How to Overcome.......

cool down your imagination! go to Irish Harp and have couple of drinks...relax... flirt with some cute guys over there, and all your jealousy will get evaporated...

HE will get jealous...lol...

In order to overcome jealousy..you need not to trust your loved ones (only) but you need to trust YOURSELF...

trust that u are special and that u are unique and so even if they go with others you are absolutely INCOMPARABLE...

Life's like that but still can't give it up

I don't have a husband....

I have a wife and I am very happy that she doesn't possess this "incurable thing", she has jealousy sometimes, but I'm sure its still curable. heheheh

I have a suggestion: why don't you guys assemble an organization of a jelous wives then call it "Desperate Housewives"..., be productive, raise funds and march in-front of the whitehouse....heheheh (jst kdding)

PS: let crisea be your vice president.

hahaha yeah right,, kindly ask your husband if he has some friends (pref.single here / in their country)or maybe a brother who thinks can live with an "incurable"

partner like us

.. just PM me hehehe

" i hate to say goodbye, but i love to see u go"

don't let this kind of emotions kill you...

you must get your evidence before you react....

sometimes jealousy narrows your mind and hearing & listening stucks on a one way communication and worst com to worst, you might end up killing your husband out of nothing.

Now, would you like to have that to happen to you? Of course not... right?!

you're right silvermist! or shall we believe in my husband that "We're INCURABLE"! lols

Thanks for the info... but the thing is "how to overcome" right crisea529

" i hate to say goodbye, but i love to see u go"

:(

just for your info:

Jealousy is a common, complex, ‘normal’ emotion.

The Oxford English Dictionary defines the word

jealous as ‘feeling or showing resentment towards

a person one thinks of as a rival’. This definition

indicates that it is the belief in the presence of rivalry that is the key issue, and that whether or not such a rivalry truly exists is less important.

Jealousy within a sexual relationship has clear advantages in evolutionary terms: behaviour that ensures the absolute sole possession of a partner allows the

propagation of one’s own genes at the expense of

those of a true rival (Daly et al, 1982). However, when

the belief in rivalry is mistaken, much time and effort

may be wasted in attempting to eliminate a false

threat.

Morbid jealousy describes a range of irrational

thoughts and emotions, together with associated

unacceptable or extreme behaviour, in which the

dominant theme is a preoccupation with a partner’s

sexual unfaithfulness based on unfounded evidence

(Cobb, 1979). It is noteworthy that individuals may

suffer from morbid jealousy even when their partner

is being unfaithful, provided that the evidence that

they cite for unfaithfulness is incorrect and the

response to such evidence on the part of the accuser

is excessive or irrational. Healthy people become

jealous only in response to firm evidence, are

prepared to modify their beliefs and reactions as

new information becomes available, and perceive a

single rival. In contrast, morbidly jealous individuals

interpret conclusive evidence of infidelity

from irrelevant occurrences, refuse to change their

beliefs even in the face of conflicting information,

and tend to accuse the partner of infidelity with

many others (Vauhkonen, 1968).

"black and blue" Jayter! HOPE NOT....LOLS!!!

i better not... i wonder what will happen between you after seeing your husband... lols...

Yeah Zensme..i agree with you...but I don't know how to overcome it...

Thanks Jayter! you have to meet my husband...hahaha!!!

Qatarisun...of course I'm not his only GF before we got married! and I hope that I'm not the second/third or fourth as what you've said!(you gave me a not so good idea again, qatarisun as my imagination keeps working again and it might end up with an argument with him tonight)..hahaha!!

Like what he've said, his male friend's wives and GF's don't behave as what i did so he came up to a conclusion like that

Jealousy, and you are asking people to deal with it, rather you want ideas to deal with it...

O my God, too much of crap on QL i say, LOVEEEEEEEEEEEEEE....O my...!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

too much jealousy and the way you respond to it can result to a deadly sin.

QS...thats right live with it. if you completely overcome jealousy you are losing some parts of your feelings. this is one of the challenges in life.

I think I've discovered the secret of life - you just hang around until you get used to it.  ~Charles Schulz

how your husband knows that you are "the only woman in this world with such a behavior".. are you his third/forth/fifth wife? or he has some other experience, and all his GFs don't behave the same way?

Sorry. you lost me a bit..

Are you saying that you suffer from jealousy..

jealousy should be one of the 7 deadly sins.. it can destroy you and the partner..

So, learn to trust. If the guy two times you and you have proof, then leave him..

thanks for the share... i thought im the only man having such a wife...

it is really annoying...

jealousy is a sign of insecurity...sometimes ;)

Life's like that but still can't give it up

crisea529......... im still single hehehe..

" i hate to say goodbye, but i love to see u go"

live with it

We both have the same problem silvermist...My husband said i'm the only woman in this world with such a behavior!!! Good to know that I'm not alone and I can show my husband your forum..I'm sure he will say "We're UNCURABLE" as what he've told me before..

But he's already used living to it...sometimes he gets annoyed with my accusations linking him to any girl he mets, though I haven't catch him even once having an affair or just purely "fling".

Anyway, let's just keep our fingers crossed that our husbands will be fed up and forced to do our accusations as what he's always threatening me. or else...we'll be sorry....

Animals got that attitude... how much more we as "human"... i think its by nature... except for those who doesnt really cares...

Me neither lovinni.. "i cant stop being jealous its my nature"

" i hate to say goodbye, but i love to see u go"

fiery..instead of being idle, go out and see friends, watch a comedy movie and laugh your heart out, experiment a new recipe...anything that can make you busy.

i cant stop being jealous its my nature...

I think I've discovered the secret of life - you just hang around until you get used to it.  ~Charles Schulz

I always have the feeling of jealousy. Diversion to????

How to Find Your One True Love????? (http://onetruelovenetwork.com/)

:D

yes its normal and you cant stop yourself from feeling, even if you trust him/her. how to handle? for me, i dont think too much about it because i find myself over analyzing things and it will lead me to nowhere. i rather find diversion.

I think I've discovered the secret of life - you just hang around until you get used to it.  ~Charles Schulz

No.1 - is to Trust, because u loved them what is no.2 then?

" i hate to say goodbye, but i love to see u go"

JEALOUSY WAS NORMAL,,,,ITS THE WAY U HANDLE IT ,,,NOT SENDING YOU OVER THE EDGE,,,,,,

you need to sort out urself. every one has a right to make friends.

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by having trust and faith

and to be honest always

thats the way i do