Qatari Men and Western Women

never ever give a Qatari guy any attention coz they think that the girls they're talking to r bitches and aren't trust worthy that's what ALL of Arab guys think

they want a girl who have like ...Never seen a man in her life

i prefer western guys! more handsome and polite

Whew.. that was long. The cat fight didn't last that long though.

Is she still coming to Doha? Sunny?

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Damn its the 3rd page ....

guess Sunny by now will be having 5-10 kids n living happily ever after ..... LOL

It would appear so.....Memories...la la la

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OMG is this thread still going?????

I think a lot of Qatari men are very respectful and decent. Depends where you go to meet such type of men and what your expectations are. I know many non Qataris; English, Irish, Syrian, Egyptian, Iranian, American who are married to Qatari men and they are happy. But it has become more difficult to do so with these new laws..........

Planning my next holiday- any ideas?

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URGENT ATTENTION ,

I AM MRS.RADI RAZA FROM EGYPT.I AM MARRIED TO LATE HASSAN RAZA OF

BLESSED MEMORY WHO IS AN OIL EXPLORER BASED IN NIGERIA FOR TWELVE YEARS

BEFORE HE DIED IN THE YEAR 2000.WE WERE MARRIED FOR TWELVE YEARS

WITHOUT A CHILD. HE DIED AFTER A BRIEF ILLNESS THAT LASTED

FOR ONLY FOUR DAYS.BEFORE HIS DEATH WE WERE BOTH DEVOTED MUSLEM.

SINCE HIS DEATH I TOO HAVE BEEN BATTLING WITH BOTH CANCER AND FIBROID

PROBLEMS . WHEN MY LATE HUSBAND WAS ALIVE HE DEPOSITED A FAMILY

TREASURE BOX CONTAINNING THE SUM OF 5.5 MILLION (FIVE MILLION,FIVE HUNDRED THOUSAND U.S DOLLARS) WITH A FINANCE COMPANY .I CONTACTED YOU TO ASSIST TO RECEIVE THE BOX AND USE THE FUND FOR THE ORPHANAGES, WIDOWS INSTEAD THE FUND WILL GET LOST AND SINCE I CANNOT LIVE LONG ON EARTH , IT IS BETTER I WILLED THIS FUND TO YOU .ALSO I HAVE WILLED OUT SOME OF MY LATE HUSBAND'S WEALTH TO SOME PEOPLE HERE IN NIGERIA BUT THEY NEVER SHOW ANY SIGN OF HONESTY , SO IT IS WHAT MOTIVATED ME TO CONTACT YOU SO THAT I CAN WILLED THIS FUND TO YOU .

RECENTLY, MY DOCTOR TOLD ME THAT I HAVE ONLY SIX MONTHS TO LIVE DUE TO

CANCER PROBLEM. THOUGH WHAT DISTURBS ME MOST IS MY STROKE SICKNESS

WHICH LED ME INTO DEAF AND DUMP. HAVING KNOWN MY CONDITION I DECIDED

TO DONATE THIS FUND TO A DEVOTED PERSON/INDIVIDUAL THAT WILL UTILIZE

THIS MONEY THE WAY I AM GOING TO INSTRUCTS HEREIN. AS IT IS ONE GOD THAT CREAT US. I WANT THIS PERSON/INDIVIDUAL TO USE THIS MONEY IN ALL SINCERITY TO FUND ORPHANAGES, WIDOWS, AND ALSO TO ENSURE THAT THE SOCIETY UPHOLDS THE VIEWS AND BELIEF OF THE HOLY ALLAH. THE HOLY ALLAH EMPHASIZES SO MUCH ON ALLAH'S BENEVOLENCE AND THIS HAS ENCOURAGE ME TO TAKE THE BOLD STEP.I TOOK THIS DECISION BECAUSE I DON'T HAVE ANY CHILD THAT WILL INHERIT THIS MONEY AND MY HUSBAND RELATIVES ARE NOT TRUSTED RELATIONS AND I DON'T WANT A SITUATION WHERE THIS MONEY WILL BE USED IN AN UNHOLY MANNER.

HOWEVER,SINCE MY LATE HUSBAND'S RELATIVE ARE NOT RELIABLE ,

THEY SAID THAT I AM AN ABOMINATION TO THEM AND SINCE I DEVELOP INTO THIS SICKNESS, THEY HAVE BEEN FROZEN MY LATE HUSBAND'S WEALTH .

SO PLEASE BE HONEST WITH ME . I AM FACING SERIOUS PAINS RIGHT HERE

.ALSO I WILL WANT YOU TO KINDLY SEND TO ME YOUR FULL NAME,

YOUR ADDRESS, YOUR PHONE AND FAX, YOUR AGE, YOUR OCCUPATION WHICH WILL

ENABLE ME TO PREPARE LETTER OF INTRODUCTION/AUTHORIZATION IN YOUR NAME

AND SUBMIT TO THE FINANCE COMPANY TO INTRODUCE YOU AS MY LEGAL

REPRESENTATIVE THAT WILL CLAIM THE FAMILY TREASURE BOX .

HENCE THE REASONS FOR THIS BOLD DECISION. I KNOW THAT AFTER DEATH I

WILL BE WITH ALLAH THE MOST BENEFICENT AND THE MOST

MERCIFUL.

I WANT YOU AND THE COMMUNITY NEAR YOU TO ALWAYS PRAY FOR ME. MY

HAPPINESS IS THAT I LIVED A TRUE DEVOTED WORTHY LIFE OF EMULATION

WHOEVER THAT WANTS TO SERVE ALLAH MUST SERVE HIM IN TRUTH AND IN

FAIRNESS.PLEASE ALWAYS BE PRAYERFUL ALL THROUGH YOUR LIFE.ANY

DELAY IN YOUR REPLY WILL GIVE ROOM IN SOURCING FOR A DEVOTED PERSON FOR

THIS SAME PURPOSE.UNTIL I HEAR FROM YOU, MY DREAMS WILL REST

SQUARELY ON YOUR SHOULDERS.

MAY ALLAH CONTINUE

TO GUIDE AND PROTECT YOU.

ALLAH GUIDE YOU,INSHALLAH .

MRS.RADI RAZA

FROM: MRS. RADI RAZA

You can't teach experience...

 i think in the beginning god wanted us to be togheter and not to be separated through religions,languages or borderlines

love is love for all of us and everyone needs someone to love and everyone wants to be loved

:-D

*When hands reach out in friendship, hearts are touched with joy*

Vegas....  by digging the QL graveyard

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why we always questioned about different nationality couple. let them be. the more mix the more fun and interesting.

Everybody is right Everybody is wrong, it depend where we stand.

You can't teach experience...

im sorry but i just had to post on here as i find the comments very negative....

i am a western woman and i married my qatari husband last year after many years together so they are not all as bad as you think.

Wow, this is a hot one! hahaha! I may be shooting myself in the foot here but dont u think that most young men fit that discription?!?  They want sex and because they want more of it from difrent women thay are unwilling to stand by one.  Not saying this is me but im definatly not interested in marriage. So should I be w/o intamacy completely?  I think not, both parties should just be honest with thier intentions. Most young men that i know are not "looking" for thier wife, they hope to find her but can be fickle and indecisive and why not!? there are a ton of woman out there, are we expected to not fall for any of them until we know they are the "one?"  I think some of the time women feel used when a man backs out a relationship it is unfair.  He may have thought the world of the woman previously and when she raised the stakes he realized his true feelings.  It is hard to tell the diffrence between this and someone who is simply pretending to feel this way for his own selfish intentbut I think that any man who says he know exactally what he wants is a liar or closed minded... 

Does anyone get hwat im saying?  There is a lot of room for misinturpretation on this one...

Mitch

lol.i was switching through some old treads and found this one very intresting.

thought to bring it up again.maybe will have some more posts here

:-)

ohh swissy, romance in the air for you? :P

tra la la

very intresting and helpful inputs

I consider my self one of those "western women" that wants to learn more about Arabic culture, and I want to make friends with people from all cultures to learn about them and share experiences.

hi Moha,

I agree with you 100% but some times men need love, they need some one to talk to share time not his wife which so busy with home ,kids espacially in age of 40tys , in this part of world there are so many kind of marriage some times it win win games every body he gets what he want

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It is forbiddin for any muslim man to have sex with a women other than his wife.

They will bone you bone-dry, and kick you to the curb in a heartbeat. This is not limited to Qatari men, but certainly true of Qatari men.

Maybe Qatari men seek out western woman for sex only coz they know western woman give *it* up so easily!!??

Yep! I'm a western woman and give 'it' up real easy for a guy I fancy. Couldn't imagine 'saving myself' with the possibility of never having good sex. What a waste!

I will tell you the best things to have friends and just friends of arabs men coz iam arabiab and it is hard to find someone married to nonarabian lady i didnt say there is not but they are very low percent of arabs so if you were very sure and trust him deeply and sure 100 % he is not cheating you go on be his lover but u must expect that one day he will goes but if u get marry of him thats a nice thing.

by the way maybe he loves u very much but usually the community will be stronger than him so who will can not continue and he will regret that he loved u so it is a matter of luck if he will get marry u or not.

and i wish u luck

tc

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Maybe Qatari men seek out western woman for sex only coz they know western woman give *it* up so easily!!??

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Hi All

I have read thru a few of these comments and find them quite disturbing as men seem to show the least bit of respect for women.

Men must start to realise that this women are the mothers of their children and once disrespecting a woman by calling her various crude names you are placing your mother in that same category.

there is a fine line between a chatup line and harrasment and it seems that the latter is the call of the day in Qatar.Sad though

IT IS SAID THAT IF YOU TREAT A WOMAN LIKE A QUEEN YOU WILL BE A KING.

THANK YOU

AFRICAN WARRIOR

I don't know from where to start but i do agree to some of the mentioned points and I say, ... SOME:

1- [SOME]Arab men date western women to show off and tell their friends that they are dating western women.

2- [SOME]Western women are dating Arab men for the money and gifts and work opportunities that they can get from knowing these guys.

3- Sex is the 'Gas' to most of these 'Relations Engines', men want sex and some women do so, men want sex and some women does not mind while they will get what they want later.

4- Most of these relations are nothing but fake relations and ends up soon when both or either one of the relation parts get whatever they want or when they get nothing at all.

5- What is built on Lies and Cheating would never last to the end.

6- [SOME] people enjoyed playing the part of getting fooled and i don't know, it is obvious but they do enjoy that and ask for more.

7- [SOME] people get blinded in the beginning, but know the truth later.

8- [SOME] and I can say [MOST] of the relations between women and men are built on the relation between the Zebra and the Lion concept.

Finally If i continue talking here I would never stop, but why we don't build our relations on Love, Honesty, Friendship and Respect? I would like to date a western woman, but not for what most of men got in mind. Sex is the last thing on my mind and i would like really to spend some time with an open minded woman and talk and discuss everything that we can. women are more than that because if we just forget about all the Nice, Beautiful and Fantastic meaning of the word 'Eve' & 'Woman' and all the other things that I can't gather here and make it exclusively related to the word 'Sex'. Then it is better for the human relations to vanish.

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Western women are fantastic , would like to have one on bed .. if any one let me know .feel free in doha with me ...

Just want to say hi Oak and LOL!!!!

Yes Hussanmf I was referring to foreplay.

Men and women will not find the kind of fulmilment (spelt wrong I know but its saturday night hint hint) until they are with someone they trully love and respect.

Its not just sexual gratification from a one night wham bam thankyou ma'am, its more about feelings and emotions with that dreaded word (oops there we go again....SEX)

Casual relationships from the West are sneaking in here as well as dress codes etc, its the way of the world these things will happen at the end of the day but gratificaion in that way is always more pleasurable if you are with someone you love and not just a mere fling!

We came we saw we were Qatarized

Gypsy...

i m just curious. When u say most women cant orgasm thru conventional sex, does this imply a " NON CONVENTIONAL WAY " of having sex that actually brings them 2 orgasm?:)

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Gypsy...

i m just curious. When u say most women cant orgasm thru conventional sex, does this imply a " NON CONVENTIONAL WAY " of having sex that actually brings them 2 orgasm?:)

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Gypsy...

i m just curious. When u say most women cant orgasm thru conventional sex, does this imply a " NON CONVENTIONAL WAY " of having sex that actually brings them 2 orgasm?:)

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Ram what are you talking about? Most women can't reach orgasm through conventional sex period, it doesn't matter who they are sleeping with? Where did you learn sex ed?

Tpm123, normally I would agree with you, but I think Qatar is a bit different. In my opinion there are almost no western men here looking for love, however there are plenty of Arab and East Asian men looking for love, you just have to be careful, cause they might also be looking for passports.

As for Qatari's not wanting a real realtionship with a western woman, that is not true, although I have never dated a Qatari myself I know several western women happily married to Qatari men. I wouldn't say it's the norm, but it does happen.

Ram what are you talking about? Most women can't reach orgasm through conventional sex period, it doesn't matter who they are sleeping with? Where did you learn sex ed?

Tpm123, normally I would agree with you, but I think Qatar is a bit different. In my opinion there are almost no western men here looking for love, however there are plenty of Arab and East Asian men looking for love, you just have to be careful, cause they might also be looking for passports.

As for Qatari's not wanting a real realtionship with a western woman, that is not true, although I have never dated a Qatari myself I know several western women happily married to Qatari men. I wouldn't say it's the norm, but it does happen.

I have two teenage daughters here and the Arab boys are certainly kind considerate and attentaive. However they also get bos throwiung their phone numbers at them, SMS stalking and trying anyway to get their attention.

One daughter has a serious Qatarti boyfriend but after 6 months still has not introduced my daughter to his family. The relationship is now a little rocky as she has conveted to Islam and now won't give him unmarried sex as its Haram!

On the otherhand she has some genuine male friends who are caring, not after sex.

Go figure.

a Man can reach his max. orgasm with having sex with any woman on the other side the woman is not reaching her max. orgasm unless she had sex with her beloved.

that doesn't mean that she never reach her orgasm by having sex with any guy .. but i'm talking about the maximum orgasm.

"Similar eyes are seeing similar things, in a different ways"

"Women are looking for love while Men are looking for sex most of the time everywhere,EAST,WEST,NORTH or SOUTH."

Have to disagree with this. Women often look for sex and men for love - it depends on the individual. We all have the same needs. I think to what extent we are able to express these needs depends on our culture, religion and personality.

I've been watching this threads for days and I get to say it's so typical.

Women are looking for love while Men are looking for sex most of the time everywhere,EAST,WEST,NORTH or SOUTH.

women from the west have their own culture and traditions,which is different from ours.Am not saying our culture or traditions are better,it's just different and each has it's advantages and disadvantages.

on the 7th of Feb 1971,swiss women could vote http://news.bbc.co.uk/onthisday/hi/dates/stories/february/7/newsid_2738000/2738475.stm

while in Egypt,Syria they could since 1956,1949 resp.however this doesn't mean women in Syria or Egypt were living better life than swiss women.

we should all be happy that things are changing and people are moving toward integration and mutual understanding.

I can bet that half or more of the western expat had different opinions about muslims and arabs before they have arrived in the country.

dating and love have no regional or general rules,two people can date for years and breakup in seconds for silly reasons.

as a general rule,a qatari would think thousands of times before having a longterm or serious relationships with any non qatari lady,for many reasons.

something else to add arabs have no specific skin colour,it depends on the country and historical backgrounds,arabs were mixing with different races and cultures,which indicates their open minded mentality for centuries.

we should all make love not war ;)

Are the asians allowed to date western women out here?

Where can I find them out here? Are there any good pubs out here?

You are wrong, who told you that arabic people are dark ? Arabs are originaly from Yemen, and all are having a fair skin color, and all girls here in Qatar have the freedom to do anything ? where r u living in dark ages or something ?

And for driving the car it is wrong thing to take off the license from women, they should take it from the crazy boys who are driving land cruisers like xxxxx in the streets

halililoya ( did i even spell that right) :) hehe

Have a gr8 day

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Not all Arabs or Qataris expect there western girlfriends or wives to give up their independence or convert, that's a little sterotypical. Also, what does their skin colour have to do with anything?

And soon non-working woman will not be issued Driving Licence!!! Cause They dont need it...!!!

If animals dont need to drive why would non-working woman drive!!!

Thats exactly the point.....That is how they view WOMAN.

There is no harm for dating & having sex with a Qatari. Most of the Qataris are dark,most of their fathers or forefathers were fishermen till 1970's oil boom (its usually the Egyptians & Lebenese guys who are fair, handsome,stylish & flashy - correct me, I could be wrong).

Dating as in - order to marry later on for a Independent woman (whether from an Western country or Estern) is fraught with danger. She not only leaves her country but also her freedom, independence & right to equality. After marriage she has no choices, only her hubby makes them. Even if she wants a diveorce after childbirth she will find it almost impossible to stay away from her husband. Not to mention covering her hair & wearing the abaya.

The life is very different to a western point of view. Most often the elders in the family may not speak english - only arabic.

Actually Qatari as a person is very nice (although they do throw pepsi cans & water bottles on the roads). For a western Independent woman to walk into his life & give up all the liberty would be unimaginable. But as a friend he would be nice.

wt a gr8 insight!!!

i wonder if this line gets u many dates though;) hehehe

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MEN are from MARS...

WOMEN are from VENUS.....

This quotation really says it all. It doesn't matter where are you from, but, the basic thing is, men in general really have SEX in their minds. But, as MEN mature (but very slowly), they go for more than sex. And that is, a pure and unadulterated relationship.

Women in general are always serious when they go for a date even if it's just a casual one.

By the way, SEX is just BODY-TO-BODY relationship. MAKING LOVE is far too INTENSE and more worthwhile.

Arab men do tend to view westerners ( or all non arab women in general) as relatively easy ( compared to arab women at least)...

Having said that, Most men are PRIMARally looking for sex before anything else...and thats the sad biological truth :)

its has very little to do with morality or dating customs ( which varry from culture to culture) and a lot to do with testesterone :)

Its left to the woman to decide whether she wants to offer that and when to offer it if at all...

So there u have it:)

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nice and cool fantasy u gooot ,,, Qatari men looking for western girls ,,, wat a hot shot :P

It is unlogical.Arabian men cannot satisfy any western women.Life is not consisted of only bed and money.First of all contrast about mentality doesn't let these relations go on.And about asian girls and western men.U can find this only in pornographic movies or in the Middle East Hotels.

Hello everyone. I am new to this website and this is my first comments. If you ‎compare Arab men who want western woman for sex with Western men who want ‎Asian woman for sex you will end up with the same result. Most single western men ‎in Qatar want to date Asian women for sex only while they are here in Qatar and not ‎to have long relationships with them. ‎

redcajun504, you can still find an Arab man that is interested in you and wants to ‎date just because he liked so many things about you. You just need to make the ‎right selection. We see many examples in the Middle East of men married to western ‎women because they loved them and not because they want to have sex with them.‎

After reading blogs here, i would like to explain that the life is like a journey from a point to another point and this journey won't stop as there are more needs growing day by days. So the needs you will keep with you limited you will not drive a lot in your life. But if you have desires and want to keep out you have to move a lot. So during this movement to expend your life you may meet different kind of people. There are men or women of different thinkings. Some are friendly, some are rude & some are horny. Its upto you that with whom do you want to share the moments that you want to make them golden. e.g. myself i dont prefer sex firstly, have a good enjoying time, move together around and have good relationship. then its upto you that what do u do? but thinking first about sex is negative thinking as i consider.

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There is something ive always had an opinnion of since i took my first step in to Qatar, first of all im friends with heaps of girls here and my advice to them is not to trust any guys (including myself) knowing my self and knowing id respect and never hurt a girl i still make sure people i know are always cautious of who they hang out with and why they hang out with them.

Well my opinion is that people in Qatar foreigner or national anyone thats really lived here there whole life, doesn't have the social mentality of looking at a girl in anyway aside from a sex object. Observing males and females here in public attractions for example city centre, you see girls and guys giggling while walking past each other or find it hard to make conversation. They find it difficult because they were not brought up and used to the fact that girls and guys arent sex objects they are people with emotions and emotions arent something to toy with. So sumarising what i just said is people living in Qatar are always looking for a way to get in to a girls pants and if they can't get in to a girls pants they decide to get in to each others pants :P:P:P(e.g boy on boy) i know sounds disgusting but tey get that desperate they can't help themselves. hehe...

I propose to battle this by setting up more social gatherings and events and making sure the opposite sexes learn to appreciate each other socially rather then just physically.

I don't think they could have lived as a normal couple. The social distance was too big.

Let's change the topic, eh? How many westerners married local girls? Aside from that soldier who married someone from Bahraini Amir's family? Where do we stand on it?

The irony in this thread surpasses that of any Shakespearian theatrical masterpiece i have ever read, and beleive me in school i was forced to read quite a few.

There is a hidden rule in every culture in the world since the dawn of time, and it is an unfair rule but ALL countries adapt it somehow, and that unfair rule is that if a guy does it he can get away with it, but if a girl does it then she's bad and should be doomed with that reputation for all eternity. A guy has many unsuccessful relationships and he is labelled playboy for having been with so many women, but if a girl just isnt finding the right guy then its all the bad words a person can think of to describe her.

How does this apply to this thread? I dont know but since i spent all night thinking of the past paragraph then i will make it link somehow....

Well the irony part first, by thinking that Qatari men only want sex and fun from western girls, you indirectly make us assume that in your thoughts western Men only want marrige and commitment!! Please dont lie to yourself and think that, men are men wherever you go ofcourse they will initially think fun/sex when they are judging you by appearance or by knowing you shortly, but if you present yourself from the begining as a person who only wants a serious relationship then you will eliminate the people who just want fun and keep the people who are interested in something more serious. I just cant ever beleive that Qatari's only want sex because ALL my friends who were with me in university married the first western girl they had a relationship with! Yes they all pretended they were the cool guys and acted like they only use girls for fun because guys do and say silly things like that always its the Alpha-male syndrome, but in the end they all got married.

If i was a western girl i would actually be afraid of getting married too quickly to a Qatari guy if i get in a relationship with them! Many guys fall in love too quickly, they act like the players because thats peer pressure but in reality they are just passionate guys who fall too quick.

There are even two examples of friends of the family who married prostitutes!! They walked in thinking they were players who could just get what they want and leave but ended up falling in love and marrying them! and they have kids and everything is going fine! The moral of the story is that many Arab guys fall in love too quickly because serious dating and pre-marital relations are not common in our culture, so any first-relationship is usually the most magical and the one they want to keep forever regardless of who the girl is.

Also the second moral is that the famous saying is wrong cause 'you can make a Ho a Houswife!'

Hi, he he he i guess i made a big fuzz out there, just wanted to reply hard coz what ever i saw back there were only insults against arab's. arab's looking for european girls or only think about sex ??? doesnt european's do the same or other nationality, they just see us ?

Thanx Aisha for welcoming me :)

yep i am new here and glad to find this site

Yup Bajesus.. With respect, He should have said that he represents himself. Not the majority of Qataris. However, there must be guys out there sharing the same “view” .. Not a very typical Qatari I guess :-D LOL…

Anyway, Qatar127… You seem like a new member here..You welcome bro :-)

And in no way does qatar127 represent what I think.

and everytime he's in Europe girls throw themselves to him? It could be true...arab men are normally very good looking plus lets not forget about the bling bling factor.

"thats why most of european girls in europe looking for arabs to satisfy them"

Are they? That's the first I've heard of this. But then again, nobody tells me anything.

Hi, I am a Qatari man and i am realy sorry to hear all this about us, Prostitutes are eveywhere, and here in Qatar it is the lowest, and if you see that it is most in asian's and forigners such as americans and indians looking for phelipinos and other nationalities in all Qatar's hotels, you can go and check by your self to any hotel in the weekend and i challenge you if a qatari guy would approach you, only other nationalities are doing this bad picture about our country, now coming back to Qataries, yes it is true Qataries like sex same as other nationalities, but the difference here that we men start doing sex in a late age where the person would start working and start collecting money so he can go abroad or get girls localy and start dating them, it is the human nature to get attracted to girls, specially in a matured age it would be explosive thats why most of european girls in europe looking for arabs to satisfy them.

just to clarify things up and not to take bad or wrong picture about us, we are the same as any other country, and again for western girls Qatari men looking for them because they are free girls and she might do sex for the guy she likes or attracted to, not like arab girls were our religion prohibets that unless she marries the guy.

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Got saddenned with this post.

i would like to friendship with u.

You've seen someone "dumping" in a car park? In the UK that could mean having a "poop" in the car park!

May I ask? Whats the protection of women in Qatar? just curious

It is very hard to see how a qatari man will give anything important to a western woman when he has no respect for most things except the wishes of his family.

Just look at the way he treats his own country, throwing rubish from cars (moving and/or dumping into car parks when stationary)

Shiney buildings and cars are not what makes a person - its what's inside that makes the person.

Without respecting others that person is nothing.

If this is the way they respect their own country, what respect should an outsider expect.

Girls that chase the bling-bling deserve what the get, or dont get.

Why look at extremes? OK so in your case it was either pump gas or have a good job - but not every situation is the same. Then again, who am I to tell you what is the right way: I moved out of my parents' house at 17, pretty much made my own decisions, left the country altogether, married a foreigner, made him leave HIS country, and now we are having the time of our lives, travelling and working around the world. And neither of us is pumping petrol :P

n they may take away our citizenship :P Having huge family ties can be a problem sometimes but it sure beats being lonely. For me, not taking the decision I almost made many yrs ago turned out great. If it was not for the risk of losing my family, I would be now living in the US pumping gas, even with my degree. Now I have a good life n a good job. If u ask me would I do with my kids what my father did with me to protect them from making big mistakes, then I will sure say "I will do" :D

Aha and you Qatari guys suffer your family's wrath and stick to what your family orders you to do just to grow up, have babies, and do the same to your sons and daughters: stop them from making their own decisions.

N what I meant by girls r not the Qatari girls. Qatari girls r only allowed to have fun with us Qatari men :D OK, saying fun n Qatari men in 1 sentence is a contradiction in terms but our girls have no choice n will have to live with that :P

It is hard I know cause of our relation with their families, where the family approval is a must b4 making a big commitment as marriage. Nevertheless, u have to agree that Qatari men not marrying western, or non-Qataris as a whole, ladies cause of a cultural expectation or other limitations does not make the Qatari guys only after sex. It is just that they may want but can't. Still, I agree with u that having a relationship with a Qatari guy with the intention of having a long term commitment is risky n mostly will not work :)

Nah not quite the same, Jassim. You as a Qatari guy can have your fun, but Qatari girls can't do the same. So don't tell us "girls are the same" blah blah.

And those guys who do take their commitment to Western girls further are few and far between. The last unmarried Qatari friend of mine was recently forced to dump his French girlfriend and marry a cousin he's never seen. He didn't dump the girl, but he married the cousin anyway... Then the girl dumped him.

As A Qatari, I say BULL :P we r as any men on this planet, n beyond. We like having fun n so r the girls. Would the fun turns to a commitment? I say yes n seen it so many times. I have few friends who r married to western ladies, not many but there r. For me, I almost gotten in a permanent commitment, trap, when I was in the US studying n I had no issue with facing my family with my decision. However, I decided to come back home after graduation n leave things as they r for a yr just to be sure this was what I wanted. As they say, away from the eyes, away from the heart, so all became as not that exciting after a yr. N that was her decision n not mine :( May she rotten in hell :P

So, no, long commitments can happen even with us sex-crazed Qataries :P

If a qatary or arab guy tries to date a Western girl most likely will be just for fun. Qatary society does not have the consept of daiting. WE have to understand that Islam is not only a religion but a way of living, it is very hard for a Qatary to marry a foreing girl, it happends but very unlikely. His own family will not allow it, and the family approval is very important. I will suggesrt you to be a bit carefull, although I heard that qataries will spend a lot of money in expensive presents and stuff to impress a girl. If you are looking for a good time and a good time only i don't see the preoblem is really up to each person.

"You can't separate peace from freedom because no one can be at peace unless he has his freedom" ........Malcom X

Unfortunately it doesn not work that way always but we can do what we can do and if we would all try a little we would make our world a better place.

Great words. Indeed, as foreigners in this country, we represent our own homelands. Back home I really appreciate when tourists and vsitors try to comply with the laws and customs of my country, and I do my best to reciprocate when I am abroad. It would be nice if others did the same.

Good Morning Ameen,

yes to true and very well written and definately East meets West. However, for those of us are living in a foreign country it s up to everyone to respect the rules and religeon of that country. I feel every one of us ex-pats is an own ambasador for our own country.

I love being here and everyday is a day of learning for me although I have lived in quite a few countries already.

Four pages of posts, UPs and DOWNs and my own last examination for the running semester in the neck. Let's get in on that...

We got the Spanish coalition there, the liberate French-mixed, the religious and the ones who forgot about religious aspects.

Look around, with the interest for women it is like the overall increase of car purchases. The opportunities here in this country are rising day by day, and they grow with the same certainty as the.. I call them "weaknesses".. which anyone of us can fulfill.

Doha is for the next 5 years - at least - zone of trial and error experiments. The locals are in first generation exposed to so many trials, that it means to them on first sight to get into big fun.

Actually have many expressed a correct point in the fact that fun is opposed by traditional setups as for example families or the tribes as well. Secrecy is therefore the biggest thing for girls as for boys. Dating western women must be generalized as dating a women who is not belonging to the traditional setup. She might be from Bahrain, Iran, ... USA, Argentina, anywhere.

Everyone can have the sweet taste of forbidden joy, and everyone of the dated puts rocks on breast of the fun-seeking guy/girl if he/she asks for serious involvement. I see the guys steadily running away and they do not consider religious obligations... as well as willing girls don't do.

What is the best of all? Protect your health. Don't mean that "unexperienced" attitudes won't exclude that he might have joined the company of one of these easy ladies who do it for money.

Secrecy combined with unfulfilled longings finds often very nasty release.

And if anyone is further interested in doing good. Make everything a littlebit time-wasting and test the guy this way. When he can stand more than 3 weeks and does not lose his interest, that is different to one week and after 3 weeks activity he vanishes.

As Muslims we may not have this anyway, and I work on marrying after having nearly 4 years complete patience.... but I know the weaknesses which try us. Sure, it is sometimes hard to stand firm against the natural desire, I swear: I will have the best [...] every day, to any time throughout my life... with my wife.

Hamood,

I've always thought men couldn't "make friendship" with women in "terms of Islam". Isn't it, like, forbidden??

That was strange, you don't want a western women but you do want to be friends? Did I get this right?

You are such a B--CH.

WOW Aisha, that´s the first time someone tells me I am fluent in english. I´m really not that clever, really. I think you are.

Lets just igonore Sunny/Redcajun´s comments.

Yes I do have to admit english is empowering and sometimes overpowering lol.

Hey guys ..

I can consider my self one of the "Qatari men" .. And about the realtion with "Western Women" .. I think the realtion would be under the terms of islam .. :)

In fact I've never tried to make a friendship with

"Western Women" .. LOL it sounds good ..:")

I hope to make friendship thru this site .. I want to empower my "english " ..

That's a very nice and wise saying, Aisha, thanks for sharing! :)

Hey, I can’t read it all,,4 pages ! But I have a confession to make :-D I learn from butterfly a better English than some other native members here. So fluent mashallah.!

Butterflyyy, there is this Arabic idiom that says that only the fruitful tree is to be thrown with stones ;-) it indicates that intelligent people like yourself are most likely to be attacked :-D

I would imply someone is dumb when they are talking gibberish.

How has the United States "been run through (very sorry Aisha) like a whore?" Frankly, I believe that is what they are doing to everyone else in the world isn't it.

And I believe RedCajun we were implying your sister was dumb, not you.

Don't worry Butterfly, we will except your stupidity cause you're Spanish ;)

what alot of rubbish Butterfly ... dont worry about it. Some people just talk through their A**

Que? Please can someone translate that for me?

First of all butterfly, I would not imply someone is dumb, when your country has been run throught like a whore.

LOL yeah true. And their wedding invitations? Two separate sets, one for women, one for men, and the one for men doesn't mention the wife-to-be at all, not even her name.

After having been here for some years, I find the following is the general situation.

Qatarie men view western women as a prize to show off to their friends, almost a status object to have a western girl. However when it comes down to the true basis for the relationship, they (generally) dont care less.

Western women generally on the other hand, date arab men for the benefits. The gifts and even money lavished on some of these girls is outrageous.

So in essence they are both getting what they want and deserve what they get !!!

They aren't even allowed to tell their friends their sisters names! I mean it's one thing if you have a slightly different Muslim name but if you say my sisters Amna, than that narrows down the field of who it could be to...what...100,000? It's almost like saying my brother is Muhammed.

No Qatari man would want his sister to meet anyone's brother! Not even his best friend's brother (and even if he is Qatari, too).

If you want to check what your (potential) Qatari boyfriend really thinks of you, suggest your brother meet his sister. If he seems shocked, consider why.

Yeeeeuuuuuuuuuchhhhhhhhhhhh!

No, Quebec is one of my favorite provinces. Anyone who invented Blue Nuite and poutine is not all bad.

So their influence is not all bad then

And late night risque movies, and tons of porn stores, and booze available at conveinence stores, and Montreal, the list goes on and on

If you had french people whining at you day and night you'd do anything to keep them quiet to. ;) Why do you think we still let them smoke in public places when no one else is allowed, ditto with all the strip clubs.

Respect their culture. Think you just did it to keep them quiet. I would have said no. This was decided in 1759.

Que voulez-vous dire ? Nous respectons leur culture! J'ai appris tout mon français des boîtes de céréale et des signes.

At least then you could stop with the ridiculous thing of writing everything in two languages for the sake of 3 Million people.

I think sending Quebec to the Brits would cause civil war! But if any one else wants them they can have them ;)

LOL if that is true, then we can give Quebec to Brits as a tradeoff for Gibraltar (which goes back to Spain). This way nobody loses anything and everyone is happy. Quebec wants out, anyways. :p

Technically it was Canadians, you just still happened to be ruling us at the time. Either way I think both Brits and Canadians can take the credit.

That was us

Canada will be happy to help. Theres parts of Maine that we want back. I think Canada could invade the US and nobody would no anything was happening. After all, we're just Mexicans in sweaters. And we burned the white house down before, why not do it again.

DG that is a great idea. We could even get the Spanish and Canadian armies to help.....................!! Yeah ok maybe not

How about Spain keeps Gibralter and we all think of a way to give the US back to Britain? There entire Army is in Iraq, they can't be too dangerous now. :)

exactly Qcat, you got it! We need Bush in Spain! Last time he came, he said he wanted to cooperate with the "REPUBLIC of Spain"

Ok Butterfly now I know why you are jealous of Americans. If you were American you could just bomb the place in the name of democracy and who knows, maybe even get it back.

:p

I will be laughing when that happens

LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL

I know it will be ours eventually. We will go there kick some asses out to the sea.

NO! I speak on behalf of everyone in UK (including Gibraltar). NO!

give it back, you little bastards

Sunny Spain is the big square shaped country just above Gibraltar

Damn, If only I was american...

Sunny, I´d be surprised if you could locate Spain in a map

Dear All,

Do you all think that this discussion has any future. You are all very well educated people and letting yourselves into discussions which are totally unecessary because someone asked an opinion about dating Qatari men.

We are all people of this planet no matter creed or colour we should at least try to be polite and kind to each other it makes living in the world so much better.

Dohagirl,

Thanks, lol, I think now we are arguing over ME, and I am not Southern and I sure hope I am not dumb, racist or ignorant :p

I think your arguing over a person who can't possibly be real and is instead the culmination of every bad American sterotype out there. Dumb, Southern, racist and ignorant.

So are your attempts to act smart and a half all the time ..Super

TG,

Funny enough, I am not Greek, or from Greece. Try again? Yes no maybe?

tg your smarmyness is immensely irritating.

I always thought it was a great secret that you are from Greece..thanks for your polite response...

TG,

You can be as rude to me as you like. I used to actually pay attention to your rants before (nice girl that I am) but now with all honesty I am neither interested nor willing to waste my time on someone who has no clue where I am from and yet is continuously accusing me of "siding with people based on nationality" or being a racist in order to "provoke" me. Nah, not happenin'.

I have to be quite honest women have to know what they are doing with their lives. They nearly all have enough sense to choose their partners be it Qatari, Chinese, or what ever. If those girls are confused then I have only one piece of advice stay at home. Leave the Qatari men in peace.

Dating or marrying outside of your own culture is difficult and often distressing having also to deal with the partnes families - I know what I am talking about I have been there.

Cheers to Venom. That was the best Sunny pick up line I've read yet. :)

I just read two pages of this and NO cat fight! no tearing of clothes!! i want my 5 mins back! Anyways sunny if dating is all ur worried about then i'm always there..forget the qatari men, even though they have their fancy cars and look good...i'll take u around on my tri cycle that way you will only have to look at the back of my head which i'm told is very attractive!!

QC..I was neither rude nor offensive towards YOU..What ever I was it was towards the kind of posting coming out of Red...YOU jumped in with your attitude..I had to respond similarly...the Racist thing was just a pinch..a provocation..

Again in the thread of Ashagal..I wasn't even talking to you when you started claiming that I have a tendency of Claiming everyone is a racist..I dont..(and with an uncontrolled glee) you claimed that its no wonder the way Qataris treat the Indians (Generalizations don't show you in good light,If all are ill-treated they wont be here..) I have that tendency...There are 100s of western men and women on this website..I dont jump at people's throat (As you claimed)...I WAS NOT TALKING TO YOU IN THAT THREAD AT ALL..YOU JUMPED IN...

Before you start claiming again that I am rude to you..I would add politely that you should know when to butt in..and without attitude..You have just discovered in this thread (by jumping for Red..)..by having a tendency of siding with people based on the nationality/race like a couple of others..You dont necessarily win either the argument or the person..

Yeah TG I still believe you were quite rude and insulting then. Can you point me to a post of mine where I was rude and/or insulting in response to a perfectly sensible question? Or just plain rude and insulting?

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL

When I understood it the first day..and tried to correct Red..QC was a fearless warrior...Some justice this...She believed I was trying to Insult, I have been rude and what not...

We shall be "Objective" in our reply..??

If this was romantic/emotional/dating drama..then thrillers will have to step on the gas to stay different...

QC..No offence meant..I actually enjoyed all of yours angry but sedate responses much more than Sunny's ...LOL...

Butterfly, you are from Spain (although you speak and spell English better than Sunny). Now stop being jealous already! We all know that all you Spanish people dream about is to become American and come to Qatar to get laid.

Duhh

YOU ARE FROM SPAIN, STOP BEING JEALOUS!

Thought you were better than the rest but since you too are the same. I does not matter if I can spell or write the point of it all; are there any men in this country that are not limited in their thinking. Now lets go back to the subject at hand. As far as the attacks on me, well isn't that like calling the Kettle Black? Food for Thought.

She definitely can't write it. :)

She is not even american, look at her, she can´t even speak english.

This person can't be real. I don't even know what she's talking about anymore.

Sunny, if you are indeed a real person and not just someones idea of a joke, than tune down the attitude. There is no need to attack us for any perceived attack against you. You and your sex life has been the topic of conversation ever since your sister first posted about you. Honestly we did are best to answer your questions, and now we think you are just being stupid and ignorant.

As funny as I think your moranic answers are and as much as I was enjoying the chat about the social scene in Doha, I'm sick of reading your childish crude responses. Come to Doha and get laid, stay in the US and get laid, I don't care.

Just so you know, once should have been (ONE). Also, I am sorry for getting so upset with you. America always allows Free Speech...

I am sorry you too are siding with Equin whatever his name. Red was the one who started the round and in my defense I signed up and thought I should defend myself. But this is becoming overwhelming for even I. I was coming to help my sister out but the thought of coming into a country which is so limited in its thinking and in the Middle East is frighting to me. Red's intent was to find out as much as she could for me and try to see if I could find some social life while living there for awhile. So while all of you are judging and attacking each word we say or questions we ask, just remember, if questions had never been asked, then we would always live in darkness.

Since you are waiting for every word I write so you can have a little action in your life. I am not available to date you who has to be a real ASS, But you did make two points(Advise should have been Advice and I should not be attacking my sister around a prick like yourself. As for as Red and I, I am glad you think we are once in the same that ensures everyone reading the there is a fine line between, stupid and stupid and you are the lesser.

I wasn't getting at you Equinox, I was commenting on Sunny's intelligent, articulate responses. ;)

Sorry dohagirl, didn't mean to hijack the thread offtopic ;p

Just was expressing the idea of a possibility.

Continue please.

This is getting really stupid. I was happy to give advice on dating in Qatar, but this is just turning into a crude joke.

Lol, sunny818. Chill. Didn't mean to overwhelm you emotionally. Seems like my words did get your blood boiling, so you'd get the idea about words being sharper then razorblades, haha.

Seriously, I can only imagine a drama wh*** going like this on a forum.

Quote sunny818: "Sis you better stop putting my business on this damn website or I am going to give out your real name, real location and tell all your business online. Find a life and get it together. Go get the Turk Guy and give him some sex. BUT STAY THE HELL OUT OF MY BUSINESS!!!!"

As for your "adviSe" [Lol], I'd just say get a life retard.

By the way... I don't ever remember YOU coming here for advice... lmao... you contradicted yourself. 'Supposedly" wasnt it your sister [redcajun] who was asking for advice on the first post? You were against her posting that here. Now you say that YOU were asking for advice? Lol.

I know its easy to forget that you're pretending to be your sister when you get pissed off and can't think straight, Lol. Thanks for proving my point for me, kid. [;

Piss on you, seems like to me you have too much time on your hands to be reading what Red and I write. I came here for advise and who gives a rats ass about your darts are razor blades. Go to hell stupid is as stupid does!

Honestly, it just seems like redcajun and sunny are two bored kids with nothing to do, who're making up a drama scene mixed with mockery on this forum. Don't really buy a craps worth of their bullshit. That is just sad. Could be wrong, but been on the internet for way too long to believe anything [esp. such drama *ish] from a random person.

First CB and DG "helped" Sunny reach the Conclusion that "All ..." and "..date American"...Now it seems they are planning to confuse her again..!!

How come whenever I make a post it always ends up looking real bad. I haven't really met any sex! At least it doesn't read I haven't really had any sex, or I haven't had any problems finding sex, etc etc.

I never mean to be crude, it just always comes out that way. :(

I haven't really met any sex craved Qatari men, come to think of it. Met lots of sex craved Western men, but not Qatari. ;)

I would think it's a little hard to be sex starved when you can have up to 4 wives!

I don't think there is a problem with discussing dating options, I think the problem arises when you discuss WHO to date. Everybody's got their own opinions and sexual preferences.

Sufficet to say you can date in Qatar, there are lots of men to choose from, take your pick and get your groove on, just not in a place where anyone else might take offence.

And always remember to use protection. ;)

Tg,

I know quite a few Qataris and all have been extremely nice. They are good fun in conversation and generally enjoy good jokes, and mostly very kind if you need help and for that matter during all my travels around the world I have never at all had any problems. I have only had good experience, I have lived in quite a few countries now and am very happy for all my experiences

CB,

You are probably right on lowering the stakes of discussion a bit..Actually its the first time EVER I have seen someone discussing "dating Options"..I guess the only difference between this and marriage candidate is the "level" of "crudeness". The funniest part is the conclusion.."All Qatari men are sex craved"..I literally tripped..

Dear Redcajun504,

I am quite sure the answer is yes. Not because of the sex and because she is Christian but because of their family values.

It is up to us to remember we are all living in a foreign country and we are all diplomats of our own countries.

The younger men will of course try their chances as they do in any other country it is quite normal and has nothing to do if they are Qatari's or not. However, we should all remember that we are guests in this country and owe respect to their culture.

My advice to Sunny is take it easy enjoy your life but as you would do with any boy be careful and as I wrote here yesterday illicit relationships can get you into very serious trouble and this happens more often than you think.

Good Luck

Hey guys, this is a discussion site - why don't you pull the stakes back a little, we are all grown up here and no need to be offensive to each other.

I have been very busy this morning otherwise I would have like to join earlier.

I am very happy that our Marriage candidate is still on the site - is he for real - hmm I wonder.

Lokes like a real joker to me.

Watchout Doha! Sunny is on the way! :)

Looks like it's not Sunny who needs advice and protection regarding men in Qatar... Looks like men in Qatar better think twice when it comes to Sunny!

;-)

I guess..you think you are the smartest man on the planet (Your planet..that is..)...No offence meant..LOL

Except for me right TG?

I mean a woman smarter than me...... come on!

Any takers?

DG..Most women on this site are smarter than men including you..LOL..

Who's that? You'd better not say me or I'll cry. :(

I always thought there can't be a female version of GW Bush..I was wrong...

I'm just trying to keep the poor girl from getting an STD Super. :) But if she is really just here for a couple of months, I don't see why she doesn't date a Qatari guy. I thought she was looking for long term!

Go out and have fun Sunny!

This is awesome. I hope it's true.

I'm with Sunny by the way.

Sis you better stop putting my business on this damn website or I am going to give out your real name, real location and tell all your business online. Find a life and get it together. Go get the Turk Guy and give him some sex. BUT STAY THE HELL OUT OF MY BUSINESS!!!!

First of all you guys need a life and need to stay out of my business. I get it, I will not date any of the men in Qatari, they are just sex craved anyway.

Ok to all that have been following my trials with sister

Sunny. She is only coming to stay for awhile until I can get a Nanny for my two children. She is not here to find a career since she just graduated at Yale she is just taking time off. She does not need to date and I am hoping she goes home within a couple of months. Sunny thinks Qatari men are atractive and I think they are dangerous and are sex craved. Thanks for all you all comments and prehaps she will read and learn.

Don't be such a misery DG. "Focus on career..." boring, boring.

Focus on having fun.

TG, It does fit on the other foot quite easily. Usually though its those 21 year old Asian girls looking for marriage and will say anything or do anything to get it.

RedCajun, there are lots of nice guys here, but you have to sift through the bad ones to get to them. I really really recommend that your sister should wait about 3 months until she starts dating. I would recommend that to anyone moving to a new country. You need time to settle and get the swing of the local culture, especially the dating scene.

She's going to get a lot of attention here from men and she needs to develop her instincts to tell which ones are genuine and which ones are just after a fling. It's a lot like home, but home the man/woman ratio is a lot different, so instead of one or two guys at a bar interested in you, its 10 or 15. It can be overwhelming for the first time female traveller in Asia.

And just because a guy is American doesn't mean that he's a good guy. A lot of men (and women) travel to run away or because they can't handle commitment. Army guys (no offence to them at all) are usually just here for 6 months and than gone, or even just on leave, so a long term, or even short term relationship isn't possible because they aren't interested. (I've learned from experience in Korea) Also sometimes (and this is true of any military) guys who join the army are not all that mentally stable. I've been called every name in the book and punched in the face for politely turning down drinks from GI's.

I would really, really recommend Sunny focusing on her career and not her dating life for the first little while.

I am glad that you know my thoughts and you think my thoughts are from outer space, the fact that most men won't sex is not the issue. The fact is I don't want my sister to get hurt dating some man that will give her a bunch of lies and to scared to take her to mama. I been down this road before in America with a Turk who loved me but could not take me home to his family because they wanted a nice sweet Turkish girl for him. So we both married other people and each time he emails me he wants God and humanity to forgive him for falling in love with me. This is something I don't want anyone to go through so I told Sunny, leave the Qatari men along and let them marry their Qatari woman and live a great Qatari life. But Sunny does not always listen. I trying to save her from a broken heart and advise her to date American.

I am glad that you know my thoughts and you think my thoughts are from outer space, the fact that most men won't sex is not the issue. The fact is I don't want my sister to get hurt dating some man that will give her a bunch of lies and to scared to take her to mama. I been down this road before in America with a Turk who loved me but could not take me home to his family because they wanted a nice sweet Turkish girl for him. So we both married other people and each time he emails me he wants God and humanity to forgive him for falling in love with me. This is something I don't want anyone to go through so I told Sunny, leave the Qatari men along and let them marry their Qatari woman and live a great Qatari life. But Sunny does not always listen. I trying to save her from a broken heart and advise her to date American.

Redcajun504,

Is this your first time dating or dealing with Man ? Isn't it a fact that generally Man (of any Nationality) always try to get into Woman's pants ? You discuss this issue like you're from the Outer space !

If all this dating stuff are too complex for you & Sunny, my advice is go for "gineeshlee". He's the safest bet.

Why don´t you date our friend here, Gineeshlee, he wants more than sex...or so it seems.

Anyways, on a serious note. I´ve seen too many fat red drunken western turists around here lately...and you know what, Qataries are much better behaved than that. At least they are rich and handsome, and don´t get completely drunkenly smashed in public, so don´t worry about dating them.

Thing is, if you behave like a slut,all men will treat you like a slut. If you behave like a lady, chances are that you might find someone that treats you like a lady.

Hey is this "gineeshlee" geniune or a virus.

Seen this post a couple of places today.

I AM AN UNMARRIED INDIAN FROM KERALA LOOKING FOR A LIFE PARTNER OF ANY

NATIONALITY AGED BELOW 40.UNMARRIED/DIVORCEE/WIDOW SERIOUS IN GETTING

MARRIED TO A TRUE MAN ARE MOST WELCOME TO MAIL ME IMMEDIATELY.NO

DEMANDS.

Thanks dweller..You have been fair..

DG..your point is sensible..I tried to see if the shoes fit on the other foot..and its same..Ironical?? (LOL...)

It is a very rare Western man that would want anything more than what you just described. It is a very rare man in the West that wants anything more to do with a Asian girl than you just described. Its impossible to believe that the thousands of crippled shaking 70 year old Western men moving with 21 year old Asian beauties do so...because the guy was so romantic, loving and responsible that the girl fell head over heals in love with him..

I have seen Western men in various parts of Asia for the last 2 and a half years. Trust me when I say if you do not want to get burned be VERY careful who you date. Western opinion of Asian women is not very high when it comes to sex and dating.

Here I actually mean women from China, Phillipines and Thailand..Easy prey for western men..In other countries South Asia and Middle east women are not available..(I am not talking about hookers here..)..I have great regards for Women from These countries..and this should not be generalized..its only about those women who are seen with ugly old western men...

Sadly this has been the case for many years. Maybe it originally stems from the days when arabs had loads of money, visited capital cities (mainly in the West) and were naturally surrounded (as they were rich) by hookers.

Word spread when they returned that they had been with western women. The assumption would then be made that all Western women were loose.

That is the assumption that we came to many years ago.

Rather like the Western men going to Thailand

Life is not easy if you are a Western Woman, and the main reason a man from this part of the world would want a western woman is mainly for sex.

However, please do not for one moment think that the men and women here con't have premarital relationships - they do it just not talked about and it is not caried out in the open. Due to the conservative background of the boys they will always return to their families and it would be vry difficult for them to marry outside the families would not be happy about it.

I think it is much better to be very cautious out here although there are a great many handsome men and they can be very charming going through the Arab and Asian world of men they are all interested in SEX.

One of the things is that being found to be together whoc ae not married can get into very deep trouble here - just a little food for thought.

I must tell you redcajun504 Arab youths can go to any extent to get sex, but so is men from any country. Men have always sex on mind. It is always advisable to be cautious.

But why are you worrying? There is a huge expat population here, which includes Indians, Europeans, Americans and even Australians. So, it's not a problem basically.

Ask Sunny to be prudent and approach the things casually, without any pre-conceived notions, though caution is utmost required. You never know you may actually get a gem of person among these Arabians. After all, many of them have married Westerners.

But dohagirl as such is correct that youths here always look for sex. On my own experience I must tell you they see Russians, Lebanese and Filipinos as someone always available for sex. Actually, this part of the world has many prostitutes from these communities, thronging star hotels. Use your common sense and things will be cozier for you.

I wish you and your sister best of luck.

Ambrish ([email protected])

Ambrish

If you are not looking for a long time relationship, go for it...

When it comes to a question of sex, Nationality / religion does not matter...

that is my humble opinion.

Angelo

It is a very rare Qatari man that would want anything more than what you just described. It is a very rare man in Qatar that wants anything more to do with a Western girl than you just described. Meeting men here is like stepping through a minefield. 9 out of 10 of them just want sex. And they will do and say anything to get it from you.

I am not bitter, I do not hate men, but I have been living in various parts of Asia for the last 2 and a half years. Trust me when I say if you do not want to get burned be VERY careful who you date. Asian opinion of Western women is not very high when it comes to sex and dating.

Tell Sunny to stop advertising online for a date and come here and get the lay of the land first.