Why Marriage Important in the Life...?

ITS A MYTH

its up to you if you want to get married.. someday you will understand that..

because you won't have a life if you're not married here...you'll be considered a criminal doing something illegal if you're not married here...you'll always be cautious of everything you do in public, and you'll get worried every time you pass by a check point or a police car...That's why marriage is important for life here...since you probably make more money than what you have dreamed of making in your own country, you start to tolerate all of these rules, and then maybe go on vacation and enjoy your freedom for a month or so...

YAY!

i dont know you tell me ~!

Marriage is important thing.... if we want to stay with

wife and....

imprtance based on personal requirement. otherwise, it is not a must, i would say. But what i insist on is you should never give up on your individuality especially if you are a woman and you are planning to depend on that man. cuz from my peronal experience, i should say, men (whether they admit it or not) likes independant women. so marriage is not a bad thing, as long as you spend time on your self as an individual too.

our pair is God made.....?

It is a commitment to God that you will love forever and ever.

No Marriage... how will be the life.....................................?????????????????????????????????

its real or fake..?

and why do u say that

Whats main problem..will be with wife...?

he he he eeeeeee NICE 1

they are unable to say X...so just understand and add S and E

You know why women starts with ‘W’…

because all questions start with “W”.. !

Who ?

Why ?

What ?

When ?

Which ?

Whom ?

Where ?

&

Finally Wife..!!!

ohh really marriage is foundation of human society...

so why man and women.. fighting in marriage life mostly...?

For some, marriage is little more than a romantic promise and a legal agreement. But promises can be broken. People who view marriage this way find it quite easy to give up on their marriage.JUDGING by the conclusion of many movies, marriage is a desirable goal. Often, the man and the woman finally get together, get married, and live "happily ever after." In films, that is usually the end of the story when things go wrong.In reality, the wedding is, not the end, but the beginning of a new life together. And hopefully, "better is the end afterward of a matter than its beginning. God instituted marriage as the basic foundation of human society.

you are totally clueless or ?? acting that u don't know anything ...

How marriages are Gods Arrangement......?

yes yes yse :D

Cuz its God's arrangement. And no one can deny cuz its his will from the beginning, when he said to the first man, fill the earth and subdue it.

Cuz its God's arrangement.

Yeah, there are a few.

He's a genius LP ;)

Bingo, Pilgram. He must be at least very intelligent.

Like every good husband LP. That way he can deny responsibility if the wrong decision is made. :P

So, he is basically clueless, Pilgram. Right?

You always make me lol, brit!

LOL Brit. I was going to say, my husband most definitely doesn't lead me anywhere!

You are indeed wise beyond your years.

A man leads her to the Altar, but then she leads for the rest of his married life :o(

Take it from the Romans, Pilgram: "in matrimonium ducere" means to marry. The man 'leads' her into marriage!

However, it can happen that the preacher asks you if you'd do, and she will say: "Yes, he does, too."

I am married. I'm not leading anyone.

when u get married then you will know ... other wise you haven't experience anything

Leadership? Who are you leading.

man read books ,, if your the type who watch foot ball and buy cars ...

Leadership and Responsibility how is this in Marriage...?

they both come in the same package don't say leadership or responsibility ...

say

leadership AND responsibility

i can understand responsibility but which thing important ..... leadership or responsibility....?

very interesting when u put ur heart and mind to it, leadership and responsibility and a child carries ur DNA your mini you :P

So really marriage is interesting.....?

hehehe its not a mistake ... it will color your life,,,

its a matter to pick ur right woman ... be sure not from her looks .. also check her heart .. the engine that will keep ur life running ,, ask her tell her your story and interests what you like in life ,, and also ask her what are her conditions before marriage ... then when both parties .. you and her agreed to these condition that both of you made and agreed ... the next thing is to unify your relation under the watching eye of god ... after that when time passes by make sure to grow the seed of love, mature love im talking about .. take care of it ,, water it and let ur wisdom be the light let it grow into a strong and mighty tree ... love before marriage is useless and its a waste of time .... after getting married let love flow for eternity

coz everybody says i love you these days without meaning just to take a bite from her target and leave her to go crazy ...

true men bravery comes when they take this matter seriously and take care of his woman of his choice and look after ,, coz a woman wants a man of action not a blabber mouth :P

i hope marriage will not a mistake....?

you never knew the answer unless you try it out ... be the king .. guide your family to victory be wise ... but never think as one timer .. she is with you for ever ,, marriage life rocks ... for me i am a king with 2 queens to look after :P

is to find the soul peace while you are living.

Then comes children and other things.

What's the deal ZamZam are you considering getting married?

Marriage is mistake...in life ? or opportunity in the life time....?

i think alot of people make the mistake of thinking marriage is mainley based on having children, i disagree very strongly! some very close friends of me and my husband are fantastic parents but forget to b ther for eachother, it is all about the children and now they are seperated after 8 years! me and my husband are probebly not super parents we do our best for our children but we also never forget to have time out for ourselves or eachother and we have now been going strong for almost 7 years. but i do have a question... how do people feel about mariages with more that one other person ie. 2 men one woman oe 2 woman 1 man or i have heard stories of 1 man and maybe 5,6,7 women....

Means there will be peace and quiet

Means that you wallet is full

Means that you can come home with your friends

Means that you are forever free

if marriage is important so why some of ppl against the issue.

its important?

marriage.... for .....?

it is left for you to decide ;-)

realy u gave me lot of knowledge of marriage...

but here u think its good for women n bad for .....like something?

what u think...?

Marriage is not a word. It is a sentence--a life sentence.

Marriage is very much like a violin; after the sweet music is over, the strings are attached.

Marriage is love. Love is blind. Therefore, marriage is an institution for the blind.

Marriage is an institution in which a man loses his Bachelor's Degree and the woman gets her Masters.

Marriage is a thing which puts a ring on a woman's finger and two under the man's eyes.

Marriage certificate is just another word for a work permit.

Marriage is not just a having a wife, but also worries inherited forever.

Marriage requires a man to prepare 4 types of "rings":

* The Engagement Ring

* The Wedding Ring

* The Suffe-Ring

* The Endu-Ring

really cute....

without marriage - ur free

after marriage - ur paying ur bills

married life comes with a woman

without married life comes without a woman

whats the different between married life n without married life..?

??????????????

so what can we do for faithful marriage life...?

Marriage is important in life it makes you more responsible and respectable in society. Sorry if you have a nagging wife its awful. But a faithfull and understanding wife takes the relation right above all things.Cheers!

Dear marriage is really important of life...? why some people fear or thy don't want to do the marriage..?

Dear marriage is really important of life...? why some people fear or thy don't want to do the marriage..?

and ask your mom & dad, "why did you get marry"

:)

Allah has created men and women as company for one another, and so that they can procreate and live in peace and tranquillity according to the commandments of Allah and the directions of His Messenger. The Qur'an says:

And among His signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that you may dwell in tranquillity with them, and He has put love and mercy between your hearts. Undoubtedly in these are signs for those who reflect. (30:21)

And Allah has made for you your mates of your own nature, and made for you, out of them, sons and daughters and grandchildren, and provided for you sustenance of the best. (16:72)

the prophet|(pbuh) said

"O you young men! Whoever is able to marry should marry, for that will help him to lower his gaze and guard his modesty." (Al-Bukhari)

thus the principle reasons r

procreation

love and hormony among partners, emotional satisfaction

sustenance

preservation of modesty

In a beautiful tradition the Prophet (peace be upon him) has given the most important point that should weigh with every Muslim in selecting his bride:

"Whoever marries a woman solely for her power and position, Allah will only increase him in humiliation. Whoever marries a woman solely for her wealth, Allah will only increase him in poverty. Whoever marries a woman because of her beauty, Allah will only increase him in ugliness. But whoever marries a woman in order that he may restrain his eyes, observe cautiousness, and treat his relations kindly, Allah puts a blessing in her for him and in him for her."

Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wasallam) said:

“All things in which there is no mention of Allah are frivolity, absent-mindness and idle play except for four things: a man being playful with his wife, training his horse, walking between two purposeful goals and teaching another man to swim.”

Am i getting the correct idea that people here r promoting single parenthood by claiming that their children perform better at schools?!!!!!

well in that case they r very much unaware of the bliss and happiness a child gets when he is surrounded by both his parents (loving parents)

and the emotional voidness a child experiences in single parenthood

only money is not sufficient for the developing personality of a child, (although monetary security has priority over emotional security)

who is happier?

a child with only monetary security or

a child with both monetary and emotional security?

the topic was abt marriage and it is dicussing abt children already!!!

more so abt the complications of having children

many think that the sole aim of marriage is children, (or physical relationship)

and after marriage when people dont get satisfactry upbringing of children or a good physical relationship

they become frustrated and DIVORCE - and imagine singlehood better

it is indeed surprising

Pilgrim Shall I first?

Agree to not agree. Rest my case

Not really. Inuits also have no sense of "ownership" and change partners almost as often as they change their hats. In general the children are raised by the grandmother and whoever she's shacking up with at the moment.

We have the same thing in the UK.. It's called "the government".. Single mothers and their children are cared for and paid for by the state..

Ok. But the children, have the love and support of more than one parent. I beliw, important for children to have this. One of main ways to have this is marriage. Agree?

In Inuit communities children are generally raised by the grandparents. Their parents have very little to do with them.

There are societies in the Southern Pacific where the institution of marriage is unknown. The children grow up in the responsibility of the whole village.

Pilgram. We need to be married to have babies and make them grow proper like EMC12 says. If no faith in marriage, society can fail.

EMC-12 most researchers point out that the vast majority of single mothers and fathers come from a low income bracket and that their children perform on par with other children from low income brackets.

After my first marriage I had again three girlfriends at the same time sometimes.

And after marriage ???

Before marriage I sometimes had three girlfriends at the same time. Anything but single, I guess.

Research has showed successful children who perfom well at schools are from a full family settings..i.e. with mum, dad, bruv and sis around..children from single parents are not doing as well as the former. Read about children from divorced families...hear their plight.

therefore if people want to have children, and want them to become successful, marriage is a necessity. Like I said whether this marriage is legal or not is a different matter. To me, marriage would mean there are both parents around and they live together.

Memories..

I remember a young, go getting female QLer who used to swim with the Polar Bears and enjoy her freedom..

Then, cupid came along with his stupid bow and .............

The rest is history :O(

Before marriage we are single. After marriage we are married.

I seconded you,

"we all are learn from our past experience"

Whats our situation before marriage...?

and whats After...............................................................................................................................................??????????????

If you're raising a baby on your own then you would be the mother or father and you would have the responsibility.

no need to marry , just make babies , rias them on your own without fathers or mothers without responsibilties or headaches

Marriage doesn't substain life, babies do. You don't need to be married to have children.

I think marriage is important if you want to have children. If you do, they need both parents around them. Now, what kind of marriage,(legal or not legal, religious or not religious) is a different matter.

Marriage very important. Substain more life.

1.After You Die Your Children Will Be Control Of Your Property.

2.This Is WHy Womens Are Created.

3.To Have BedTime Fun.(after working all the day.

Dear the logic is Simple

If you own a house you can stay their with out Paying any Rent, but may be boring for staying in a same house for long term

Pros and Cons Benefits - Cash + reliability + Confidence but boring

if you rented a house - land lord will kick you out , when another person offer more rent

Pros and Cons - Cash Expenses + not permannent one, if somebody offer more, they will gone

So many are living with out marriage as well as with marriage. Few are seperated also..finally the answer depends on your partnet.

.........its important for life to live on this earth to continue the chain of race/religion/family tradition.

well, depends on wheather its love marriage or arranged one. if its arrange marriage its important to make ur family happy, and if its love marriage its important to make ur galfriend happy

marriage how is looking from life window?

painful or......?

Depends!

Leave for where?

LIFE WITHOUT MARRIAGE...... POSSIBLE TO LEAVE.........

Depends.

says who,from personal experience

The question must be: Is marriage important in life?

Says who?