can love be this blind??
By nadiafromlebanon •
a coworker today after i entered the office and saw her in tears admitted to me her secret relationship with a married man and a father of a young boy,when discussing with her the details she said that the man didn't tell her from the start of this relation that he was married despite her asking about this specifically,yesterday the wife discovered the relationship and today he said to her bye bye coz she is threatening to ask for divorce and she has the right to have the son and he can't live away from him,i am just wondering how can a woman be in a relation for 7 months without feeling that the person is married not that i doubt what she is telling me but can love be this blind????/////
oh drac u rock :)
she should be grateful that his loveless marriage made her more attractive and appealing. tell her to get over it.
thx!
Lol, Drac! That is a superb photo!
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Don't want no drama,
No, no drama, no, no, no, no drama
all i can say is stay away from cruel love,wasting time and energy on stupid things i guess coz i never fell in love till now with anyone and the best thing is to love after the marriage rite guys.........just be wat u are
I didn't do it!
And I'll not do it again!
He said he met his 2nd wife at the funeral of the 1st. He didn't say he fell in love with her there and then. I'm sure he had to have some time to grieve and then when he was ready to move on, he fell in lurrvvve...
/How am I doin', UkEng? Can I be Oprah's new Dr. Beat? It's time to think of a career change. I think I've found my calling...
//Oh shucks! And I was doing soooo well on my monosyllable posties ... My new image for this year was to be a person of few words.... Oops!
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Don't want no drama,
No, no drama, no, no, no, no drama
PEACE BE UPON YOU uk eng you met your 2nd wife at the funeral of the firsttttttt??????????/ you didn't waste no time ,come on,i think it is cheating sorry
Love is blind but not dumb!
a) he is a very good liar - it happens!
b) she was in denial - ie love was blind...
its shocking how some people can lie so well they convince everyone! remember that film with Leonardo di Caprio - Catch me if you Can????
I didn't do it!
And I'll not do it again!
How do I know if I'm blind or not?
"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach
So your blind heero..thanks for sharing that with us..
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HE WHO DARES WINS
Naah.
The only thing that gets men blind is when they thought their wife was a woman. LOL
(reminiscing an old joke from britexpat)
"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach
Heero What the men that get blind in Love.. any thoughts or is that just the women get blind?
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HE WHO DARES WINS
...and suffer the consequences.
"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach
Yes Eagle the fire has burned me and not sure about being refined or not..Looks like I am going blind..lol
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HE WHO DARES WINS
eagle you giving me ideas now with your encounter on the plane with the man taking his ring off..I think I have the same feeling some times..Then I think O I dont want another funeral..It could be me this time..lol
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HE WHO DARES WINS
I have pink , mink lines thong, I have a pink KIA and I'm a heterosexual (last time I looked)..
Life is good..
People make themselves blind, when they fall in love. They refuse to see reality , even if it bites them on the bum..
I used to share a house with a lady who was having an affair with a married man. She kept believing that one day he would leave his wife..Finally one day, it all dawned on her and she realised that she had wasted her life and he had had a great time for free...
yes the love make u blind , u will think about nobdy, u will smill just the one u love
UkEng, out of the frying pan and into the fire, now well and truly roasted, tasty and worth a million bucks. We are glad you were refined by fire. ;0)
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Don't want no drama,
No, no drama, no, no, no, no drama
There are alot of pink colour loving guys here just ask Pope Brit..
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HE WHO DARES WINS
You like pink, you like Kia's, you say men are bastards...
All the 'bachelors' around here got you, brit?
"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach
I didn't do it!
And I'll not do it again!
Reminds the day I met my second wife at the funeral of the first one. I felt like I was cheating on the first one..Anyway life goes on. One from Sad situation to another did not even a had a break between the two like a gap year to travel around the world and do all the things etc.. Well thats life I guess..:(
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HE WHO DARES WINS
Agree with BritExpat.. Men can only be Bastards, becasue women can only be bitches I guess..
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HE WHO DARES WINS
britexpat who are you talking about. Watching your image in the mirror. lolz.... Not all the men are bad and also not all the women are bad too. Its quite difficult to get some one nice.
Peace.
First time when my status: "bastard vampire" it helps me! :)
I didn't do it!
And I'll not do it again!
Men are real B#astards and cannot be trusted.. I know, I spewak from experience :(
jacki i didn't have a bad experience with men but 3 of my close friends had and it broke my heart too because my friends really trusted this men.
PEACE BE UPON YOU,THANKS TO ALL OF YOU,SHE IS FEELING BETTER TODAY I MADE HER READ ALL YOUR REPLIES,MAYBE ONE FEELS LESS ANGRY WHEN HE FEELS HE IS NOT THE ONLY ONE FOOLED BY THESE MEN,WELL I BELIEVE GOD (AND I MAY SOUND RELIGIOUS AND I AM REALLY LIKE THIS AND NOT ASHAMED TO ADMIT IT)WILL NOT LEAVE THIS MAN AND HE WILL REVENGE ONE DAY TO HER THAT IS WHY I FEEL MORE COMFORTABLE WHEN I LEAVE IT TO GOD AND IN MANY INSTANCES(NOT LOVE NECESSARILY)I SAW MY REVENGE IN MY EYES
Yeah, I know. That's why it's romantic.
/Sigh... the sacrifice of lurrvvve
//And that's why hero jump first. Lady love will think twice thereafter.
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Don't want no drama,
No, no drama, no, no, no, no drama
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eaglemmanuel...The hero dies in it remember??? ;p
You jump, I jump. (Romantic scene from "Titanic")
/You jump first...
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Don't want no drama,
No, no drama, no, no, no, no drama
love makes every one blind. dont try to jump there ;)
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sonam...Thats because you are blind... lol ;)
Yes love is blind becasue when i am in love i didn't know/see that my Bank balance is getting minus and minus....<
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Hmmmm....Rania...You been in Love???
We learn from our mistakes but learn more from OTHER people's mistakes. Saves a lot of pain and anguish. ;0)
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Don't want no drama,
No, no drama, no, no, no, no drama
jacki "open you eyes and do see and feel all the clues"
Agreed. Clues like the guy I was seated next to on a flight from Labuan to Kuching (East Malaysia) a few years back. He struck up a conversation with me as the plane had to circle above the airport due to bad weather and could not land. Halfway through the conversation, he slipped off the ring he was wearing on his 4th finger. Lol! Mid conversation and he didn't think I'd notice because he thought he had my total and undivided attention. I lost all respect for him there and then but of course, I didn't show it and he was none the wiser. I must have been born a poker expert.
britexpat - that's the tired old excuse, yes .. but the problem is, the girl already got emotionally attached to the guy BEFORE she found out about his wife. Therein lies the difficulty in breaking off. Can get derailed from life, you know. So, the best strategy is to be detached in the beginning. Gets misinterpreted often, of course esp. by the boys.
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Don't want no drama,
No, no drama, no, no, no, no drama
oh yes, bitter experience. well at least we learn from our mistakes
Love.....BlaHhh
She should dump him & find other guy like meh ...
Bitter experience, Britexpat, bitter experience ;)
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You sound as if you speak from experience :)
jacki i really feel so hurt every time i listen to such stories please woman open you eyes and do see and feel all the clues and until you are married never give 100% trust to any man once married to him try then not to listen to any rumors about him
can be,a man and a woman gets attracted towards each other naturaly.i advise that coworker of urs to forget that cheat and find a nice guy and settle coz thats not the end of this world and life.
Love sure can make you blind. It's amazing how stupid you can be when you'e in love :/
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I wonder how many times this excuse has been used .. "I love you, but can't leave my wife because of the kid(s)"..
Love can blind you to manyt things. When I was with my Cuban Shot Putter, I refused to believe that she took steroids..
Love makes people blind to the obvious..
Yes it can be I guess
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