoddard whispered in Mrs. Thompson's ear, "Thank you Mrs. Thompson for believing in me. Thank you so much for making me feel important and showing me that I could make a difference."
Mrs. Thompson, with tears in her eyes, whispered back. She said, "Teddy, you have it all wrong. You were the one who taught me that I could make a difference. I didn't know how to teach until I met you."
" Hai friends is this story impress you and do you have any feelings like sympothy,humanity....etc. Let us discuss that and let us leave this Dress matter, let Ladies decide how they can wear for work, We simply watch them with curiosity."
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ok ok enough........im watching tom n jerry.
Aana free, jaana free,
Pakde gaye tho khana free.
EMN - Its breast my fren..... Used to feed food to the babies...
The milk gives immense Immune system to her/him... which no other external food can........
It is not a B**b as you refer it to..
W T F..
I m off to sleep....
Wht are you up to ??? searching for a Shirt ??
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ash go n sleep man........
talking abt boobs at 4.30 in the morning.
Aana free, jaana free,
Pakde gaye tho khana free.
Miss X - lol... Why a priest ???
Perception of Breasts was a very innovative and enlightening thought...
changed my perception for few micro secs.. then back to social conditioning... :)
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Ya Happy I like that Celtic fiddler..... Mairead Nesbit.
But Kilts should be worn the way the Scottsmen used to ie "only the kilt" nothing beneath! Hahaa
I like the kilts of the Scots...and Celtic music on the whole.
Salam
Kilts would be fine....
Ha ha ha stone cold it is so cold ha ha ha .May be she feel it is convenient to her.It is her well and wish , why we object. we respect every ones willingness to wear their dress. ha ha ha.
Britney Spears wears glamourous clothing to a party, except no underwear. Try it,it's cool and windy underneath.
Me, a priest? What gave you that idea? And no, to answer it.
i must confess, i am also a victim man !
:)
Majod - lol... Jus a Victim of this Society my fren....
Jus a victim... :)
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are you a freak or what?
either she will become good muslim or might give up hijab.
Miss X- ????
That was so cool... are you a priest by any chance ???
But to add to your stand.... A$$...
tht is used to sit comfortably.... but the number of fantasies it arouses . . .
Now I ll blame the society to make me think tht way ... :)
I used to see only the face for beauty...
Society and the peer pressure compels me to judge looking at the Barests and A$$sss... :) not my fault..
Nadia -
Your American Professor wears what ??
Abaya jus like that ?
Or Mini Skirts... ??
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omg,you are such a pervert...also it's the ladies fault.
Nowadays,it's very common to see girls wearing Abaya which was the common traditions and also ''Sacred''.
Nowadays,people i know such as my professor who's American wears it...just like that:)
it really lost it's meaning,Unfortunately!
.. i like your first reply... well said...
Thank you UkEng.
I'll clarify it further with an example.
The perception of breasts have changed over time, from a mere organ that feeds a child, to an overt symbol of sexualisation. A lot of cultures, in particular those that are based around a religion, are told that sex is an intimate act between two loving people and that it must be kept private.
So when one of these people catches glimpses of a breast, they see it as a representation of sex, an act that is meant to be both private and sacred. Now it is not the fault of the breast, nor the woman with the breasts, that the person is unable to detach their views about sex, from a breast. Just as it is not the fault of a child when it is viewed as a sexual object by an adult. In those cases we blame the fault entirely on the adult, and we call them pedophiles and we imprison them.
So to clarify, it is not the objects fault. It is entirely in the eyes and minds of the beholder.
The only reason you would not be able to respect a woman who shows her cleavage, is because you deem it unacceptable attire, therefore you make a judgement that the woman does not have the same values as you, therefore you do not respect her.
The problem is with you, my friend, not the woman showing her cleavage. One day you will realise that of the billions of people in the world, most will have different values than you. You can continue to feel negative emotions and have negative thoughts everytime you encounter one, or you can learn to expand your criteria of who should be considered worthy of respect.
Your right the problem is more with the looker than the ladies wearing clothes showing the clevage. It is all in the head of the one who is looking. Dirty bugger
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can you show me any single man who see cleavage and respect? its not possible
and for a woman? if a woman is self-respected, whey should she show her cleavage? for a healthy man, what the purpose of breasts? tell me? respect?
its funny......when a girl shows her cleavage off and demands respect !
.... respect is perceptional.... i guess, you know that... (no offense !)
archer78 no problem..........do you have any problem?
Aana free, jaana free,
Pakde gaye tho khana free.
her assets !
Jaryz,
I accept you in this extreame hot weather condition. you said you are wearing jeans and shirt( cotton).cotton shirt will reduce the heat, but jeans parallel one will allow air circulation to reduce the heat.Cotton pant also will help you.As you said " if you want others to respect you then you have to wear proper clothes/dress not according to your moods but according to the dress code of the company: "
It is the golden word in your PM.
I appreciate it.wonderfully said.I hope this is the majority people thinking also.
again i would like to appreciate you for registering your points a female.
Have a good dress code allways.
Wats ur problem ....................
Ummjake so you are accepting that in USA also people are wearing comfortable dress in decent way.I also accept that.What we are seeing in TV/cinema about USA is not real we know about it.Common public differ from the Exposure people.you are agreeing that you are wearing the the dress which give you satisfaction and at the same time which it improve your image.Then why you are argueing ? The title says what do u girls wear for work.
so the dress code for office working is different from your personnal working. we speaking about office work, hence you have to choose which kind of dress you want to wear in office.if you say it is my freedom i can wear as i like means, go ahead. But that kind of dress will not improve your image in office , how ever you are intelectual also.Man and women are differ from body structure.For enormous heat man can relax tie for free air. I know it is not possible for ladies and how much it is untollerable also.If i say you people wear loose shirt means again you will fight, how do you say , "it is my right to wear any thing".It is not school to teach this but world is a big school, we are learning every day from our mistakes.so understand that dress accordingly for your convenience.
But i am not compelling to dress or cover you fully. you know how to dress and what will suit for you,and which is sexy and which is not sexy, may be your mummy teached you.I respect your feelings , but don't argue simply which your heart is also not accepting. ok.Finally it is your wish only to get impressed by decent dress or by body structure.
I praise your sportivness to fight for the right( But dont fight for Wrong).
MissX : Amazing work...you put it so well.. :)
~noms~
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"Before God we are all equally wise ' and equally foolish" - Albert Einstein
Ohh...
First thing first...
PCG - ????? W T Heaven ?? Did I ever say you replied to any post or read or didn read any of the above ???
Or ask is it your opinion or hired from a fren.... ???
Why justifying and wht ??
I never asked anything to you...
PM - Now i know wht triggered you :)
1. Not disrespectful for the colleague - She is as beautiful as the Greek Goddess are.. can't deny tht.. and neither could hide tht I dont ..
And she is one of the good fren I have in office... Thks to her I know how diff it is to be married :)
2. Comment about White women... I mentioned it here..
And I say wht I said is in reference to Crowd in Doha...
And even you don seem to Deny it...
About feeling offended about Indian Penis size being smaller than the world avg.. ????
lol.. thts the way you wanted to counter attack :)
I would have said I don know as never compared it..
But Russell Peter says so..so shall agree with you... :)
And back home it takes more than a d$%k to impress a female... so never had a desire to have it longer....
And if it was said in humorous way as I wanted it to be... then not feeling offended....
And if was said to trigger me up...
Gal.. you need to be much better than this to make me loose my temper :)
Na kiddin again -
White female thing was not a racist comment... pls
"No man is racist when it comes to women",, do remember tht always...
It was ...wht I see.... If bringing this to their knowledge is offensive... its there wish...
It was intended to tell them they are not looking as good as they expect it to be ... So better give it a second thought...
No neither m I a social worker who wans white females to look better than they are now...
Jus my opinion....
I have no idea wht color you are... but this is a general statement...
Edif - ???? W T F... Ghandhi's all vital stats are public... didn know this...
n I call myself a Indian...
Miss X- Thks... :)
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Ash, I couldn't put it better myself.
Like he said, we are born naked and the only offense caused by dress or lack of dress is because of mental conditioning.
I have created a (very) generalised list of various forms of dress for women. You will find people in the world who ascribe to all of these forms, but most lay somewhere in the middle. Who is dressing the 'right' way is entirely a matter of personal opinion. And unless you wear the full Abaya, I promise you that what you personally wear is deemed disgusting by some people. So before you judge other people on what you think is unnacceptable dress, consider the importance you attach to the opinions of people who think you look cheap.
-Full Abaya with only eyes showing
-Loose clothes covering most of the body with a hijab
-Fitted clothes covering most of the body with a hijab
-Fitted clothes covering most of the body
-Fitted clothes showing arms and legs
-Fitted clothes showing shoulders, thighs, cleavage
-Fitted clothes showing cleavage, stomach, thighs
-Fitted clothes showing body parts & undergarments
-Nudists
Pick where your dress sense fits, and then count the groups of people above you on the list who deem you unnacceptable.
"Men get more turned on by your mind not your tits".
WTF?????????????????
about average Indian size not measuring up to international condom size. But my point is that to make a generalization like that (even though this has been proven) is offensive to Indian men, is it not? I took offense at Ashwin's racist statement disrespecting "WHITE women".
I really don't care to discuss Indian penis size. Just making a point to Ashwin.
I refuse to drink the kool-aid! -- PM
PM, I couldn't agree less with you! Gandhiji was more than a regular sized man...........But he only used handspun Khadi. And there are many more examples. So all Indian men are not short in that dept.
and your attitude about the woman at your work. I just find it a bit sleazy.
Not to mention your attiude about "WHITE females" is insulting. If I wrote that no woman likes Indian men because research shows that they are too small in size so that regular condoms don't fit would you not be insulted?
:-(
I refuse to drink the kool-aid! -- PM
What the hell are you on about?
I saw this thread, I saw reply and I did reply without reading WHAT ANYBODY had posted.
That is my view, without knowing what anybody else had put.
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Man makes plans...............God smiles ;-)
PCG - ?? m I the only one having this Blond Moment... :) ??????
The previous one was for PM ....PM is username.. not asking you to PM..lol
Smaller one was reply to your 1st post... :)
lol...
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I did not read any posts at all, just typed what I think.
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PCG - I agree... women with you know those Thick glass frames... who thinks of work and not about looking beautiful... and bites a pencil while thinking...
Man... tht has a sex appeal of its own....
No cleavage show can beat tht.....
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PM - ???
Me control ???
If this is with reference to the last post...
I said we where not born with cloths on us...
The cloths and the covering is all the thick Society imposed mental condition.. tht it has become a Must these days....
People earlier were living in birthday suits.. and I am sure were not humping as soon as they saw a opposite gender human.....
If they could live happily and were ok with it... so can we...
Nothing creepy about it.. its all the mental conditioning..
And as Happy Happy says... Why all topics on QL rt now are women oriented.. no body interested in blood shedding debates ???
And actually fantasies about women is one thing tht binds men of all races and age.... :)
No one is a racist... when it comes to chicks... :) ha ha ha... wht a solution to solve world issues...
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in the office. Why would it be different over here than anywhere else?
You dress to impress. That means smart business suit and not looking like tart.
We women have enough trouble in the 'mans world' without thinkng the only way we get promoted is showing our bodies.
Dress like the men, smart suit, covered, smell nice and do your job well. No need to show anything at all.
Men get more turned on by your mind not your tits.
Sorry to be crude.
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Speedo Abayas are the best,smartest and sexiest attire to wear to office.......I think...
some girls wear all kinds of dress just for the fun of it..
some don't care at all...
some simple wear jeans and shirt in the office because of the weather... take our showroom for instance, i am trying to wear a respectable clothes slacks and 3/4 sleeves but the heat really is too much because every now and then the door in the showroom is open :(
some wear to impress...
some they want to be comfortable...
some wear sexy dress because they feel sexy and wants to flaunt it...
but if you want others to respect you then you have to wear proper clothes/dress not according to your moods but according to the dress code of the company...
but WTH.... its summer..its hot... what to do yane ;)
Perhaps a little respect -- including self-respect -- would be in order (and I am sure appreciated).
I refuse to drink the kool-aid! -- PM
overflowing with naked, immoral, indecent people.
Why do you think it is okay to dress as we wish in the USA but in the Middle East they "need" a dress code? Are you saying that people here more moral than those in the west? Or that people here have less self-control and need more rules to keep their behavior in line? What's your point?
Newsflash: we Americans do have rules and standards for clothing and behavior, contrary to what you might think from seeing the TV or the gossip mags. Most women do not run around half naked there; we might not cover as much as the women here do, but the vast majority of Americans would be surprised and put off by someone who was dressed inappropriately in the office.
And so what if women's body structure is different than a man's? What does that have to do with appropriate work clothes? Are you implying that women should have to cover up more because men can't control themselves when they see that we have curves and are built differently than they are? I get so tired of these arguments that put the onus for men behaving properly on women, like it's our fault if a man gets all hot and bothered looking at us.
You're men. Take responsibility for yourselves and act the part.
"Most plain girls are virtuous because of the scarcity of opportunity to be otherwise."
-- Maya Angelou
Kumaran_63 - Decency and dress have nothing to do with each other... it is all about social perception...
Jus bcoz we have never seen majority wearing cloths which you think are indecent... except for at discs or pubs. doesn mean .... they are indecent...
Today Women wearing Jeans is acceptable... Why ??
Coz we accept it in decent category ... unthinkable 20 yrs ago....
And I accept sleeveless and Skirts in decent... I do not think... honestly.. there is anything wrong in it..
and it depends on the Women...
She can make a Mini Skirt look Decent and a Abaya look Sexy...
It all depends on the women carrying it...
B T W... we all are suppose to roam naked... naturally...
few are trying to live closer to nature.. and people have problem... :(
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"ummjake" If you live in USA, it is ok to dress as you like.But in middle east dress code is needed.Hence dont mistake with my words.Respectness will be shown to the individuals depends upon, what dress they are wearing.As a female, body structure is differ from man, so you have to dress in decent way only.But dress code is individuals wish.But we are living in a society and should respect the moral society behaviour. Because we are all human beings.Cloth cheap/see through/sleeve less jacket / mini skirt all are individuals wish.But while wearing this how many will get respects from society?
I never say cover completely, but the dress which is convenient with decent look is ok for a female.
But the dress code is purely individual wish.Have a nice day.
I'm proud of you Dr. chinitasai08.
Salam
good thing i always (it's a MUST) wear my white coat when im at work...
i don't mind what im wearing inside(informal, formal or semi)...
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Office is an office; not a picnic or sports days....one need to remember to maintain good working environment and not to spoil the taste.....
Actually speaking the concept of casual dressing is to just welcome the weekend offs and increase the working sprit by dressing differently (variety is spice of life).
Ash teri to Aish hain..."Buddhi ghodi laal lagham are everywhere...hahahahahahaaa
Of course, I checked your profile, to find you're a male! all benefits are yours on that day, why should you care, it's picnic for you alright...:)
Anyway, maintaining professional conduct is really what it is all about.
Salam
HGL - Jus pretending to be decent my fren.... keep it a secret... sshhh...
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Jus wht.. I asked her to wear it one day...
She says I wont talk to her anymore if she did .....ha ha ha ha...
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Ash .... you really meant that men should not have funny ideas or fantasies when they look at a female...I hope you said that in the context and not referring to a head to toe covered female...lol....
No funny ideas agreed ...but no fantasies with so much for the eyes.... hmmmm...
Anyways looks like you are becoming veggie Ash...
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The secret of charm is bullshit.
ashwin,, i hope she reads it..& u'l notice it whn nxt day she comes to office in Abaya..!! lolz
~noms~
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"Before God we are all equally wise ' and equally foolish" - Albert Einstein
Kumaran_63 - It is responsibility of a man to not have funny ideas and fantasies when they look at a female..
not the other way round...
If Men learn to keep the two Boneless organs in their control...
This world shall be a good place to live..
One of tht is Tongue...
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There is a Lebanese in my company...
Arabic Beauty... with European attitude and body lang..
Too much to handle guyz..
If a gal has good legs to show and waist to get noticed no problem...
What I hate the most is... The way this WHITE Females Torture..
40+... over over weight and expose... Yukk..
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"invites danger" to me and other women, kumaran_63?
And what is this bitter experience you refer to that you think we must have in order to understand this basic truth of workplace attire?
Sounds vaguely to me like you're saying that we whorish women don't know how to dress properly and until some man teaches us a lesson by raping us or fondling us inappropriately (which would clearly be brought on by our cheap, revealing clothes -- our fault entirely!), we won't realize that we're meant to stay completely covered.
"Most plain girls are virtuous because of the scarcity of opportunity to be otherwise."
-- Maya Angelou
Thanks, but that's my point exactly, men get the benefit of taking their ties off, as for women, nothing changes. Many of us take the jacket off in normal business days anyway, depending on the room temperature, and put it back on for client meetings.
It's no picnic day for us:(
Salam
A decent comfortable dress to work, which will not spoil the image of the wearer.Ladies are not a common glass jar to expose to all.It is a treasure for only one.
But in modern world equal rights are having, so women are relaxing in dress codes.But relaxation in dress code will invite danger to them.It will understood by them after have bitter experience only.
generally Thursdays......
Smart casual for men without Ties and women smart suit without jackets on, strictly no jeans, tights or sport shoes on.
Mandi, you're a gem, thanks. On elegance, I asked my boss the other day about business casual day and what it meant for me(?), he replied, "men give up their ties on that day", I laughed and thanked him for the compliment!!and still insisted on what's in it for me? he was puzzled..:)
Salam
Happy Happy has hit the nail on the head - the word for dressing at work should be "elegant" as indeed, she is!
Mandi
But my personal take on this,it's a gimmick! I think there's lots of uncalled for attention given to what's defined as "business attire". It should be decent, clean(and elegant if possible). I don't mind business casual either, it's common sense as you mentioned, unless there is a strict corporate policy on uniforms, for professional and hygienic reasons.
Salam
freedoms when men aren't around, but there should also be a standard level of workplace attire that applies regardless of the gender of your coworkers.
I can appreciate an attractive man/woman as well as the next person, and there are times and places when it is perfectly okay to have your girls front and center to show the world, but I find it inappropriate to do so in the office.
This isn't a Muslim/non-Muslim issue; it's a common sense and being professional kind of issue. And yes, there are various types of offices and work environments, so I would expect, say, a banker to be dressed differently than an art teacher. But unless your job is one that includes dressing enticingly for the clientele (hostess in a hotel, bartender/waitress in a pub, etc.), revealing kinds of outfits should be left for after hours or the weekend.
"Most plain girls are virtuous because of the scarcity of opportunity to be otherwise."
-- Maya Angelou
Experience in all "Positions"...too
Very capable in Dick taketion
CV with our without envelope....
Making Rosy (ROJI) halaal in other words.....
Believe me work ethics doesn't follow any religion...
britexpat ...details...36-26-36......thats the CV....will that do?
and every mothers... app ka dialogue mast hai ..
ana free jaaana free
pakde gai tou khana free ....
waoooo...
nice
hahahahaha lolx what a topic there is some Reason ... i
1). Due To Hot Weathter.....[ may be in office there is no AC ]
2). Shortage of Salary......
3). Looking / Waiting For Another Job Offer.....
4). May be she is in Dieting and checking her shirt and pant size Everyday how much she becomes smart...
HH i agree i did mention she was a muslim may be i should't. I know a lot of no-muslims are dressed to kill....but in this case it suprises me only cause its not common for a muslim girl to turn up for work wearing all that.
Aana free, jaana free,
Pakde gaye tho khana free.
ummjake, Female teachers here wear what they wish because there is no male presence around.
every_mothers, I know female co-workers who are Non- Muslim dressed to kill for office. Showing their bust, above knee skirt and see-through material, they too believed in Jesus but seemed not to mind the show and felt there was no contradiction.
I'm not delving into any kind of religions talk, I'm only responding to your highly empathic post and relevant responses.
Salam
amabt fruit???? i din't get ya....
Aana free, jaana free,
Pakde gaye tho khana free.
I am looking for a secretary. Give me her details..
fruit ? what a comparison dude ! :#
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Just consider yourself a lucky guy and yenjoay it man!..and give me your address so I can check it out too!!
lol FS !
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Keeps my mind clean...
Now at the pool that is another thing..
Let it all hang out...
You can't teach experience...
thats why we are just staring the pop ups coming out from short dresses :D
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There is no strict dress code in most of the companies...
Those who want to look professional will dress appropriately.. Those who want seek attention..will wore such clothes..Its more of personal perception and how they are raised...
Even I had a lady in my office like that... many men told me to ask her to dress properly... I told its not my business..lol and finally during Ramadan I had to issue a circular to dress modestly..lol
attack on samba comment...
cool...
If you think with your Short mind ... you see only short things... look beyond!! lol
Girls will always be girls with short minds and short dresses.. :p
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Agree with King Edshel
the lady I have mentioned were fired not because of the way she dress but because she doesn’t have the skills/knowledged of her tasks, she lasts only for three months, maybe after . . . . trashy thoughts just follow
rizks wait a sec......before i get thrashed by her let me change my pic.
Aana free, jaana free,
Pakde gaye tho khana free.
I'm always out of office, but still we don't have something like that in our office.
There is a proper dress for everything, that is why you don't go swimming with your tuxedo ...
Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)
lol 000
comeon i think even ladies get bald ...lol
000 not really but much better than the other way round.
Aana free, jaana free,
Pakde gaye tho khana free.
very well perceived....but unfortunately nowadays this is a part of Corporate culture......
Globalisation is spreading very fast with all its wings in.....'progressive world'..
All are not like you. lol ..
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You can't teach experience...
EMN
might be she is BALD and DEAF ?? :)
salax85 looks like its tails today........lol
Aana free, jaana free,
Pakde gaye tho khana free.
Does it make sense if she coveres the whole body and expose her head ? :)
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actually i don't mind her wearing all those sexy clothes none of my buisness but why a scarf over her head.
it dosent makes sense hiding ur hair and your ears and showing the rest of ur body.
Aana free, jaana free,
Pakde gaye tho khana free.
is that you ? lol
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Let her wear what she wants. If you enjoy the view great.
from group of Naked KHANS.....(Saif......Aamir).....used for marketing their movies for Young Female crowd.....
All poor men Milind, John, Imran...the list is huge..
dont you think it depends on whats their work EMN :)
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guys i am sure you will find this girl attractive..
does she look like a hooker? NO! and make sure, after work she put on her sexy cloths and goes to the bar/pub.. but at the OFFICE?
Exactly agreed with QS. :""low waist white pants, tight hanging red t-shirt & 4 inches sandals, you can see her lace thong when she’s sitting down” would attract really serious clients/customers/buyers..""
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nice comments from everyone
I'm a man too and love to see such ladies too
lollzzzzzzzz
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What I was saying that such ladies expose themselves but at the sametime when stared or teased they get very aggressive or cry like a baby.
Hmmmmmm... we friends always dreamt of having a secy like that in college days... yet to find one though...lol
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Victory_278692, you say "Females been used/exploited voluntarily for marketing to increase sales.."
It depends on what type of the potential market you are targeting. I don’t think that the case of “low waist white pants, tight hanging red t-shirt & 4 inches sandals, you can see her lace thong when she’s sitting down” would attract really serious clients/customers/buyers.. rather opposite…
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“You become responsible forever for what you have tamed”. Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
Give me your the GM's or CEO's Phone number, and company name, as well as her name.
I'll tell him that this is bad for the productivity of the employees, and that she should be promoted to his personal secretary.
wow.. well said ;)
there is a dress code in my company. No too tight pants or too revealing tops are allowed; and no cheap accessories, only fine gold is acceptable. But every girl can find her way to look sexy and attractive without looking cheap and low… ;)
I wear suits, sometimes pants and shirts (at least2/3 of my hands are covered).. and since all girls around me are wearing abayas, I like wearing abaya too…
I love fancy playful sexy cloths… not at the office though!.. I would look ridiculous with such outfit while dealing with the certain Companies and VIP persons..
But I visited few offices where the receptionist looked like a third class cheap prostitute.. it was not pleasant experience..
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lolzzz....you are right
lolzzz....you are right
lolzzz....you are right
Omar ...
mere laal, now he wont show his lollipop muscle to everyone in OPEN (Except in private ) ...:)
and read full comments, it is a personal approach not generalised.
Females been used/exploited voluntarily for marketing to increase sales..check all front office and reception desks of all hospitality/service industries (hotels, banks, airports, airlines, etc).....
tell me more about it... i am somehow confuse whether some of my colleagues would go to one office or to an evening party... :/
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he is wearing his pants ;)
If a lady has a sexy body to show, wats harm in IT...lol
Let her expose wat she has..:)
Even Salman Khan exposes a lot, coz he has a good physique and walks freely without wearning anything...lol
i want to visit your office.. lol :P
Just Imagine..!!!!!!!! :p
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SHORT WAY TO SALARY HIKE
our office receptionist dresses like she’s going to a cocktail party, low waist white pants, tight hanging red t-shirt & 4 inches sandals, you can see her lace thong when she’s sitting down, and she’s a muslim. She has the body to flaunt, so why restrict her if that makes her feel beautiful, so be it.
men colleagues were just . . . i saw them with devilsh grin.
agreed with u
I've heard of nude beaches but not of office nudity. However, the worldwide issue of proper corporate dress code, in a professional setting, has been always addressed yet it's getting all the more shorter, tighter and in flimsy fabric!
Salam
"Young girls love to flaunt their assets to gain ...
attention" - NOT ALL !! :)
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attention, i mean special attention...(of certain people like Rizko, EMN, etc...)
It is very personal for an individual, how she wanted herself to get described in any working environment. It also depends on the age of a girl...the attitude varies as they mature and behave more responsibly.
There was a message in a factory for all women workers....
"Not to wear loose clothes, to avoid getting their clothes into the machines.....
Not to wear tight clothes to avoid getting Male colleagues eyes getting stuck into"
Be modest and enjoy life!
here, and she comments on the same thing -- that a lot of the ladies there wear the tightest, most revealing clothes -- like they're going out on a date instead of heading to work!
They've been told they cannot wear abaya at school (it's an all girl school, though that does seem a strange rule to have in Qatar), so maybe the other ladies are just wearing what they usually wear under the abaya or housecoat, I don't know.
But tight shirts/skirts/trousers, buttons straining to restrain your "assets", camel toe issues, wearing black lingerie under white outer garments...these things just boil down to taste and class, IMHO. And they're definite no-no's in the workplace.
"Most plain girls are virtuous because of the scarcity of opportunity to be otherwise."
-- Maya Angelou
yormemo i never stare at the decent ones.
Aana free, jaana free,
Pakde gaye tho khana free.
Why you stare at her assets..do your business dude..
if you keep on stareing you will be statue ..lol
i mean she comes to the office with her suit but she don't wear it anymore once she gets inside.
Aana free, jaana free,
Pakde gaye tho khana free.
lol 000....
EMN, Atif dont bother wat they wear. U goin to office to work NOT TO STARE AT their ASSETS....lol u perverts ....:)
As Victor said, working girls/women need to wear just formal smart suit in the office. if they dont have a company policy like like that. let them wear what they want to .
EMN: I never saw a girl wearing like 'Britney Spears' in office. It would be nice if i could meet her.
atif242 : If in their office nudity is allowed, let them walk like that. Modesty should be considered, why should we force them to be modest ? These gals are not kids, they know if they wear these kinda dress, people will stare at them. let them do what they wish. y u guys are much bothered. !
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lol EMN...
Is tat of any use ?? U still remain the same as seen in the PIC....lol
dude, can i visit youre office?
Dagway ai!
EMN ...
do u hav any vacancy in ur office for ME ?? lol
working girls/women need to wear just formal smart suit in the office....no to jeans or tight shirts.
Women are supposed to dress up appropriately. We should always look decent at work but it seems to me like your office secretary enjoys it when 'you' stare at her and check her assets out... :P good morning y'all!
000 my can't help it... my weakpoint.
Aana free, jaana free,
Pakde gaye tho khana free.
if they have to wear such clothes which reveal almost everything, then why they have to wear anything at all.
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They must walk NUDE.
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huhhhh, this is nonsense. Modesty should be consider in wearing clothes by WOMEN
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Have u forgot previous thread related to "STARING AT MY GIRLFRIEND"
why the heck you looking at her assets ? let them wear what they want. aint your business!
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muslim ladies should wear abaya or else scarf with good comfortable covering dress
A lady's assets never let her FAIL in any sector.
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Moreover, abayat or scarf in Muslim world is just a symbol of Fashion. Nothing islamic at all. If u see Qatari ladies hidden behind ABAYAT, they will turn you on with their eye make up and very tight & fashionable abayat. A male hardly miss such lady.