what is the right thing to do?

bEtTer to LeaVe, anD stArT NeW lIfe

~*~"Today, give a stranger one of your smiles. It might be the only sunshine he sees all day."~*~

you're in love with him and he doesn't like you.

wake up.

get your self a DSLR and join us on our photoshoots.

"katas ng qatar"

flowers here are expensive. he is not worth it

...listen to the sound of silence....

Rules are a guideline for intelligent people, but they must be adhered to by idiots.

IN SHORT

HIS family was out for 3 months, and HE got disapeared upon their arival!

"I shall live this day as if it is my last. And if it is not, I shall fall to my knees and give thanks"

im sorry but it sounds so desperate to me.. the flower petals and all..geez.. what are u thinking? you dont want him to brand you as his stalker dont u?.. just leave him alone and accept the fact that he's gone... there are some people who hates goodbyes and maybe he's one of'em...

"there are so many rumors about me...feel free to believe in any of'em.."

Just turn the page and move on..... don't try to read those pages where the ink spilled over....

Legal..lol after all a Dog is a man's best friend not a woman's?..:)

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"HE WHO DARES WINS"

Derek Edward Trotter

get yourself a new one :D

I try to read half of the topic and got drifted away to attend my dog. My dog has more common sense than the writer. At least he sits scratching and starts barking in front of my entrance door, telling me he wants to "relieve" himself.

Sometimes humans are not comprehensible.

“terrorists rely on an endless supply of people living in extreme poverty, with no other options in life. The only chance we have to see the end of terrorism, is to end extreme poverty.”

Graduated from Xavier Institute for Higher learning

absolutely CLUELESS!!!!

i just get the inmpression that you lived in a rock,,or just crawled out of it for the sake of living. you even sent him flowers?

eeerrrr?stalker material????

if he doesnt respond to all...what,,, youll hold him HOSTAGE?

treat yourself to some sugar sweetie,,,if he doesnt like you no more,,,he never will...

I was wondering who has been leaving flowers and petals at my Door step. Just moved into this appartment, can't understand as see no one there when I open the door? It is really scary!

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"HE WHO DARES WINS"

Derek Edward Trotter

Furious, it's quite difficult to say your last name if I'm chocking ...:-))

“The fool speaks, the wise man listens”

he's leaving for greener pastures, get over it..

Petals on the doorstep? Are you f-ing serious? What the hell is wrong with you? Get a life sweetheart.

Petals on the doorstep? Are you f-ing serious? What the hell is wrong with you? Get a life sweetheart.

That's happened to me but on opposite site...:-))

The good news is she is not committed sucide...

Volley ball is not good for escape for situation like this..try Golf or Scuba Diving....I will join you babe..

“The fool speaks, the wise man listens”

just try to let him go even without saying goodbye...

it will be easier for you to move on...just make yourself busy with something else...goodluck & hope you will meet the right person soon!!!!

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amoud, it's like that movie FATAL ATTRACTION

I don't get why someone would try and force themselves on someone who doesn't want them. In all honesty it comes off as creepy and pathetic to lurk outside his house and spread rose petals on his doorstep...

Now that you are chasing him around doing all this creepy stuff he now KNOWS he can have you when he likes..... this will never make him come around, you have made it obvious to him that you are at his disposal.

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"Diplomacy is the art of saying 'Nice doggie' until you can find a rock - Will Rogers"

Maybe because christmas is approaching...bonding with family...

"never ever give up"

Rules are a guideline for intelligent people, but they must be adhered to by idiots.

hi furious_funker!

i have experienced the same with

my ex-bf...

we are a couple for more than 1 year

and suddenly he just disappear

without any message, calls or e-mails

i was even trying my best to win him back

for he was my very first ever bf in my life

(i had him at the age of 28 huh!!!!)

i was badly deppressed then, seems like d

end of everything for me

but I've finlly realized that there's a lot

more instore for me... life is good and

a brighter tomorrow is yet to come..

furious_funker he don't deserve your fantastic

Love, he is not man enough to talk to you

& not brave enough to honestly tell you what is

the real score..what is really happening

why he just suddenly disappear

Just go on with your Life,

i understand you really love this man

but letting go

is one of the best thing

that will make a person happy!!

enjoy life & learn for your experiences

YOU tried your best to know what happened but its vain

so now better leave it

do not stick with this

go ahead

enjoy life and never repeat your mistakes

i wish i had a stalker :(

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I'm Jack's complete lack of surprise

Rules are a guideline for intelligent people, but they must be adhered to by idiots.

"The cruelest lies are often told in silence".

Meditation is the only solution

You will forget easily for everything

Happen to me as well

though i for one do have a complet clue of your situation. Some guys simply sulk that partings may cause, no enough courage to face it thereby making no-so-smart reactions and some are just plain user without any sense of consideration of one' feelings.

and, cant help but wonder too.

"To err is human, to forgive is divine."

No ...I Bet its a male...

No female is going to spread flower petals outside a person's door.

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I'm Jack's complete lack of surprise

Maybe he just realised he is not gay...or he doesnt want to spend his life as gay!

i had to tell her that i got a job offer in nigeria , changed my mobile number and my accomodation and from that day on , i've never been to city center!!!

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I'm Jack's complete lack of surprise

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I'm Jack's complete lack of surprise

who the neck put petals in the front of my door?..grrrrrr

as a friend to him, it's ok to know why he's rejecting you so that you can fix it before you two separate but for me as a man, scattering petals in front of my doorstep is something that I would not be ready for, too creepy for me.

I bet hes an American..... now that you fall for him, and he doesnt want to you follow him. its as simple as that. take that hint and find a filipino for yourself who might suit..

As per most Philipino men here in Qatar, They are all married and have kids back home. Maybe he is just going back home for vacation not wants to tell you. Why do phino women think so stupid, do you really think all the phino men here are single and hold degrees.. Wake up you silly girl.. he will be back home banging is wife and playing with his kids.....

But if you don’t find anyone to fill your dreams, give me a Pm..I can always use some sweet sticky desert at night. Oh forgot to add I am single and hold a degree in engineering...

Rules are a guideline for intelligent people, but they must be adhered to by idiots.

He treats you as his wife and he does all his responsibilities more than what a husband does to his wife. He spends most of the time with you instead of his family.

Will you keep insisting that he is cheating you with her anytime he does not answer his phone when you call him or if he meets her?

You know that he has his work, his own business, family, and other responsibilities and so it is supposed to be understandable why he does not answer his phone call all the time.

so, furios, send him a text message that couple of packs of beer will be waiting for him at that time at this place.. wait for him behind the tree (hope you can find at least 1 tree in Doha???), jump on him all of a sudden, say "good-bye", and ruuuuuuun..

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"What lies behind us and what lies before us are small compared to what lies within us."

Oliver Wendell Holmes

Ok wacky I am waiting...

lol QS in most cases that would be more appreciated ;)

oh! that's what she had to send him!! pack of beer! it would be much more appreciated.. to send roses instead??? hah! WOMAN = no brain and no understnding whatsoever!

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"What lies behind us and what lies before us are small compared to what lies within us."

Oliver Wendell Holmes

i'll send you a truck load sandee ;)

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* Love me or hate me...go figure *

I wish someone leaves full beer bottles ouside my door right now :(

sandee...i think he found empty beer bottles instead of rose petals. forgive the guy...all is a blurry for him right now ;)

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don't give yourself too much of what you think friendship unto him...

you may consider him as your friend...did you ask him if he is considering you as a friend....

move on ...and go over it... anyway QL is here!!!

well, brit.. first you should have met furious on her 6th month.. then claim the petals..

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"What lies behind us and what lies before us are small compared to what lies within us."

Oliver Wendell Holmes

lol wacky...

Ya Brit drag your butt over to your house, No petals will be left outside Ramada's doors ;)

Furious Flunker Buy a big cage and put him inside, and keep him as a pet.

britex...maybe you are in the wrong house this time :P

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you're a guy (?) he's a guy (?) what actually do you want?

I just opened the door and looked out. NO petals on the doorstep :O(

QS do you think the picture even matters, just putting female in your profile and posting a thread like this is enough to get perverts like me started ;)

furious, my advice: keep calling him, or better stand beside his house and wait till he is comging home or going out, try to get his attention by dancing infront of him, preferably half naked.. also keep sending him roses, expensive gifts, jewelry.. or you even can send him some amount of money, larger is better, it helps...

good luck on trying to say a "friendly Good bye" from silly one to the complete jerk..

PM, couldn't she find a better picture at least?

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"What lies behind us and what lies before us are small compared to what lies within us."

Oliver Wendell Holmes

:-)

and don't lose any sleep over him. Tomorrow is a new day with new possibilities :-)

I didn't drink the kool-aid! -- PM

ON the contrary... we all are nice and it just happened that most of the people failed to notice and failed to see it. the way isee thing are we mostly pass judgement to others but the truth prevails that they are really nice as well all the ql members.... different views on forumns but took time to read and leave a comment. aint matter for me if they do leave a good or not advice simply just they are there that make sense to me and makes them nice... thanks guys.... gtg have a morning shift 2mrw........ good night........

you cant say a person that she/he is nice just for a short period of time unless you live with them for long,of course a man have to show the best

as he can same as the woman...getting to know each other will takes more years before you can conclude that he or she IS A NICE PERSON..

"never ever give up"

I just pointed out that I am sure you will get the invitations you are seeking. Enjoy!

:-)

I didn't drink the kool-aid! -- PM

ste.... huh?????????????????

furious, darling, dont call him mr. nice guy. he isnt nice. forget him!

thanks furious...you made the right decision now...

"never ever give up"

im not weak medulla it just happen that i do always treat all people on my way as nice as i cud for i only get a chance to be with them in my way on my journey. his been a good friend for the past 3mths... to PM... i did post my pix i dont see any thing wrong with it.. do u?

I expect his wife has just turned up.

"only mad dogs and englishmen go out in the midday sun"

I am sure you will get a lot of invitations :-)

I didn't drink the kool-aid! -- PM

One more thing Furious as friendly advice,dont be so naive and dont put your head so down otherwise those people will take advantage of your weakness...hope you get what i mean...

"never ever give up"

thanks medulla... ur advice same as what my manager told me...thank you much much more.. u make me :)...

has anyone ya guys knows people who love playing volleyball... so i cud join as well as spending my rest day something worthy of it...

well,i think give time to yourself to move on,dont keep thinking of him,try to make your time busy and hang out..give him space maybe HE has something that He dont want to tell and cannot face you...

never ever give up"

Too bad. Just forget about it. He's the type that have taken his sumptous meal and leaves without saying thank you. Possibly he had found new beds of roses to sleep on.

i did it coz i thought i did something wrong its my way 4 i nvr say sorry not in my life... i find assurance to the person that if i did a mistake or hurt others unintentionally i wont nvr say sorry instead i wont do it nvr again...

my sincerest tnx... its just painful in my part coz of i do hve purity of my intention as a friend to him.. so i keep on holding on...

don't think women who just want to be friends scatter flower petals in front of some guys door when he doesn't answer phones or texts. If I were him I would feel like you are overly attached and a potential stalker.

You have nothing to hold on to. Understand that and find a man who feels the same way about you as you do about him.

I didn't drink the kool-aid! -- PM

furious, he will suffer more than you and he will pay for it. Not worth it, as sandee remarked. Look ahead.

Read the book if you don't get it.

I didn't drink the kool-aid! -- PM

thanks britexpat... well, we are friends we dont have any more on that so i dont seen any reason for him to stay away...

Yep.. He doesn't want you to follow him around after he leaves Doha.. Silently he is telling you I won't be in touch after I leave Doha so Get over it, He isn't worth it.

he's just not that into you!

maybe you deserve someone better.

Seen it too many times. He needed you when in Doha. Now he's leaving, he wants to start afresh..

Forget the moron..

im just asking urs comment if u wud then i wud appreciate it if not things are mutual

We will need a psychiatrist on QL, sooner or later, I guess.