Why do (Good) Girls fall for Bad Boys?

this thread is keep coming back hehehehe.....

come on guys teach me more to become a bad boy hahahahaha.

pykester

Yes and Yes.

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Do they have convents and monasteries in Canada?

Do they preach in those places abstinence or celibacy?

I'm curious, help me out..

"If we are going to solve the challenges we face - we can't vacillate - we can't shift depending on our politics"

Barack Obama

it's his nature...he got a lot to learn. besides, he's still a kid.

i'm sure some folks here finds it very cute and sweet but some also feel/thinks otherwise...so you're not alone...

Well, if that's the kind of things he expresses, I'll be deleting him from my facebook account. I don't need to know people like that.

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thexonic is known for that....his manner of speaking and expressing himself, verbally and in his post...

thexonic, with that attitude of yours it's a wonder your still unmarried and a virgin. :P Hope you're enjoying it cause it seems to be a state that will last a long long time for you.

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From now on, i wanna be known as a Bad boy !!

(Waits for the Ladies to ring)

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NIL ILLEGITIMI CARBORUNDUM

Kareena this didnt happen back in the days, now a days, wedding is the last thing on anyone's mind. Most of the time people just think of having sex, earning money, partying and moving on in life. People r loosing the value of religion, they display sins as blessings lol. Thats the world today. The more people claim to be open minded, the more ignorant they are. The men deserve to get their P*s chopped off, that will happen on the day of judgement, the worst punishment for a man is to use his body like that. Karma is always fair, dont worry Kareena.

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You know, that you are screwed, when ur phone rings, while you sneak into your own house like a thief and your wife is asleep at 3 am in the morning... Perhaps that would be the last time you enter your own house lol.

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I shall keep that in mind.. Now I know why this procedure / surgery "hymenoplasty" is so common these days especially among one particular community because it is compulsary for the girl to be a virgin on her wedding night. I have heard stories that if a girl does not bleed on her wedding night, she is sent back home to her parents the next day in disgrace.. So it means, that no matter how old the girl or woman is 35 or 40 she is supposed to save herself for her husband while that man could go around screwing half the hookers in town before he goes and marries some goody goody girl chosen by his parents.. This is bull s---

Kareena, any girl that looses her virginity before marriage is a bad girl, now technically she's considered as a prostitutes. So thats the clarification of a bad girl. Good girls r those who keep themselves for their husband after marriage. Same goes for the guys lol.

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You know, that you are screwed, when ur phone rings, while you sneak into your own house like a thief and your wife is asleep at 3 am in the morning... Perhaps that would be the last time you enter your own house lol.

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99% of the girls that have tattoos are branded Bad girls most of the time.

Any Men having TATTOOS, use to be a long time ago that you either served time in jail or the military.

But today is consider a fashion or personality statement.

"If we are going to solve the challenges we face - we can't vacillate - we can't shift depending on our politics"

Barack Obama

of the way they dress, behave, and the stories you heard about them...which is UNFAIR unless you know the girl PERSONALLY.

Most of the times, the "goody-goody" girls turn out to be the one who's hiding a lot of secrets and mischievousness...

ISN'T IT TRUE coz I know some PEOPLE (particluarly here in QL) who LOVE to "point their fingers" at others here...

Now only if the men also thought that way... And they would marry a girl going by her personality and nature, not by the small piece of skin down there.. That is what virginity is in a nut shell. A big issue over a small tissue.

I don't think virginity should even be a factor when it comes to deciding if a girl is bad or good. A girl could be a virgin, but a spoiled, selfish, mean spirited person, and a girl who isn't a virgin could be kind and loving. Personality is the factor, not something so superficial as virginity.

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Can I post the forum with...

"Why good boys fall for bad girls?"

Good girls go to heaven,

bad girls go everywhere

How does one describe or differentiate between a good girl and a bad girl? Is virginity the only criteria? Sometimes I can't help wonder if I am a good girl or a bad girl.

"I'M BAD TO THE BONE"...

taaadaaaddaaaddaaaaaaaa...

"BAD TO THE BONE!!!"

Don't like bad boys here..

this topic discusses about relationships amongst "singles"...and creating a "sub-subject" is putting the thread OFF TRACK.

You could post the above-comment of yours in this thread:

Should women chase Married men??

By desaim20 on Tue, 13/05/2008 - 7:52pm

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Thank you...

actually it will be a sub-subject of your thread is "why women fall on married guys". The reality really is a lot of women whether married or single tend to fall to another married man (that's why they are called the "bad" boys). Sometimes it's just a fling or some sort of discovering things.

A matured married man is more attractive than a bachelor ( I read it somewhere but I don't remember where). Married men tend to have enough experience (gained from being married) to be more charming and sweet (and attractive) in dealing with women whether young or old.

Nowadays, a lot of women (specifically the more liberal ones) experiment also on catching good men and turning them bad and wild. The "wildness" is driving them crazy.

If you will asked me if I'm bad, NO, I'm wild.

"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"

(GDN)

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Aboard, undercover detectives said they found a fully stocked bar and several young women who stripped down to reveal G-strings stuffed with cash and offered to perform sex acts. Suspected operator Christine Morteh, 29, was arrested on charges of offering to commit prostitution, transportation for the purpose of prostitution and operating a business without a licence. She was released from jail on $5,000 bond.

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NIL ILLEGITIMI CARBORUNDUM

It depends where u look.. There isnt a shortage of good guys.. but yes there is a shortage of good girls... :P

sometimes, its up to the seeker to know where to look. Cant find good girls in a strip joint or crack house, right.

Good Girls are like ... Dragons and Aliens ... you can find them only in movies and Books :)

Forgiveness is life...:)

what is bad to you?

pykester

"good girls r bad girls that dont get caught" :P

The world is unfair, in a way i'd say girls that fall far bad boys deserve what they get in the end. They should've known better, but alot of girls do such stupid mistakes and then they whine and cry in the end lol. As if it wasn't that obvious. Then they act all bi*chy and say "we dont trust any guy, all guys r the same" and blah blah blah...

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You know, that you are screwed, when ur phone rings, while you sneak into your own house like a thief and your wife is asleep at 3 am in the morning... Perhaps that would be the last time you enter your own house lol.

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Ahhh, to be young again ;)

Forgiveness is life...:)

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I wanna feel loved, feel safe and cared for...

if the guy will just keeps me getting exasperated and frustrated...

HONEY, the door is THAT way...

"To the left...to the left...everything you own in the box to the left" (*singing BEYONCE song) ;-)

"Imago" relationship. "Imago is classical Latin for "image". This word was chosen because of the fundamental idea that within each of our brains is an unconscious picture or an imprint of the partner that we seek. And we will tend to unconsciously select a person who is uniquely qualified to frustrate us. So if you experience intense frustration in your relationship, you are probably hooked up with the right partner..."

From "FAQ Imago Relationship Coaching"

:)

Wow, just read through this, you know this thread is a year old! Wow has my attitude changed. I've given up on guys who aren't 100% clear with what they want from the get-go, and I'm certainly not into bad boys anymore, far from it actually. Ah the maturity of a year later :P

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the TROLL would ONLY sprout out in the PINOY threads...he doesn't have time for threads such as these.

usually, they get the PRIZE...the girls would always choose them in the end.

But sometimes, women gets decieved coz the "boy-next door" type of guy might turn out to be the "real" bad boy....LOOKS could be deceiving, you know.

love conquers all :-P

How's it goin? Hey, no troll here ha.

Strangely attractive is still interesting.

I think Southland is right to a greater extent. However, i do not think "excitement" comes into it..

A colleague in my last place of work was regularly physically and verbally abused by her boyfriend, but she kept going back to him thinking it would get better. She thought she might be able to change him.

i think women believe that they can "really" change a man. that's why they do it!

Cos i can be a prize tosser if i need to (very rarely though), I know they say nice guys finish last, but why should they.I thought you ladies all wanted the fairytale life ?

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NIL ILLEGITIMI CARBORUNDUM

But I think it's more of the 'excitement' bad boys are known for...i think.

:-)

Good girls love bad boys, because they have an air of nonchalance. The bad boy knows how to play the game and are not afraid to play it (hate the game, not the playa ring a bell?). Good girls like it because they get to be the chaser at first as the bad boys play hard to get (role reversal), which is a nice change of pace for the good girl.

Forgiveness is life...:)

Well people ask me why i'm going out with this crazy girl....

i say she's beautiful, hot,she loves me, but she's crazy and really high maintenance....

live and let live till you die...

"one day we will meet again as time will never defy our togetherness and will never be apart again...."

Hmmm.. I think I should revive this thread as a lot of lovestruck and lovestuck lately....REMEMBER OF THE BREAK-UPS and the RETURN to the 'whatever' THREADS...LOL

:-P

everybody shud do what they want but not cheat and play or use..

so np with bad guys. i have been with bad girls too but its ok for me cuz i knew they were bad and didnt get any hurt. seems nice,cute but evil girl... last one.. god shud proctect us from them..

Because they cant count to three......

Emancipate yourselves from mental slavery

None but ourselves can free our minds..

I once actually asked a dame why she hanged around with an absolute jerk ( in my opinion )and to my astonishment her reply was.........His tongue reaches places where my d**k wont.

Have gone thru the whole post... totally agree with gypsy. One should not b a hypocrite......if u have sex then u MUST b willing to accept women who have sexual experience.

Gypsy's not coming back mir, so u can give up trying. (ur welcome Gypo ;) lol)

So i will wait for ur return from Canada ?

Actually I take back what I said up there. I've had a thought on it and I would marry a virgin if I fell in love with him. His sexual status would not make a difference in my feelings towards his, and I most certainly would not think he was better or worse then other men based on his sexual experience or lack there of.

"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco

What's your definition of "decent girl"...

Stop all that whining ! I havent found a decent girl as yet for a date... Remember the Bridget Jones Diary...In the end it doesnt even matter..........

Good girls become bad at some point in time and then comes the realization......HEy there is that Hugh Grant and the same old accountant who has to bring the life back on track......

No of course I wouldn't. I want a man who's experienced the world a little and knows what he wants, which is why he's chosen me. I don't want some naive boy that I'm going to have to teach everything too. So why would a guy want a girl like that?

"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco

ok girls i am asking u... wud u marry with a virgin guy?? i think answer wud be no:)

so choices,decisions may change from person to person and even sex to sex.. so there must be something.. at least in our insticts..

what u say about it?:) can any girl answer if she wud prefer a virgin boy to marry or not?

My grandmother (bless her soul) once told me...that if a girl/woman goes out, she could be changed from a Miss to Mrs overnight, while the boys/man goes out and still be a Mr.

I was always wondering...when do men have all the fun....hehehe

Exactly. Nobody expects a guy to be a virgin at marriage, so why should a girl.

"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco

See what I mean by double standards. Oh and how about when a guy dates alot of girls he's a MAN...and if a girl dates alot of guys she's a SLUT ;)

Well there you go nib, maybe it's none of the parents business who their sons or daughters marry.

"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco

i know why they cheat. cuz yea it is boring with that girls.. u have to teach a lot:p

and guys with that choices live in such countries that they mostly cant live their teens.. and go crazy. be with girls freely. so when they have power money freedom they do it..

even i am a boy my parents wud really feel weird if they knew i do somethings and they try to prevent it.. depends on family, mostly in such places boys are encouraged to be with all girls they find even they have wife etc.. so my parents are good but compare to ur country.. there maybe parents wudnt care how many bfs their daugther had..

I KNOW Corne! It's so irritating. Hows about you save everyone a lot of grief and marry the girl you fall in love with, virgin or no. Just because a girl isn't a virgin doesn't mean she isn't a good, caring girl.

"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco

Ok Nib, we really like to sleep and then marry the same men. I don't want to speak for other girls, but I don't like to be sleeping with more then one person at a time.

"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco

I am shocked sometimes to see these kids around doing what our elders forbids us to do (or think) when we were young.

But think it this way...sometimes the wrappers hide what's really inside the package...or how about this...looks can be deceiving, after all...

And then they tell the outgoing girl how much miserable their marriages are and how much they love being with her. But when they're given the ultimatum of choosing between the wife and the mistress....guess who they'll pick ? Mommy's choice! Now THAT makes no sense!

You know why they cheat nib? Cause they married the virgin and now they're bored. I think women should all fight back by not staying virgins just to please men. They don't do it to please us.

"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco

ok lets change the date part and make it sleep:)

gypsy is right.. u knew that turkish men cheat at marriage at a ratio around %80:)

and here being with guys away from family aged 18-60 they %90 wudnt say no to an action.

and it makes me crazy.. cuz i plan to marry late and dont cheat..

No nib it is not the same with women. We tend to want to date and marry the same man.

"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco

maybe same with u. hot good looking passionate crazy guy to date, a guy with good job trustable,caring to marry

I know! Then when they marry her, they get bored and cheat on her with the outgoing, fun-loving girl. Men make no sense.

"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco

It's more than just slightly. Some guys here would sleep with a girl but won't want any guy going near their sister, they would date the open-minded, outgoing, passionate lady but marry the one their mom picks (i.e. a traditional, shy girl).

ah... and i really dont like b***ches and slutty attitude which most girls think and say it attracts boys..

Slightly Corne. They want their cake and to eat it too. Personally I don't see the appeal of the virgin.

"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco

i totally believe what u say.. i am so sure that i will have good marriage:)

Oh let's not get into guys and their choices in women. Double standards!

and u know what.. girls are so stupid that they come to u when u play.. and then when u know her and u dont need to play and maybe a reason for that u liked her and u dont want games any more, they leave u...

well i was the one who were leaving girls. but this last time i waited much for her to change and didnt happen so she did.. from now on, first mistake ok, second and fight ok, third bye bye

really dont wanna wait for stupid girls to change and just want games..

and this is also important, if it is game both sides shud know and accept it.. some people really dont know how to play..

Sure bad girls exist. It's funny how the universe works. Good girls get attracted to bad boys, and good boys get attracted to complete biatches. And in the end, good guys marry the good girls and have a good life, bad boys marry those biatches and have miserable lives...Gotta love karma!

Sure it's the case. Like I've heard so many times since I got here, the guys here will only marry the virgin, and fool around non-stop with all the other girls.

"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco

living in the Gulf, we have no option but to see life from angles that some of us not even knew they exist. Sometimes, ideas brought on QL makes you wonder if you are living on the same planet with some people.

But buddy, don't push it to the limits again (I know you enjoy the controversy). I am talking about your last phrase above which you know it's not entirely the case

May the roof above us never fall in, and may the friends below never fall out!

Maybe its got to do with the fact that while good guys go to heaven, the bad guys get to go everywhere else if you catch my drift....

rgds,

j.j

bad boys like to rock n roll

thats the reason

I never considered myself a bad girl till I moved here. Where any girl that isn't an overly religious virgin, is practically a prostitute.

"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco

but I'm not a good girl either...sort of an in-between...hehehehe

I do get attracted to MEN (not boys) back then who are BIG "no-no" on mama's criteria. I can still keep a safe distance from them...coz i already got the "MAN" I wanted. ;-)

Gypsy - I am pretty sure you are going to fall for me. 100% sure. I am damned handsome you know.

I;m usually pretty good at not falling for the unavailable guy. I can't stand games and don't have the patience to play them. And I don't like being the other woman. However I'm not perfect, we've all had our bouts of unrequited love.

"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco

I am getting too old.

But seeing as I was hit on recently and I told her I was not on offer, but she went for it even more.

As they do.

Women, in a way want passion [call it what you like].

Love, [call it what you like].

and Security, [call it what you like].

But I could go out and make you feel like a princes or a whore, depending on how you want to be.

We can seem to be what you want us to be just, as you can do for us.

You [ladies]go for it, and so do we [men].

And in the end we all become ourselves.

If you still like the BAD prison fodder boys, don't complain when we leer at T and A girls.

It just is and it always will be.

And that.

Call me Maninibat!

are there any bad girls. I know about naughty girls but bad girls is something new to me

struggling here to remember when I last fancied someone who didn't fancy me .. by which I mean when I was your age and got hurt cos I fancied a bad guy.

I can't remember fancying anyone I thought was bad ...

I know I KNEW bad boys who were likely to break my heart and so I avoided them and hit on the nice guys and broke their hearts instead.

hey! it's life ...

no one mentioned the bad girls ;o)

Hmmm...I think girls in general fall for 'bad boys' cause they have that rebel, macho, tough attitude...and girls like that cause it's considered 'manly'. Also, the fact that "bad boys aren't good for u" has to do with it. I mean, we always want what we can't have and when u tell a person that something isn't good for them, they want it even more just for the sake of defiance. So a girl would want a guy cause she KNOWS he's trouble...and so it becomes like a challenge ;)

RED_POPE: The topic is still "Why Good Girls Love Bad Boys" NOT "Good guys turn out to be bad choice"...I was talking to CYMAN and was just wondering. But I could start another thread about that in another time. :-)

Jauntie: NOPE, my Friday turned out to be a fine one. ;-P

GYPSY: I don't think women would outgrow their attraction to "bad boys"...it's just these boys also grows up or matures to BAD MEN...well that's one "bad" news....hehehe

At least now I know the secret. Have been trying my best to be a good boy.

Now I will revert and show my dab side hoping things work better this time.

We're supposed to grow out of liking the bad boy??? When?

"I fight with love and I laugh with rage, you have to live light enough to see the humor and long enough to see some change." Ani Difranco

you will meet me and judge for yourself lol but be careful :)

May the roof above us never fall in, and may the friends below never fall out!

hi really i dont like bad boys. but i love mad boys............

were you really never a bad boy? I really can't believe that of a hot blooded Mediterranean male :P

have you had a bad Friday?

chill hon, take a nap or whatever it takes to sleep on it - tomorrow's another day, OK?

Forbiden fruits are always tempting or should i say grass is greener on the other side of the fense

In what direction are you trying to steer this thread Azilana?

From: Why Good Girls Love Bad Boys?

Too: I mean, Good guys turn out to be bad choice?

This sounds more of a riddle than just a topic on" Why Good Girls Love Bad Boys" ?

Emancipate yourselves from mental slavery

None but ourselves can free our minds..

usually the macho ones, the "smart" ones, the ones who like to fill you with all the sweet talking, the ones with nice cars on daddy's expense. The good ones who are rotten inside are a small minority to my understanding. But really good ones (take me as an example) lol are really scarce :)

May the roof above us never fall in, and may the friends below never fall out!

because somehow, they turn out to be the real A**holes for real...

It's like it's sweet in the outside but "rotten" in the core?

One guy seemed to be a nice guy...the type you bring home for MAMA to meet...then he turns out to be a sidewinding snake...

what you mean, good guys turn out bad choice?

May the roof above us never fall in, and may the friends below never fall out!

why good guys turn out bad choice?

We know it's bad but we like it...but the good thing about it is that when women matures...we tend to steer towards the nice guys...

like they said...nice guys ends last (in a good way, that is)...

what I don't get it's why girls complaint about these "bad" boys every so often?

May the roof above us never fall in, and may the friends below never fall out!

That answer to your question is being left in confidence and privacy of my daily confession to God.

Emancipate yourselves from mental slavery

None but ourselves can free our minds..

Of course we love you...you're the 1st and original "Bad" boy of QL...lol

...not aziliana...

Seriously, back in my teens, I admit I had my share of falling for "bad" boys but not to the extent of falling in too deep. I still had my wits with me till now.

Are you "once" a bad boy, RED_POPE???

ah really thats why too many gals love me and like me :D

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Hey Dumb, Dumb You got some gum? Ohh dumb dumb, you are in trouble with the bad boy, run run you dumb, dumb.

Malarious but very true.... LOL

Emancipate yourselves from mental slavery

None but ourselves can free our minds..

Part of us actually like to believe we can be the one girl to turn this wild man into a pussycat. Part of us just like that down-to-our-toes thrill, the excitement of something we KNOW is bad for us. (Like chocolate cheesecake, and Jimmy Choo shoes.) Some of us are just gluttons for misery and often than not, misconstrued it as a sacrifice in the name of love....ugggh