What if your friend does not invite you?

"Expect the unexpected from anyone"

will definitely remember it.

Another rule is “expect the unexpected from anyone” found this to be highly protective.

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knox. Knowing your mentality and the way you hijack threads, I understand why yor friend did not invite you and I support him.

Gypsy I agree with you to some extent. I hate wedding coz we have to do a lot of preparations and maintain this social smile all the time.

btw. in my wedding :( alcohol was not served but I managed to have my friends smuggle some bottles and for me it was fun :D

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I guess I am the one who is at fault. Whenever you put hopes or expectations from someone, you are bound to get hurt. So no expectations no problems.

so never expect anything from anyone and if you do then when someone does not comes up to your high expectations dont go on complaining like me

I'd be happy. I hate weddings. And to go to one where they don't serve alcohol would be hours of torture.

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not possible....my best friend doesnt invite me.... no question of beig invited...i probably be the one inviting people to his/her marriage

if you lucky you might get to go to the next one

or else stiff bikkies.

there are plenty of weddings to go to, seems to be all the rage nowadays....

just greet him and congratulate him when you meet him!

Greeting or congratulate a person should be with intention of sincerity.

Cheers!

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funny very very funny. be a man wise and positive and grow up. Just greet him thats all.

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I understand people getting married wont be able to invite everybody they knows. For financial reason or distance reason. If one of my friend getting married not inviting me, and i know the news i will still sending them a wedding card to congratulate them. Some people making a wedding just as a family affair, they can't afford to have a grand wedding. Some people rather spend the money for putting a down payment for a house which is IMO it is acceptable. I will be still sending a best wishes for them :-)

if u were a real friend, i think u doesn't need an invitation, some time people misses the person whom they love too much, also possible that he or she really forgot to invite you, in fact you should attend the wedding and celebrate it, im sure if he or she remember about invitation he might feel bad and will remember for ur good attitude

hmmmm...personal grudges?..he forgots (ok, very lame), envy?...ok knox buddy, they really don't want you to be there (reason(S) you will know eventually and i hope it will not break your heart :)

..but when and if you will see them, greet them still..:)

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A verry close friend?Well then i would ask him directly why.I would know his reasons and waiting a clear answer of him.

*Create your own destiny,fighting against your dark sides,raise your

spirituality.Every day is a new day.A new life.

Keep the faith!*

u r spending way too much time on QL...

and...if i were you, next time around i'd congradulate him supressing all the grudge within me :)...thus in a way freeing myself. :)

Don't waste your time pondering about it. If he was meant to be your real friend, he would invited you to his wedding.

Since he is not, You need to move on and when you wedding comes up paying with an invitation to him and his wife.

Don't forget to add the fine print saying: " Just remember your gradual invitation to your wedding"? "I'm not like you".

Don't forget to park the New Lamborghini as for my wedding gift outside my reception area If you decide to show up.

Emancipate yourselves from mental slavery

None but ourselves can free our minds..

Perhaps you are too dear to him…. he must have thought it unnecessary to formally tell you “you are invited to my wedding” or “please come to my wedding.

maybe its your attitude